1. Doing fantasy. 
   

If I want to spend a torrid night, I found something absolutely infallible. But I better be in shape because, after, not backward. I take the Cédric Pink (a box of strip-tease chic). Having spent the evening admiring girls guns but untouchable when it is both, he has a desire: I jump on it. It's not that usual, I do not give him up, but here is multiplied by ten. It flows over me, sometimes even before we arrived in our car, parking, elevator, everything was tried, while for him initially, he was out of question to get out of bed! 

Why does it work? 

Take her to a place with connotations that inevitably increase his libido is made for this. It works even better if it is your initiative: symbolically, the line between fantasy (girls in string in the process of dancing) and reality (you) is more blurred.   

Risk: 

It may not take the game and make comparisons slightly offensive? 

The alternative: 

Play you directly the role of fantasy (yes, that is ambitious, but quite feasible). Take him in a sexy lingerie shop and close the curtain bad for fittings: contemple but you can not touch you. This is the same kind of frustration before a show strip-tease, but more effective if you try that. 

2. Play inaccessible 

When I want hot, I dress very sexy. But not any time. Only when it can not touch. If dinner at a restaurant, for example, or with friends. The irony is if the night is long drama followed by restaurant and a drink with a bunch of friends a little sticky. Then it is like crazy! Sometimes I slip him the "I want you" in the hollow of the ear, at the very beginning of the evening course over the long wait, the better it works. 

Why does it work? 

It is smart enough not to dress sexy that night where he can not, a priori, nothing happened. It is obliged to be content to watch and fantasize about all the places where he could take you brutally if he had dared. Normal it is a crazy post. Delaying the time of the act, offering a guarantee of future love making ( "I want you") can only remain in a state of feverish expectation, necessarily beneficial for the quality of the reunion lit. 

Risk: 

He thinks you want to all people and not exclusively to him. Grosse scene jealousy.   

The alternative: 

Choose a lace blouse, sweater slightly transparent skirt under which one sees in a sealed thick suspenders? everything that seems innocent at first, but is almost indecent. 

3 Create a ritual 

I believe in aphrodisiacs. This is fairly new, because before, I thought it was anything. I found it absurd to imagine that chocolate, ginger or spices could have any effect on my libido or that of my man. Until the day we went to dinner at Indian restaurant. The night that followed was hot. Now, when you want thrills, it comes from the Indian. Is it the memory of that night or spices? When in doubt, we will always in the same order and the same thing as a code between us. 

Why does it work? 

The mere fact of eating is extremely sensual. Sharing plates, having them enjoy each other, licking his spoon, everything can become very erotic. The other aspect in this case, the usual. Some habits are good, here there is a ritual between the two lovers, that coded language? They are the only ones who can understand, and reinforces their complicity. They really are both unique to one and the other at ease together, they can dare, they know they will spend a wild night where anything is possible. 

Risk: 

Maldigestion. Western stomachs are not used to spices, wild night can turn into a night to the toilet. 

The alternative: 

Any ritual can be substituted for the Indian restaurant. The main thing is to have a code that means that night, anything is possible.

4 Take the lead 

When James does not look? Have especially wanted to caress, I found a way to bring mine nothing in my arms. Before, I râlais and went to bed angry. Now, I complain, I say it looks tired and I offered her a massage. It accepts nine times out of ten. I use an oil heater that I in my hands, smell is linked to sensual moments: nothing but the smell, I see him relax. Then I massage with my hands, it maintains contact with our skin. And when I feel it's time, massage drift slightly up what? It longer and turns to me fondle her. 

Why does it work? 

Massage your partner is a great way to discover or rediscover his body, to find erogenous zones unsuspected. Massage is also an excellent prelude lovers because it allows eroticize slowly caresses, to offer another opportunity to hope that your hand will lead to one place or another, fantasize (you are in his back), etc..

Risk: 

He falls asleep during the massage: annoying, especially if it does not wake up when your hands are lost.   

The alternative: 

Propose to take a bath with him and know everywhere. 

5 Playing the leading role 

've noticed some time ago that my man loves me to watch. I have often caught the eyes on me while I undressed. Every time I got émoustillée. So I found the "on" to switch to "sexual passion": I do a striptease. No pin-up style bar, but in my own way. I voluntarily undressed in front of him, a little more slowly than usual. When I can sense, I caress a little, it makes hysterical! 

Why does it work? 

Because it is sincere. This is not the strip-tease performance that can turn to ridicule. It does this because she wants, she knows that her man is receptive and that to show and even to give pleasure to excite him too.   

Risk: 

To do a little too crazy and trigger rather than laugh? An erection.

The alternative: 

She leaves a finding: the man loves watching him and his eyes because of the effect. There is no recipe, many men appreciate this kind of initiative, but for you to find what makes your crack. 

6 Booster his manhood 

I send text messages to my man in the day. Most often, two or three words, just saying that I think of him. But sometimes I loose and I results in full afternoon! At first I did not dare too much, but since I saw that not only he likes it, but that it makes much more spirited, I do less. 

Why does it work? 

The brain is the primary erogenous zone. Start in the middle of the day, and in a moment often inappropriate (one meeting in the office, a lunch between colleagues), to think about what you are going to make the evening a good chance to make a man crazy. The knowledge to a text is the direct cause you're looking to him and say, the message is saved, it boosts his ego and hence its performance. 

Risk: 

Feel harassed, he had the impression that you want to put pressure.   

The alternative: 

Take the initiative, undress him when he returned, boot the preliminaries and then under any pretext, have it wait a bit before taking action. 

7 Doing short-term projects 

With Brad, you love to be told what will happen. It started one day when I asked him what he would like me to him and he dared not ask. Since then, we speak often caresses that we would receive, things that would happen, it allows to test the waters for not committing blunders and, above all, it's pretty exciting! 

 Why does it work? 

It excites the imagination. The more you enter into the details, the more you dare, the effect will be more glaring. You can also confess to fantasies or desires that you do not express. 

Risk: 

You pack, to tell you that fantasies are not really dreaming, and you take him at his word.   

The alternative: 

Watch a movie together or erotic porn and comment: this allows you to talk about and observe any reactions without taking risks. 

8 Declare war to him

  Reconciliation on the pillow, I had heard, but I found it difficult. Make love being angry? It does not seem very exciting. One evening, Julien returned much later than expected, I was in a state of nerves not possible, I have made a memorable scene. Especially in its conclusion: the best night that we have known. I admit that it happens to look, to provoke, so we argue and we reach the hands! It gives these nights a more wild, even if it is never as strong as that first time. 

Why does it work? 

The explosive atmosphere between two lovers in love transforms the report in relation of forces. Each seeking to dominate the other, frolics are more fiery and passionate. If it works, do not hesitate to add: break a plate, yelling, drop you. 

Risk: 

He eventually grew tired of your attacks of hysteria, sex-positive, not always for the couple. 

The alternative: 

Define the rules by playing a game of roles. If you choose the characters of dominant or dominated (the driver and the hitchhiker, the burglar and his victim), you will have the same effect on parts of your legs in the air without the risk of clash. 

9 Take her in your world 

That's all stupid, but I noticed that the few times I dragged my man in the shops, he complained much of the day but it made me love like a crazy returned. Promiscuity of the fitting room? Emotional response to the annoyance of the day? Need to reaffirm his manhood? I do not know what is in this state, but in any case it seems to make the effect.   

Why does it work? 

It is a question of atmosphere. He finds himself in a place reserved for women, where they take their clothes. The taste of the forbidden associated with promiscuity and the possibility of cross strings can only émoustiller. 

Risk: 

Your neighboring cabin trying the same dress, but it has more than breasts and buttocks. 

The alternative: 

Cloakrooms the pool. Less glamorous, but easier to do so enter quietly (no selling watchdog), and your neighbor cabin is less formidable hat decorated with a plastic bath. 

10 Playing as adults. 

I love playing with Joey. We are like children, we throw an idea of the game and then falls at the age of 6 years! We play tag, games questions, anything, until you can cheat and play. In most cases, when cheating is discovered, it launches pledges more sexual ... and that is where it gets interesting! 

Why does it work? 

In falling in childhood, falls on the social mask, and therefore can be let go. When playing, there is a lightness that is that anything goes. Most exciting prospect of hyper touchs gooks and coded. 

Risk: 

Fall into the trap of all-fun and the offense by making a bad joke, or worse, too much sex desecrated and turned into good girlfriend.   

The alternative: 

Play childish games, but adult version. A "Truth or Dare" on fantasies or a dice game where each digit corresponds to a preliminary.