You have women flirting with your husband. The real issue with regard to women flirting with your spouse is the issue of the flirting behavior of your spouse. You cannot control other women, and you cannot expect your husband to live in a bubble.

I have two recommendations for you. If you want to stop women flirting you need to ask your husband to give the ladies a clear message that he is married and that he cannot ruin his relationship with you. If he is flirting at work, there is not much that you can do, and usually those relationships at work are simply that, relationships at work. They usually don't go past that stage.

You could always spy on your husband at work if the concern is that great. You can have friends on the inside, you can hire a private detective, or you can just go observe your husband as he gets off work.

But if the flirting is at parties or at home, you can ask your husband if he would approve of your flirting with other men. Find out how serious he is about your marriage! You need to speak with him, and as the song says, be his only dream. You both have to try more romance.

Keep in mind that I am writing this as a husband who has been married 34 years. I am no doctor Phil. If these answers are not informaton you can work with I suggest you see a professional marriage counselor.

But I strongly advise you that you will not be happy if you try to retaliate by having a sexual liaison yourself. It will not be fulfilling, it will not give you satisfaction, and it will not give you the moral leverage to impress upon him the need for fidelity.