Remembering Love on Valentine's Day

Thinking back


You emerge slowly from your basement, a basket of clothing under your arm. You round the corner and trudge down the hallway toward your bedroom. You pass walls filled with paintings and photographs of friends and relatives. They are your treasures. You walk into the bedroom—it’s a comfortable room filled with more paintings and photos that represent decades of living. You place the clothing basket on the bed and proceed with your tasks. You fold socks, hang shirts, and make the bed. After you finish your chores, you relax in the corner chair and look at the calendar. Valentine’s Day has almost arrived—that day for love and lovers. That special day you adore so much and have always cherished. You sit back in your chair, shut your eyes and let your mind drift back in time. You smile, almost imperceptibly.


Valentine's Day ideas

Love Remembered

Valentine's Day Passion
Valentine's Day Passion
A favorite holiday
A favorite holiday
Candlelit dinners
Candlelit dinners
Romantic moments
Romantic moments
As we mature, love grows also.
As we mature, love grows also.
Remembering love
Remembering love

Valentine's Day cards, cookies and an age of innocence


Eyelids droop heavily as images cascade before your eyes. You remember Valentine’s Days from long ago. As children, you had class parties in school to celebrate the day, replete with cookies and valentine boxes to fill with handmade cards you received from your classmates. There were no enemies—everyone was your Valentine. There was even a girl with long black hair that was perhaps a little more special. In those days, it wasn’t about political correctness or potentially inappropriate behavior. It was about respectfully recognizing feelings of friendship and allowing them to gracefully develop. The times were simpler and fun.

As you grew older, Valentine’s Day became a little more special, but there were some pressures, too. The girl with the long black hair moved away, but there was another girl. She was shy and soft-spoken, just like you. You didn’t admit it to anyone, but you considered her very pretty. You were both good in school and enjoyed the same things. You wondered if there was any chance she might have noticed you. Your heart pounded in your chest as you addressed your lone Valentine’s Day card and placed it in the envelope. The entire trip to the post office, you wondered if you were doing the right thing. The card slid from your hand into the mailbox, and there was no turning back. In a couple days, she would know you liked her.

You looked for any sign of reciprocation—for any indication whatsoever that the girl liked you, too. You tried to make eye contact in class. You were everywhere you knew she would be. Most importantly, you waited for the mail to arrive, hoping against all odds that she might have sent you a card, also.

She didn’t, of course.


A few more years passed. You did odd jobs and saved your money in the hopes of finding a nice gift for the girl you were really close to. She was a buddy more than a girlfriend, but sometimes there were moments that made you believe there could be more. An occasional look in her eye or a quick touch of your hands made you hope. You had no idea what to buy her, of course. You couldn’t ask your parents for advice and your friends were no help, so you gambled. You bought something you thought a girl would like and awkwardly presented it to her. You hoped she would realize the depth of giving in your small offering. You were giving her your heart.

She appeared appreciative, but it didn’t seem to matter. You wondered if there was another guy that perhaps she liked more than you. You guessed right. You were her friend for so long, she didn’t know how to see you any other way. She enjoyed your gift, but didn’t understand what it meant for you to give it. For her, it was similar to the Valentine’s Day cards offered with such innocence in grade school. Why didn’t she ever mention she had a boyfriend?


Time passed. Valentine’s Day was different for you as a young adult. Your gifts were risqué and flirtatious. You wanted action. It wasn’t just about sex, although that was a big part of it. You remembered dinner and drinks with your date, wondering why you were feeling a buzz and she wasn’t. You suspected the bartender weakened her margarita, or perhaps he made yours stronger. It didn’t matter either way—you were young and in love, and the night was yours. It was all you hoped and exactly what you were looking for at the time.

As you matured, relationships grew stronger. Sex was no longer the day’s main focus. You no longer needed Valentine’s Day to tell her you loved her. The day became one to remind her of your love. You hoped she knew, but you were still young and frequently inconsiderate. February 14th became your favorite holiday. Your plans for the romantic occasion were made and every detail had been anticipated. The dinner reservations were finalized. Your gift was the perfect combination of sentiment, practicality and originality. You were certain it would be the perfect day. You counted your blessings, grateful that someone so wonderful was in your life.

The years turned into decades, but Valentine’s Day never lost its importance. The dinners and gifts were still there, but it was a time for affection. It was a day to be nurtured and cherished. It was a phone call or a love note. It was a kiss or a wink from across the room. It was a day of adventure for the heart—a day of excitement and spontaneity. It was a celebration of the warmth and familiarity that came with baring your soul to another human being. Years ago you thought it couldn’t get any better, but it did.


Now you know how nice it feels


You gaze across the bedroom to the far wall, filled with those photos from days lived long ago—a lifetime ago. You look at one picture in particular. This photo was always your favorite. You were so young. There wasn’t any gray yet. You stared out from the photograph, looking sharp in your black shirt and blue sport coat. She was so completely beautiful in her dark red dress. You both looked happy and comfortable and natural together. It was easy to see you were in love. Everyone could see it. You belonged together.

You rise from your chair and head for the front door to see if you got any mail.


Happy Valentine’s Day.


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Ghost Whisper 77 6 years ago from The U.S. Government protects Nazi War Criminals

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww. I am sitting here reading and you have jogged my memory of so long ago. The Valentines boxes and the tiny candies-filling out school mates names. I have such fond memories as a little girl on Valentines day.

I hope there is something in your mailbox for you Mike-I do. I would love to see you happy and in love!

Happy Valentines Day, XXXX000XXXXX000000 remember these? lol

Love,

Your friend Ghosty :)


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Mike Lickteig 6 years ago from Lawrence KS USA Author

Thank you, Ghosty. And Happy Valentine's Day to you, as well. I hope your day is everything you wish it to be!

Mike


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Ghost Whisper 77 6 years ago from The U.S. Government protects Nazi War Criminals

I am alone Mike, nobody interested in me at this time so tomorrow will just be my only day off-laundry and alone..but your wishes make me smile because I know they are genuine, just as you are. If you were single and my neighbor, I think I would ask you to be my Valentines because I like your heart :)


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Micky Dee 6 years ago

Very nice Mike. This felt very much like a poem. It was a pretty read. Thank you sir.


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mbwalz 6 years ago from Maine

I loved that! I think it's so important to think of love, not just of your partner, but those around you. I always loved the fuss my dad made over my mom, but he also always gave me a yellow rose. Very special!


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Mike Lickteig 6 years ago from Lawrence KS USA Author

Ghosty, my wishes for your happiness, both on Valentine's Day and every day, are genuine and heartfelt. I am happy you recognize that. I like your heart, also, and I think the day will come when we both will find exactly what we are looking for.

Again, Happy Valentine's Day.

Mike


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Mike Lickteig 6 years ago from Lawrence KS USA Author

Micky, I actually considered varying the style of the piece and calling it a poem. I didn't think about it when I wrote it, but after I read it, I was also reminded of Frank Sinatra's "It was a very good year." The similarity in structure was accidental, but I liked it.

Thanks for reading.

Mike


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Mike Lickteig 6 years ago from Lawrence KS USA Author

mbwalz, thanks for your comments. You are correct, Valentine's Day is about love. For some people it's about sex, for others it's Christmas Part 2, but overall it is love. Your memories about your father giving you a yellow rose and doting on your mother are wonderful.

Have a great day.

Mike


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Paradise7 6 years ago from Upstate New York

This was a terrific hub and a great tribute to the most loved one.


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Mike Lickteig 6 years ago from Lawrence KS USA Author

Paradise7, thanks for your comments. Love is what it's all about on Valentine's Day, right?

Thanks again.


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Ghost Whisper 77 6 years ago from The U.S. Government protects Nazi War Criminals

:) XXXX000000XXXXX000000XXXXXX cyber hit girl ;)

I just sent you a private Valentines Day Card-just in case you didn't get one!


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ChristyJC 6 years ago from Texas

Beautiful reading! Once again, you have painted a magnificent piece of art in words! Happy Valentine's Day to you too!


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shazwellyn 6 years ago from Great Britain

Oh Mike.. this is lovely! You are a little ole softy, aren't you?! Love you mate x


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nadp 6 years ago from WEST PALM BEACH, FLORIDA

Beautiful. I look forward to reading more of your work.


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Mike Lickteig 6 years ago from Lawrence KS USA Author

GCHG (Ghosty-Cyber-Hit-Girl), thank you for thinking about me on Valentine's Day. You're the best.


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Mike Lickteig 6 years ago from Lawrence KS USA Author

Christy, thanks for reading. I appreciate your kind words and hope you had a nice Valentine's Day.


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Mike Lickteig 6 years ago from Lawrence KS USA Author

shaz, thanks for stopping by. You know me, I have always been an old softy, and guess I always will be.

Hope you had a great Valentine's Day!

Mike


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Mike Lickteig 6 years ago from Lawrence KS USA Author

nadp, thank you for reading my work and leaving a comment. I will look for your work, as well.

Thanks again.


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Lita C. Malicdem 6 years ago from Philippines

Oh, what a way to reminisce the younger days of your happy life with your partner. Valentine's Day is real nostalgic to most lovers like you and melancholy to others like me. Happy Valentine's!


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Mike Lickteig 6 years ago from Lawrence KS USA Author

Lita, thank you for your comments. I always enjoy Valentine's Day, and I hope it was a special day for you, as well.

Thanks for reading.

Mike


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Ghost Whisper 77 6 years ago from The U.S. Government protects Nazi War Criminals

How's my Valentines guy doing? Would you like your valentines day kiss now?? he he he.

(nobodys around to play with me tonight in hubberland..so now ghosty looks for people she can mess with!:)


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Mike Lickteig 6 years ago from Lawrence KS USA Author

Ghosty: mmmmmmmmmwwahhh. xxxoooxxx

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