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10 Things Women Dont Like About Men

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By lesterd2009


Everyone knows that a woman's brain works completely different to a man's brain, we think different when it comes to relationships or love.

Have you ever heard someone say? "All men are alike" , yet I bet you have, I heard that saying so many times that I thought it must be true then, because I would hear it from my mom, aunt, female friends, and just any women.

But then I saw a clear connection between that saying and the women that said it, most of the women I heard say "All men are alike" were because they had bad experiences with men in the past. Most women that said that around me were because they were cheated, abuse or other reasons that made them not trust men or having the misconception that all men are the alike.

Well how do we really know if all men are alike? How about the most commonly hated things a women don't like about men, and make your own conclusions after you read them.

For Men: Read each one carefully and see if you have done any of them

For Women: See if you have come to the conclusion that all men are alike because of this 10 things.


1. Feelings

Women in general like to talk, they are socially open towards others, they make friends easily and express their feelings more often. Men are the complete opposite, a men expressing their feelings may be interpret by others ( men in general) as a sign of weakness, and in conclusion men dont like to talk about feelings with women, and some women do not understand why this is.

2. Relationship

Women hate it when men dont talk about the status of a relationship, because women like to know if the relationship is moving forward, men in the other hand likes to avoid conversations regarding a relationship status.

3. Being Ignored

Women hate when men ignore them, or dont pay enough attention to them, a women likes to feel special, and they hate it when a guy doesnt spent enough time with them or tells her how special she is.

4. Friendships

Some women dont like that during a relationship a man talks to female friends on the phone or hangs out with female friends, and sometimes a it can be guy-friends as well, because men together tend to act different, or might spent too much time with the guy-friends, a woman don’t mind guys spending time with their friends as long as the friends don’t start hogging all the time and attention.

5. Lying

A women hates it when a man lies, when a man lies and gets caught, theres a chance the "all men are alike" might come up.

6. Not Clean

Women hate a man without basic sense of hygiene and etiquette, a women likes to see a man well groomed and clean.

7. Past Girlfriends

A woman doesnt like to hear a man talk about past relationships or talk about how many girlsfriends he had, a man in a relationship talking to one of his ex-girlfriends is a one of the things a woman hates the most.

8. Goals

Women desire a man who knows where he is going in life as that's an attitude of winner and women want to be around such men. They don't want to be stuck around negative men who don't know which way their life is going and have no plans for the future.

9. Controlling

Women do not like men who act like door mats but at the same time they do not prefer men who like everything their way all the time. Women like to be in the leader spot once in a while and prefer men who are good listeners.

10. Insecurity

Women dont like when the man is always insecure about their woman, and when they have to track every move they make and every person they talk to, it shows the woman that there is no trust in the relationship.

Perfect Man

There is no such thing as a perfect man, or even a perfect person we are all different, and when it comes to relationships we must try to understand this, always tell your partner if you dont like something, honesty is the key to long lasting relationships, dont try to change your partner because it wont get you anywhere, no one likes to be told they need to change, but simple communication can open many doors in your relationship. If you want to learn some tips about how to understand your partner better and avoid discussions, read STOP A BREAKUP

Although men are not perfect, and we (including me) have many bad habits and flaws, we must try to comprehend our partners point of view, if we are aware of what our partner in relationship does not like its easier to avoid a confrontation or fight.

Theres also lots of things us men dont like about women, but if I begin making the list now I might not finish writting till the next couple of days...hehehe here are some in my hub 10 THINGS MEN DONT LIKE ABOUT WOMEN

Just kidding..thanks for reading guys and dont forget to fan :)

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msorensson profile image

msorensson  says:
5 months ago

I come from the perspective of having been born a woman and yet raised as a boy. No, not like a real boy but treated like a boy, a girl who spent more time as a child with her father rather than her mother.

In general men were not raised to "feel". They were raised to do. The opposite is true for women.

Lying is an individual trait and is not gender based.

All of the other things you mentioned can be worked out if people were very simply willing to say it as it is.

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Lady_E  says:
4 months ago

Totally agree with you. This should be emailed to all men and the fact is if men adhere to this, we'd have no reason to fall out of love with them :)

Tamara  says:
4 months ago

wow great job i love this article. you got deep!!!!!

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TicksProfessional  says:
2 months ago

I feel insecurity is the most unwanted and dangerous thing in a relationship.

Nice Hub!

Me  says:
4 weeks ago

I figure I should comment (from one man's perspective) on #2.

Talking about the "status" of a relationship can make it seem as though a man is being judged. To a certain extent, he is, but talking about a relationship based on a clear-cut status makes a relationship seem more like "to stay with me, you have to be at least a 7 on a scale of 1 to 10. This is where you stand right now."

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creativedreamz  says:
3 weeks ago

You are absolutely right and this post is very open guide to all guys to maintain a good relationship.

Henry  says:
2 weeks ago

tell us about women too.

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