I Am Tired of Seeking My Parents Approval I Am An Adult
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Why do you always think it's me causing the problems?You never think it's you.Mom..!... Dad ...! Why do you think it's never you causing the problems between us?This situation between us has been going on for years.So I messed up.Both of you are still holding this issue over my head.
I am tired of seeking your approval.
I am an adult.
I got to go!
Before we can deal with our own afflictions,we must recognize that they have a divine purpose in our lives.Each situation we go through helps us to comfort those that go through the same situation.It gives us a chance to learn something from the adversity.It gives us a chance to really love people for who they are.It gives us a chance to be humble." Many are the afflictions of the righteous,but the Lord delivers him out of them all" (Psalms 34:19 kjv).We have a Divine promise that God will deliver us out of all of our afflictions.
Deliverance.Everyones deliverance is different.It could start with just saying something or doing something to make the situation better for you and your family.Its about keeping the love you have for each other as a family.Okay so what if you are always the one that keeps the family together.It means you have strength of character.It's okay as long as peace and love is restored.It means you are able to work situations out to glorify God.
Love has specific characteristics especially when you have to put forth effort.Its called a demonstration without conditions.If you are the one that reaches out to keep the peace in your family-----good ......you 'll feel better .You'll feel better knowing you tried.
Another point: Call a family meeting.
Keep notes.
Let everyone speak to clear the air.Pray first that everyone will come to the meeting to resolve issues.Everyone should come with a plan on how they would like the issues resolved.May the best plan be voted on by the majority rule ethics (old or young voting).
Honor your father and mother.
There is a blessing that comes with it.You get healed! You get healed knowing that you put forth the effort to respect and honor your parents.And It releases you from a whole lot of mess.Get freed up.Make up your mind to forgive your parents.Do it in person and live! Kids (old or young) have to be taught good family values.Why ? So they can keep them up even into adulthood.
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Standing up to your parents, and still wanting to honor them, is a very hard issue, always. Thanks for sharing your experience . . .
Yes, Alice Clearwater it is hard because we are adults.But God gives us a tender way on how to handle each matter.One matter at a time.>peace 2 U.
Tamarii2
You have made some very good points. The relationship must change as you become an adult. You have a right to make your own mistakes as well as right decisions. Sometimes for many disagreeing with parents means that they are "grown." even when they are right!
Excellent idea to call a family meeting. Pray before you go. Try to listen objectively. Good family values are invaluable. God will always honor your sincerity
Blessings
I can relate to your sentiments, unless we choose to be ourselves, we will always be in the shadow and it puts a limit as to how much we can grow as a person. Get out of it and take to the world! Thanks for sharing.
fastfreta says:
5 months ago
This is a very heart felt hub. I hope whoever this is intended for, that it will turn out the best for everyone. Some good advice for families that are experiencing these problems. Very good hub.