When I was a senior in high school, our class song was "My Way". I think I have lived most of my life that way, doing it my way. Sometimes I wonder if that is really the best way though. I think that personal growth is one of those things that differs for everyone. We all see things that we want to change and have goals that we want to reach.

I have lived my life my way, and as a result, have had to overcome many obstacles. From personal ones to financial ones. Maybe it would have been better for me to do things someone elses way once in a while. I have begun to make that change in my life. When I look back, I see, in some aspects, the mess I have made of things.

Through self-examination, I have found that the mistakes I have made, would have been made anyway. This brings on the personal growth. It is vital and unavoidable. Changes in relationships, a way of life, personal habits, diet, health, the potential changes are endless. As we grow, our dreams change, desires change, wants and needs change. I guess that is what life is all about, change.

My goals have changed. I no longer need to concentrate on raising my children, as they are all grown now. I only offer advice when asked or needed and give encouragement every day. One of my personal goals is to become financially stable. I know it will happen, just wish I knew when.

As far as growth on a personal level, I am losing those extra pounds that I have carried around with me. I am finally confident with myself and who I am. I don't trust as easily as I once did. I am still having to learn about being patient with myself. My life has settled down, and I like it this way, but I still wonder when the chaos will happen again.

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