101 reasons to stay single
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The Big List Of The Benefits Of Bachelorism
1. Everything in your house is yours.
2. You don't have to hide gifts, receipts, and other purchase records in ridiculous places.
3. If you buy something "yummy", you don't have to buy twice as much.
4. The only person you have to dress up for is your boss.
5. Your late nights are all yours.
6. Less stuff to move when you do move
7. One bedroom apartments feel more spacious with only one person
8. You never have to ask for permission to orgasm.
9. Only the doctor can tell you what to eat
10. You decide what to shave and when
11. Valentines day costs less
12. No anniversaries to remember
13. No extra birthdays to remember
14. No extra family to shop for during the holidays
15. No irritating in-laws to deal with
16. You can walk around naked whenever you want.
17. Only your sense of decency has any say about where you leave your dirty clothes.
18. You don't have to share
19. You don't have to change your life because someone else has jealousy issues.
20. The only insecurities you have to deal with are your own.
21. Getting that out-of-state job doesn't hinge on what someone else wants or thinks.
22. The only people complaining about music volume are the neighbors.
23. You can fall asleep anywhere without getting any guff for it in the morning.
24. You don't have to use the "headache" excuse anymore.
25. You don't have to worry as much about the "oops, I'm pregnant" factor.
26. The only person who goes through your stuff is you.
27. The only person who sees your inbox is you.
28. More time to spend with friends.
29. You don't have to live with someone who can't stand your parents.
30. If you want to go for pizza at 3am, no one stops you or asks you why.
31. You can date more freely.
32. The cute secretary is fair game.
33. The whole wedding mess? Yeah, none of that to deal with.
34. You don't have to share your closet with anyone else.
35. You always get to watch what you want.
36. You always get to read what you want.
37. You decide when to crawl into bed.
38. You can throw yourself into bed and snore without dire consequences.
39. No one else's annoying (or disgusting) habits to deal with at home.
40. The only fetishes you have to deal with are your own.
41. You can talk to yourself without people saying "what?" or worrying about your sanity.
42. There are religious benefits, if you're into that kind of thing.
43. Single people can still adopt, if you're into that kind of thing.
44. The only annoying friends you have to deal with are your own.
45. You don't ever have to wonder if you really love the person you live with.
46. There's only one way to do things- your way.
47. You are the master of the thermostat.
48. The only messes you have to clean up are your own.
49. The only disasters you have to fix are your own.
50. If an argument starts, you can walk away... forever.
51. You don't have to make excuses for yourself.
52. The whole "old maid" thing is so last century.
53. Dinner can be as simple as a frozen burrito.
54. When you eat, you buy and cook for one.
55. No one else is going to eat your leftovers.
56. No one else is going to raid your stash of sweets (you don't even have to hide it!)
57. You don't have to share your bed with anyone.
58. You can even eat in bed if you want to.
59. You can decorate the entire house according to your taste.
60. The only person spending your money is you.
61. Three words: Marriage Tax Penalty.
62. The only debts you have to pay off are your own.
63. Kids with single parents can get more financial aid.
64. Bickering couples are at best a relieving reminder and at worst hilarious.
65. Less pressure about body weight.
66. Married people are fatter on average anyway.
67. Suddenly, it's okay to look (and flirt).
68. It's easier to focus on your career and your dreams.
69. You're the only person who gets to decide if you "need to make more money."
70. The only mood swings you have to deal with are your own.
71. There are a lot of lonely and violently psychopathic people out there.
72. You don't have to change your religious beliefs one bit.
73. There are 6.5 Billion other fish in the sea. That's 6,500 x 1 million. Yeah.
74. Porn is cheaper, easier, and comes in more varieties.
75. The toilet seat only moves when you move it.
76. Cohabitation is legal, fun, and less of a hassle than marriage.
77. You don't have to deal with someone else's kids all the time.
78. Divorce is pricey.
79. You don't have to deal with "compliment fishing."
80. Fewer minutes spent with a phone attached to your ear.
81. No endless nagging.
82. You never have to answer the phone "right now!"
83. You can drink what you want, where you want, and as much as you want.
84. No doubts or worries about someone sleeping around.
85. Things stay where you put them.
86. You can meditate and have your quiet time when you need it.
87. The only thing whining about not being fed is your cat.
88. You can take out the trash when you feel like it.
89. You can shower or bathe when you want, as often as you want, for as long as you want.
90. You can even leave the door open when you shower.
91. The longer you wait, the better you know yourself, instead of someone else.
92. Children learn how to treat themselves by watching how you treat yourself.
93. A bad relationship is like a lingering knife wound- it continues to ruin your whole day.
94. You can be as eccentric as you want.
95. Your car can be as dirty or unusual or artistic as you want.
96. You decide how long it takes to get ready.
97. Say goodbye to heartache, dumping, and being dumped.
98. You get your weekends for you and your projects.
99. You can be the wild friend with all the really juicy stories.
100. You can still get laid. Maybe even more often. Certainly with more variety.
101. Being single and staying single isn't selfish. It should be seen as putting your happiness first (Where it should be.)
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This screams it's 'all about me'. Nothing wrong with that if if it makes someone happy.
Quite a list! I imagine there are probably another hundred reasons to stay single. I've remained single after losing my hubby, and at first it was hard. But as more and more years have gone by, I'm quite accustomed to it. It does have all the perks you mention above, but it does get old sometimes.
Thanks for sharing.
Coming from a guy who is about to end a rather long relationship, I can say that this is list is truely inspiring and an excellent look at what lies ahead. I can't wait.
although I feel better having a boyfriend the things you say are so true extremely true and I think it is good to share with the one you love
I am happily married. Still, I sometimes yearn to be able to go where I want and do what I want when I want without having to tell anyone else or clear shedules etc. I guess I am at heart a loner. I love my husband, but should anything happen to him I don't believe I would get married again.
If you want to stay single then why stay as a single parent. You will be still married with the children & their father or mother too.
Here are few more.
Wife is a knife, that cuts a man's life.
Staying single, you will avoid being a kitchen queen.
Some disadvantages of being single.
Also, remember if you stay single then no free sex on demand, no one to cook for you. You end up eating junk food. Some other disadvantages too.
If you change, your mind & think to get married then do not wait too long. In case of a female after 35 chances of getting married are less & after 35 making children are risky too.
Very interesting hub & I really enjoyed.:) :)
Nice hub. It made me laugh!
While I appreciate the list and think it's funny/inspiring, and I agreed with most of it...you also loose out on a lot when you're single. I happily give all of that up by being able to:
-Have someone by my side. If something awful happens at work or I got hit with massive medical bills randomly, I have someone to rub my back and just tell me it'll all be ok.
-Be pampered. There's something to be said about a nice, homecooked meal, or a hot bath being run for you. Had a long day at the office? Let your loved one spoil you a bit.
-You have someone for those moments when it's "expected:" office parties, weddings, reunions, etc.
-You learn patience. You have to be patient when you're dealing with an entirely different person on a regular basis - you learn to respect and understand other humans.
-Affection. Humans are an affectionate bunch, and even if you don't like to be touched 95% of the time...that 5% when you do want to and it can't happen - hurts.
-Your parents won't nag you, wondering when you'll "meet someone."
-Healthcare! If you don't have healthcare through work, your spouse might ;)
-Those "quirks" that you say annoy you above, actually wind up being the very things you begin to adore - and it's nice to notice and be noticed regarding those types of things. Trust me. It's like a "personal secret" between the two of you.
-Your partner will probably make you laugh more than anyone else. I assure you. Who doesn't like to laugh?
I could go on-and-on. Being single is fine, but it's a very lonely route to go. It's no good to live your life being single for the sake of being able to keep your stuff and do what you want when you want. You might pass up the love of your life and then you'll never know what bliss can be.
Of course, on that same token, being married isn't for everyone.
This is a great list. How did you come up with 101 reasons? Great hub
Eh, it just took a little time, and alot of experience, haha.
I was single until I turned 40, so I understand where you are coming from. But, now that I'm married, I love it. It's so nice to have someone to come home to.
this ruined my night as I remembered all these things. I miss my frozen burritos.
I'm actually surprised you were able to come up with so many great things about being single. I'm like Yell up there, I'm glad to have someone, but you make a lot of great points!
Great points :-)
Yes, You are 100% Right
Excellent list. And so true. The only other being I have to worry about is my cat. Yes, I am happily single. :-)
Wow awesome hub as a married person you make me want to be single again, if only for a moment. I am amazed that you were able to come up with 101 reasons as well.
ha ha and Gees! With ads like 'meet married women' on here, no wonder bachelorism is popular.
Surely this list holds its weight with bacheloretteism as well?
I've been married for more than a decade, and I pray for death every second of every day. Either my own or hers. It doesn't matter. Either way has to be better than the hell I live in now. SOMEBODY KILL ME! I WANT TO DIE STICK A BULLET IN MY HEAD!
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Why You say so !!! Its seems you have unhappy marriage that can't get out of .. and you want death, why you say so you can get out of your marriage getting divorce if your life as hell as you just said.
You don't have to force your self have unhappy life. don't waste your life wishing for something you want to do, and simply you can't arrange your self to get divorce then you will feel the freedom again.
I really hate the divorce but as your current condition, its the best for you.
You did a fantastic job on this subject. I downloaded 2 copies of your 101 Reasons To Stay Single. I am sending one copy to one of my best buddys who just finished a brutal divorce. The other, I'm sending to his older brother, who is now going through a divorce. I have been divorced for 26 years, after 21 years of marriage, including two wonderful chidren. If I had to do it over again, I wouldn't. I am very happy being single. I wouldn't go back to that marrage thing for all the money in the world.
Great list of reasons to stay single! Great job! Funniest comment is "this ruined my night...I miss my frozen burritos." Give that man his frozen burritos!!!
Number 25 - I am not sure that is completely true - really don't which one I am more worried about - actually just reading that got me nervousNumber 66 - Very true line - too bad single people weren't fatter on average - that would increase my chances without a doubtNumber 69 - Really expected something a little different located hereNumber 73 - Probably the deepest the reason if you stop and think about it....mindblowing
excellent thoughts - great hub
RIGHT ON! In fact you've inspired me to write a hub like this from the Female Perspective.....lol
~Jeannette
Hey Ghostwriter99 go ahead it would be fun to watch the female perspective of this side
great hub- I especially like the one about having the bed to yourself! I love having a bed all to myself, no one to steal the duvet!
Boy you got that right!
I have been married more than once and I have decided NO MORE!! I am not saying that I want to be by myself forever but I am where I want to be. I will not leave my house. No one telling me what I want to do and when I have to do it.
I don't have to worry about moving out if a relationship doesn't make it.
I agree 110%. Staying single is the way to go!!!
I love this!! I am single, never been married and I completely agree with this list!!
I'm a bachelorette and happy with it. Love the "old maid" quip.
Awesome list!! Can go for guys or girls. Thanks!!
I couldn't agree more!
ha ha ha- good on ye man! I live alone in an apartment and its fuckin brilliant man, no nagging, no women to give money to etc. Btw Irish women are the same- oh what the hell all bloody women are the same aren't they- i'm only 23 and I plan to loss my freedom (aka code name marriage) in another 20 years. No i'm off to plan my holidays to somewhere sunny- no nagging battleax to have to shower with gifts- to think some blokes get a slaggin 4 bin single, well ha ha mate, look at all you blokes in relationship- do you actually get 2 minutes to yerselfs lads. Right time for the tea and biscuts, for 1- didn't have to buy for two. I'm watching my Manchester united dvd- so good look with the blog bud, f*ckin hillarious, but very very true
Oh yeah another thing, here in Dublins fair city we have a quay overlooking the liffey called Bachelors walk, so there you go we have streets named in our honour! Probably by some tied-down unfortunate. I sometimes look at my uncles and get really scared at the idea of been tied down like they are. Women crave relationships, and for reason- to change you in every single way. Its working on another level though with all the metrosexual ponses and nancies marching bout Dublin these days with the latte/panini stuff- tea and beans and toast is no longer gud enuf- these men are adding further pressure on us blokes to change our ways for a girlfriend. Still though theres no denying a woman comes with advantages, which will remain anonymous in case the PC brigade are at large, but this summary of 101 reasons is enough for any man to run a mile from commitment- don't forget Quigmire out of Family guy, what a life that chap must have
Am a university student.
I quite agree. After a 3 yr relationship, it was hard breaking up..But soon I got used to it. And now see the benefits
1.Mine was a long distant one. We met once in 4 months, and felt bad when apart. No more feeling bad now.
2. Huge amount of saving on phone bills.
3. Which means I can spend that money on other things like buying stuff for myself, eating out at the best restaurants in the city, buying new gadgets and designer wear etc.
4. No need to spend the whole of my vacations with her. I can spend it visiting new places, doing internships and projects at various companies and other Univs.
5.More time for myself as less time spent on phone.
6. No more listening to someone else's problems
7. Flirt with anyone, anywhere
8. Earlier I was really hoping to get settled with her after my graduation and then a subsequent MBA. Now I will live life the way I want. Go for MBA or MS. Then start my own company, or work for a startup or a big MNC. And no worries if my company does not do well coz i have no one to support
9.She does not wake me up at 6 in the morning any longer.
10. No worries of getting a brain tumor by being on the phone for more than 4 hrs per day
11.No more worries about doing an MBA/MS abroad.
12. No more remembering all those dates.
However, if someone comes along whom I find an attachment to, I would commit. But this time, I will just give myself more time. Anyways, for the next 5 years, I am really not looking forward to a serious relationship.
I would like if one day you will put 102 reasons for not to say single. It is not that bad even. If u have a loving caring partner.
Quite a list, nice one, but nothing beats being with someone you love for the rest of your life. :)
Well, single is ok... But having a good friend + lover is better, especially if you're neighbors. This way you each have the benefits of singledom yet companionship around the corner... when wanted.
I loved this! It was sooo right on! I couldn't have said it better. I never planned on ending up alone. It just worked out that way, and there are a lot of perks when you get used to it. I loved all of these points! I have found that being in an unhappy relationship is lonelier than being single, and that there is A LOT you can do to make yourself happier. I will happily change my mind if I meet my best friend in the whole wide world - someone I cannot imagine living the rest of my life without. However, I haven't met that person! I have never been this happy or content before, and there is no drama and no stress. At this point, I say, "If it ain't broke, don't fix it!"
Self denial 101. :D I'm with you!
I am from india 33, very fit and have enough money to live, tried getting married but some how i dont fit into the so called conventional mould of what girls are looking for ,so i finally decided enough and once i have decided to stay single and look at life that way i find that there is a lotttttttt i mean lot that you can do in life that will more than compensate for what you miss out as a married guy. Life is better this way and life is more exciting and beautiful
Amazing post dude. There are a 1000 more reasons you could possibly list.
totally cool, so does this mean you are a single guy.?
i love your hub.it is so true. sometimes i wish i was single.lol
I think you like leave alone so have much more exp.
Great list. You forgot one of my favourites though: You can fart whenever you want without a second thought.
(some married men do this anyway but then have to deal with death stares!)
My friend's bachelor uncle who lived 300 miles away enjoyed more than 101 reasons why he chose to remain single. Then at age 55 he had a stroke and was wheelchair bound. But he had to survive so he crawled to the kitchen for a bite. He eventually died alone and was found 5 days later, when neighbors complained of foul smell coming from his house.
It gets so hard to figure out gifts eventually. Each one always has to be better than the last. Geeeez....
wow i have 101 why you should not stay single
@Paul ...my wife and I have a mutual fart understanding. We both it.. which is strange, but that's why I'll never leave her. lol :)
MaY u right about most of these, but let me ask you this!!!! is it lovely to share ur life with someone u love, or at least if u got someone ur life would mean somethin to u!!!!! that's my view looool
Haha, so true, wonder why God made Eve for Adam.
Nice list of Points.
Haha - fun hub - and I would have agreed 100% before I got married!
I heard Shalini's laughter, and I just stepped in to have a look.
Well I can only think of one reason. You get to control the remote!
Interesting hub but I think I'll stay married thanks.
Hehe...makes me feel so nostalgic!
many of the reasons i'm single now!
I used to feel this way but once you meet the right person all these reasons go out the door completely.
Well, I disagree with your last reason...most of the 101 reasons can be summed up in one word - selfish. Not that being single is bad...
I envy you...
I just got married and then read this . . . damn.
Not really.
As someone who has been single and married (3 times) (Whoops, four), let me tell you this. Single and married are but two states of being, and should find every reason to think that either state is superior, if that is the state you are in. Life is what you make it, so be happy. The trick to a relationship is to find someone to be with while still being able to affirmitively read the above list.
I had her read this aloud and we both laughed all over the place.
Godspeed.
LOL, that is so true! Being single means you don't have to put up with a lot of BS from the other. I was placed in to foster care by a single parent. And now I want more freedom from the others. Thanks, it gives me more motivation to live out on my own soon!
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Ecstatic! Okay, I will be less dramatic. I am already sold to single hood. No bargain there:) Agreed several points reflects selfishness, but it's a *rational* list. I have tasted a few bitter relationships and now I know I am simply not made for it. It is easy to be a good friend or colleague but anything else is impossible.
- Happily Single, Male, 27, Chick Score: 4-full + 3-half (Counting...)
p.s. You know why I added chick score, don't you? Well to differentiate myself from losers:-p
Ecstatic! Okay, I will be less dramatic. I am already sold to single hood. No bargain there:) Agreed several points reflects selfishness, but it's a *rational* list. I have tasted a few bitter relationships and now I know I am simply not made for it. It is easy to be a good friend or colleague but anything else is impossible.
- Happily Single, Male, 27, Chick Score: 4-full + 3-half (Counting...)
p.s. You know why I added chick score, don't you? Well to differentiate myself from losers:-p
cool list
In my opinion life is meant to share all the little things with someone you love with. But that is the way I see life. You see it differently. That is what is so great about life, we all have different opinions, thoughts, morals, and journeys. Your journey would be fun to me for three days, my journey would downright depress you. But I sure respect you and your confidence and security you have within yourself.
Awesome list! somethings to think about, lol.
I agree with your hub. But i think that choice must be really coming from your heart, not that your only desperate so you wanted or remain single forever. I know many woman out there like me who wanted to find love but has not found the right guy at the right time chances are they might either end up single forever or even decided to just get pregnant without a father or a husband so they will have someone who will take care of them when they get old, that is when God allows them to reach that stage.Remember no man is an island. Remember too that we have 3 vocations and that is married, religious and blessed singleness. And if we remain to be single perhaps its our choice and God's will too. We just dont have to be insecure of those people with happy married life lols.
this is a great list, but the problem is that it's for pussy's who worry about that crap. What are you, 13? As a man with a wife, kid and dog, everyone in my family understands their place in the hierarchy structure where i am #1. My wife is #2 (She's #1 when i'm not around and the kid is #3. But also, my wife is my #1 cuz i decide to make her that). I'm not saying that i'm a big prick to everyone or a tyrant, but i work the hardest to provide and make everyone comfortable and they RESPECT that and don't "allow me" my space, but rather understand that i can do what i want, when i want. I didn't marry my mom, i married a woman who is awesome enough to understand her place and that i love her and will always consider/respect her opinion, but i have final say since i am the head of my family. Don't put Head of Household on your taxes if you can't man up to it...DO IT!
Fact: Married men are the happiest demographic according to various research studies. Following them are single women, single men, and married women (order of happiest to least happy).
Just FYI
Seems like some people agree and some don't. Guess you can get horror stories eighter way. You forgot one, leaving money in your purse and it still being there the next day. Marriage is definitely not for everyone, sounds like you got burned and might be bitter. Better luck in the future. I work in a nursing home and get to see what becomes of all the single men and women that get sick and have no one to help them. They end up admitted and the government sells their homes to pay the nursing home bill. They come in and don't get to leave. Their ages ranges from 50 to 90's. Strokes, Parkinson's, Alzhiemer's, alcolholism, just to name a few illnesses that bring the swinging singles to our nursing home.
102 you don't have to hear about how annoying and stupid your new friends are.
103 you can leave the party whenever you damn feel like leaving the party.
104 you don't have to feel bad about doing your school work "too much."
105 you only have to make excuses for your own behavior.
106 you can watch the movie you intended watching and finally return it.
107 the only idiot who smokes in bed will be you (if you ever want to) and there won't be any soggy butts in the kitchen sink unless you put them there.
108 the chances of your favorite t-shirt or worn-in pair of jeans being in the laundry are slimmer.
109 the only bookmark in the novel is yours.
110 the only person skyrocketing the bills, particularly for your cell phone, is you.
and....
111 the last beer is YOURS BABY!
Bedegroat: That has got to be the single best answer this hub has ever received! Go you! Virtual high five!
Its pretty hard in Africa to stay single. i mean, everyone begin to field rumours, your mum starts crying, your friends feel youre a nerd. i can also tell you, that sharing in an intimate way of extraordinary oneness is something special- that is also scarce, cos the ladies down here can be annoying. just to tell you, being single has its ups and downs. Iam single, i knw hw it is.
Its pretty hard in Africa to stay single. i mean, everyone begins to field rumours, your mum starts crying, your friends feel youre a nerd. i can also tell you, that sharing in an intimate way of extraordinary oneness is something special- that is also scarce, cos the ladies down here can be annoying. just to tell you, being single has its ups and downs. Iam single, i knw hw it is.
This is real nice.Must be thinking alot
I know these things are so true. I just wish it were easier to let the love go. I want my freedom back. Freedom to think for me. To go where I want to go. When I want to go. With no guilt.......or remorse!
Nice! There needs to be more hubs like this one. Not all of these "how to get my ex back" hubs.
I clicked the "mature singles only" ad ten times so you'd get some payback on your writing and also because they only listed "woman seeding man" and "man seeking woman" .......
#102 - Nobody to whine "Are you *still* reading those #@%$# hubs? Come to bed...you know I can't go to sleep until you do". ;D
Fucking A - great hub. Wish I'd thought of it, but it does remind us single people what a happy haven we really have. Kudos to you.
I can't add anything apart from you can choose to be with who ever where ever .
I am not so sure about no. 6. Seems like whenever I move I still have a LOT of junk. I keep trying to de-clutter, and someone just pops up in place of what I throw out.
dude, I like this a lot...I ought to read this everday! It's a wonderful reminder to me why I need to stop worrying about others...and simply live for myself. I've tried killing myself after getting down into a depressed state of mind after losing someone (them just not talking to/seeing me anymore) that I thought I really loved...and thought that they loved me...
Now I guess I'm just going to live for me....I am going to live for me! and I'll be your friend....but....I don't know about anything more....too much to worry about....
you should check out my hubs....there's one on this very subject....
friends and making it a little more physical and emotional than a normal weekend social....
hope to hear from you,
kykid
Hah. I actually love this hub. I haven't quite been single in 5 years. I don't know what I was thinking when I was 13 and complaining about not having a boyfriend. ;) I do love my current man, though. With him I have more freedom than I ever had before, because he doesn't nag me nor do I guiltily bother him.
Someone here said this seemed quite selfish, but there are even more selfish reasons people get into a relationship or marriage. Whatever works for you works for you, right?
This hub reminds me of the unmarried.org site. See, so many people people feel pressured into relationships or marriage. Even the legal aspect of things are pushing people to be married to have benefits. So, that site advocates people who choose total singlehood, cohabitation without marriage, polyamory, and those who simply choose to never marry.
Here is a good paragraph signifying just that from the site:
"Images of single people in books, movies, and television tend to portray one of two stereotypes: either lonely and leading a miserable existence, or hip and stylish leading the perfect urban life. In reality, of course, singlehood can encompass both realities, and neither."
Sorry, didn't mean to make this into a novel! I just thoroughly enjoy when someone makes decisions for themselves and not to make other people happy. This list you wrote are perfectly wonderful reasons.
I read this thing, and I agreed with a lot of points. I am single and 27 years old. Part of me wants to be married because I'm craving and wanting affection and love. The other part of me doesn't want to because I have been rejected by so many women due to what i have versus what I don't have, looks, money, what kind of car I drive, what kind of clothes I wear, what kind of cologne I wear, just about everything you can name. So why do I want to get married? I'm sure the wedding looks glamorous and everything, but what's really on the inside of the marriage? How happy are the couple? I have been hearing of so many divorces right now it's not even funny. Why bother getting married anyways? I talked to 2 different friends of mine, and they are divorced! One of them is younger than me! He told me, "STAY SINGLE AS LONG AS YOU CAN!" If anyone can tell me how to kill a burning desire to get married and for affection, please let me know.
I disagree I would not stay single but I would date one girl
she's hot perfect personality for me strong sexuality stuff
very exciting sex this sex that watch porn copy cat when there
having sex on adult movies the actors in the movies doing the
action having sex something that turns me on by a girl and has
to be to hot to cheat or date another girl so I'am looking for
real love/sex because I'am a virgin and I am 21 years old so I
will wait to date when I finish college and get my own house
when I get a good paying job so it's best of to stay a virgin and stay single that way.
Live for yourself, and only yourself.
Never mind that there's then very little to live for, and soon you'll be bored with your pleasures.
Then what?
Being single is awesome! Give yourself a shot at the possibilities and love will seep through the window. Bad past relationships can hurt. But there is more to life then the past. How about the present. Some people like to give advice but may not say what you need to hear. So that's like bad weight on your shoulders. Listen to yourself, and how you feel and want to feel.. Basically it's a rough world, and reguardless of if you're already in a relationship or not, people are goin to try to wear you down. That's humanity man! Look around, ain't nothing perfect!!! Move on....peace!-The Dude
The next time someone asks me why I'm single, I'm going to show them this list.
Can I also add, you don't have to be responsible for anyone else's UNHAPPINESS....don't doubt it wasn't in the list..I think it should be at least the top ten.
AND no one else can be responsible for your happiness or unhappiness...
i am single because i am someone who has never dated or had a girlfriend and also my career, education, and also my own health are my top priorities
A wonderful and reassuring tribute to bachelors everywhere.
You don't have to worry about him cheating on u if he's not with you.
Being single is fun just join in adult websites and become
a member of it and have sex with the hot models you don't
need a girlfriend fuck that. Go to work do your job and
have sex 10times a day during your freetime outside of work
besides being single is fun and awesome never get married
ever because it sucks.
marcofratelli says:
11 months ago
"You never have to ask for permission to orgasm." ahahahah - great hub!