Learning how to please your wife in bed starts with basic communication and an openess between each other. You have to open up the proper dialogue in the right time and place or you risk the chance of upsetting the balance in the house.

I want to share with you three sure fire tips you can use to bring a smile to your wifes face when you retire to bedroom. Each of these will help you understand the correct way of getting her  relaxed and hopefully opening up so she can explain to you what she truly craves.

In order to please your wife in bed you must be willing to try different methods. Sure, it's not easy to let go of our sexual wants and needs. But, if you can get her to share what she desires and show a willingness to try it, you have a better chance of bring her to new sexual heights. You need to be flexible in your approach. Try new positions, ask if her if there is anything she would like to try which might make it more satisfying for her.

How to please your wife in bed is possible if you have the confidence to allow certain toys to enter the bedroom. It's okay if she needs a little more help than you can provide. You both can have a statisfying experience if you just allow each other to be yourselves.

Sex is not a chore or a job, so lighten up and have some fun with it. There is no other way two people in love can show each other exactly how much they love and appreciate the other person.

One simple way for her to enjoy more sensation and better sex begins with a pillow. Take your pillow or a small throw pillow and place it under her back. This will allow you to hit her main areas and stimulate her a little better. I think you know the places I am talking about. I am trying to keep this PG as possible due to the censorship on Hub Pages. A small pillow placed under the small of her back will tilt her pelvis upwards, this postion will help her accept you better.

Make sure you explain to her what the heck you wanna try so she does not get all freaked out, sometime women can get put off rather quickly when we decide to throw a suprise in there.

Hey speedy! It's not a race. Slow down and try to last a little longer. I know I am a guy and the quicker you go the faster you get to enjoy your rush. But, it's okay if you give her a chance to catch up. We can finish in five minutes on averages. Did you know it takes the average women at least 15 minutes just to warm up.

Chances are the time you are about to finish she is just getting heated up. Next time your going to fast, slow down and focus your attention on her. You never know until you give her a chance to get on pace with you.

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