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Children 's has their own world. Understanding their needs and addressing the same,is important.Some of the tips below may help you to upbring your child .

1. Allow the children's to choose the food items, dress items, playing things. Imagine you boss wants you to do something, which you do not want to do. You cannot neglect. Either you will do or you try to convince him. If you can't able to convince him , you have to carryout his instructions. Same way you treat you child. But don't forget , if you explain the child about the consequences , when she or he  in normal , it will give fruitfull effect.So, don't try to push your thinking on them.

2. Allow them to ask no of questions. You will accept that, by asking questions your IQ grows. Don't shout on them , when they ask unwanted questions also. Try to explain as much you can. This will increase confidence level  in children's. Not only that, it provoke positive approach towards parents to child. This will help you when they grow .

3. Teach the things as it is. Wherever you take the child , you try to explain the child , the surrounding things as it is. Whether it is technical or non technical or simple things. Don't try to be too smart by explaining the simple thing in a complicated way. By doing so, your child memory will sharpen and your energy will not get exhausted.In future they will able to mean it what you said.

4. Try not to teach them. Mean's change your bad habits and attitude towards anything inorder to cultivate good habit in children's. Because upto five years the child try to learn activities from mother and father. Either the style of talking or walking or other habits.

5. Totally avoid punishments. Make them understand in their own way. Being harsh, we are hardening the child's mind. This will make the child's life miserable in future.


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Kaie Arwen 6 years ago

Well said; children learn from the things we say, the things we do, and the time that we give them. It's our job to model the behaviors we expect, because if we don't, they'll be emulating those things we didn't want them to learn. I don't believe in the old, "do as I say and not as I do."

Thank you for this........

Kaie


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Kaie Arwen 6 years ago

Well said; children learn from the things we say, the things we do, and the time that we give them. It's our job to model the behaviors we expect, because if we don't, they'll be emulating those things we didn't want them to learn. I don't believe in the old, "do as I say and not as I do."

Thank you for this........

Kaie


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sarovai 6 years ago Author

Thank U Kaie Arwen for the comments. It is true that ,we change our attitude towards our approach.


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elayne001 6 years ago from Rocky Mountains

You are a positive influence to all who are raising children. My children are all grown, but I think our influence continues even to our grandchildren and that is where I am now. The tricky part is knowing when to be quiet as a grandmother and when to speak up. Thanks for a good hub.


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sarovai 6 years ago Author

Thank u elayne001 for stopping by and commenting.


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jennshealthstore 6 years ago from Florida

Yes sarovai I agree. If we change our attitudes then they will change theirs. I have learned yelling does not help. They want their opinions heard.


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sarovai 6 years ago Author

Thank u jennshealthstore for stopping by and commenting on this hub. It is true yelling at them will not help to solve the problem. We should work out our attitudes.

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