How to Get a Boyfriend
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How to get a boyfriend is not as difficult as you would surmise it to be. Getting a boyfriend is not like finding a needle in a haystack. The difficult part is not getting a boyfriend but trying to hook him up in a relationship. First of all you have to know where to look for a boyfriend. It is not a game of hide and go seek as you can actually make yourself available so that he can get to you.
The most popular places are the night spots and places where girls and guys go to have fun. You may appear a bit desperate if you walk into one of these places by yourself, so go along with a girlfriend and dress appropriately. You can wear a pair of jeans with a tee shirt and add a bit of glitter to stand out in the crowd and also you will feel lifted with a bit of shine to your wardrobe. When you go into the night spot, do not act as though you are there to watch the others have fun. Smile a lot but do not drink alcohol because your senses can get impaired and most guys do not like girls who are not particular about what they consume. You may think that you are having fun but the guys that are worth talking to are busy checking you out and checking out your behavior. So be cool.
If you are approached to dance, do not turn a guy down even if you are not particular about him. He is not asking you to marry him, he may just be asking for a dance. If you are being selective, then the other guys will not ask you to dance because they think that you may turn them down as well. Do not act like those girls on "Girls Gone Wild" to attract a guy because most of the time those girls are having fun with other girls and are not out to get a boyfriend. Also, you want to keep respectability as your safe mate because if you treat yourself with respect, others will treat you the same way..
Of course, there are other ways to meet girls and other places such as the library, concerts, malls, shopping centers and the grocery store. The best place to meet guys is to go to the places that they go to meet girls and that is to nightspots. Be on your best behavior and act like you have a sense of class about yourself so that you will attract a decent guy. Also you can network with your friends, family and classmates and let them know that you are interested in getting a boyfriend. Be careful what you hope for because once you get the boyfriend then you will have to deal with being in a relationship. Being in a relationship is another story so it is best to keep the friendship light and just to have fun.
You can meet a guy at a nightspot but you must be careful of your behavior and it is best not to consume alcohol or any other type of depressant. Have fun listening to the music and meeting new friends. Do not turn down any dances because the other guys are watching and you may reduce your supply of eligible boyfriends.
Sometimes, when you least expect it , you may get a boyfriend. Do not make it a mission to get a boyfriend, just be on your best behavior and look appropriate. You may meet a boyfriend just by walking out of your parent's house towards school. Guys do not like girls to be on the prow as they may think that you are desperate. Be cool and do your school work. Join as many clubs as you can and when you least expect it, a guy may ask to be your boyfriend. Good Luck.
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suiteorchids, thank you for your comment.
suiteorchids, thank you for your comment.
The problem with night spots is that most people are not themselves when they go there. In a nightclub, most men have pad answers already rehearsed for every question he can imagine a woman asking him. With that in mind, I find that in this atmosphere first impressions are extremely misleading. Also, I find that a woman entering a bar or a club by herself is not necessarily a sign of desparation. In fact, I usually interpret it as a sign of confidence and individuality. I usually don't approach a woman who is part of a group because 1) it implies she is just there to hang out with her friends and doesn't want to be chatted up by some guy and 2) when I approach a woman who is part of group of five, let's say, I usually feel ganged up on or that atleast one of the other woman will be jealous of the attention her friend is getting and will do anything to make me look bad. And, yes, I've experienced these things first hand. On the other hand, when a woman actually approaches me I get goosebumps, even if I'm not particularly attracted to her.
And I know, you're probably thinking, 'jeez, not this guy again', but I really do get a kick out of your hubs and I love our friendly debates:)
Jonathan Janco, thank you for your comment. I am sure that the hubpage writers will enjoy your take on "How to Find a Girlfriend." You have made the girl readers less shy about entering a nightspot as some guys view their solo entrance as a sign of confidence. Your comment is much appreciated.
You are very brilliant baby, i wish i have the chance.
sando5, thank you for your comment.












suiteorchids says:
2 months ago
Great hub, It's tough finding good men these days!!