How to Plan and Organize a Family Reunion

Family reunions are a source of joy especially when you come from a huge clan like I do. Although we have a lot of small gatherings every now and then, the Chua Clan decided to organize our very first "large" reunion last June 2007. Attended by around 160 persons, the affair was a success; and it paved the way for better relations as we come to know relatives we don't see often or we actually haven't met yet.

Assign or Form Working Committees

We were fortunate we had many people willing to share their inputs and at the same time, they were willing to be part of a committee. Good planning was the foundation for the success of the affair. Whether you have a small or a large group, planning is the first step to having an organized event.

Planning and Steering Committee: Oversaw the entire proceedings. Made sure all souvenir items were ordered and delivered on time. Coordinated with the resort (the venue) on the accommodations and all logistical arrangements.

Program Committee: Planned the activities and games. Coordinated with the performers (for our talent show) and assigned emcees / game masters.

Communications Committee: Made sure everyone was informed of the latest developments of the planning.

Finance Committee: Coordinated with the steering committee to know the expenses and funds to be collected.

Registration Committee: Took care of the IDs, checking in, and collecting information for the Chua Clan directory.

Memories Committee: Conducted the logo-slogan contest, created the family tree; collected photos and saved them in dvds

Transportation Committee: Made sure relatives were properly conducted to and from each venue.

The winning logo
The winning logo
Bowling
Bowling
Olanggo Island trip
Olanggo Island trip

Pre-reunion Activities

Before the actual reunion date itself, we had several pre-reunion activities. I hope these ideas may trigger your creative juices to come up with activities that suit your group's idea of fun.

A. Weight Loss Contest: Since contestants were scattered from all over the globe, we had to ask everyone to be honest in reporting their weights. Achieving a certain percentage (as agreed) from the person's original weight would be the basis for the winner. Prices were donated from various relatives. Those who didn't win also had to contribute a certain amount to pay the winner. :-)

B. Logo-slogan Contest: We appointed a person to be the coordinator for this contest. He chose the judges and made them anonymous until the revelation of the winner. The logo and slogan that was chosen was printed in our souvenir shirts, keychains and bags.

C. Trips and Outings: We organized a few trips around town (city tour, island hopping), sports activities like bowling and eating in native restaurants for the out of town guests.

Program of Activities

As in-charge of the program committee, I had to come up with a detailed schedule of activities ahead of time. So that during the day itself, we posted and distributed the schedule to everyone.

Activities were grouped into:

A. General Assembly: During the General Assembly, we were able to do the following: Prayer, Games, Introducing our Ancentors and each family, Awarding of the winners of the contests, Talent Show, Raffles, Acknowledging the sponsors and committees

B. Break out Sessions: Small groupings for sharing and getting to know activities. We also had morning exercises (optional) by the beachfront.

C. Fellowship: Meals and Snacks were a time to mingle and chat with each other.

D. Free Time: We also had time where the people could swim, play or simply laze around.

Other Important Things

A. Reunion Rules: The committee came up with certain rules for everyone to follow. Rules include being time conscious, never leaving small children and minors unattended, think of safety, no wandering from the group without permission, reporting illness promptly, smile and enjoy the activities and so on. Also we had a prior agreement that nobody was allowed to leave the venue for the three days, two nights reunion schedule.

B. Filling up of information / data sheets: All participants were asked to fill up the forms (vital information include contact numbers, birthdays and addresses).

C. Medical Team: We rounded up the dentists and doctors in the family and made sure everybody knew them. They prepared first aid kits as well as medicines for emergency use.

D. Sgt. at arms and Group Coordinators: We also assigned several people to make sure the rules are being followed. Group coordinators made sure their team members were all present on each activity. They also reminded their team with the schedule.

E. Memories Committee: Photographs or video coverage, Souvenir items, collection of photos stored in dvd's, quarterly newsletter to keep each other updated.

My Reflection

The success depended on several factors...from the planning to taking action and to the cooperation and participation of everyone else. I guess at the bottom line of it all, what was truly important was the love and friendship that we shared. A well organized reunion may be empty without the love that brightened it and made it meaningful.

The Chua Clan Singles
The Chua Clan Singles

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MrMarmalade 8 years ago from Sydney

This is great.

This is offbeat, I recently attended two funerals in the one week.

The first person had 185 people attend their funeral and the second person had three others apart from me.

They were almost the same age. I had known one for 60 years and the other 40 years,

in theory they would have known many people in common to each other

I thank you for sharing your large extended family


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ripplemaker 8 years ago from Cebu, Philippines Author

Your Welcome :-) It is large! Do you know I have an aunt who is 2 years old? My grandma's youngest brother just had another daughter 2 years ago. From weddings to funerals to reunions, we are always quite a large number. Writing this one made me realize the beauty of having a large family. :-)


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Zsuzsy Bee 8 years ago from Ontario/Canada

Ripplemaker! I always wanted to be a part of an enormous family just to be able to do reunions like the one you described.

great Hub

regards Zsuzsy


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Kenny Wordsmith 8 years ago from Chennai

We are a large family scattered all over and we usually reunite in weddings or someone's 60th birthday. I appreciate your more organized efforts and sharing your advice with those who want to do it.

May all families reunite and share their love! God bless you, Michelle!


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ripplemaker 8 years ago from Cebu, Philippines Author

Hi Zsuzsy and Kenny! Thanks for the feedback. Being in hubpages feels like having a family too. Maybe someday the hubbers could have a reunion?! hahaha Wouldn't that be great?


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Dottie1 7 years ago from MA, USA

Just heard you may be taking a trip to visit family for a reunion before years end. Just wondering if you are assigned to any of the working committees. I might add it looks like great fun dancing in the road with the Chua clan. Are you in that photo? Greatly enjoyed your hub.


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ripplemaker 7 years ago from Cebu, Philippines Author

Hi Dottie, in the photo (topmost), I am the one on the right side. In the last photo, I'm the one in front row- middle wearing black jogging pants and earrings. LOL And yes, I was assigned in the programs committee. :-) Thanks for reading this hub Sis.


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Dottie1 7 years ago from MA, USA

Hi Michelle, I really love the logo slogan idea printed on your t-shirts. I see you there in the front with your family tree t-shirt and earrings. I love your hub :)


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ripplemaker 7 years ago from Cebu, Philippines Author

It was a great reunion and we want to do again--maybe in a couple of years time. Thanks Dottie! :-)


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prasetio30 7 years ago from malang-indonesia

Reunion is the best way to meet our family who never meet, or because far distance. planning is the best to make great reunion. nice hub.


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ripplemaker 7 years ago from Cebu, Philippines Author

Hi prasetio, planning is indeed necessary if you want an organized event. It is very, very, very important. Hahaha Esp. if it is a big group. Thanks for reading and commenting.


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htodd 4 years ago from United States

This is really a great reunion...Thanks for that


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Trsmd 4 years ago from India

These type o topic and reunion has never been heard here in India. Reason. Here the entire family lives jointly they never got separated ..anytime they wish they are available. So nothing needed for ReUnion. Thanks for SHARING:)

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