5 Dating Tips from the Devil
52There are millions of articles out there with dating advice, tips and guides to attracting women or getting a date. They offer some great advice except for one huge flaw, they are assuming that:
A) All women will be attracted to the same character traits.
B) We live in a world where people are rational.
C) Everyone you meet will be nice, receptive to you and want to hear the same thing.
We all know that is not the case so I have compiled dynamic tips to help guide you in your dating efforts. People are different and thus will be turned on by different phrases, topics and attributes. We live in a real world where everything is not always as perfect we would like it to be. So how do you approach a woman in a bar?
1) Project confidence in every interaction. Some of the best advice I ever received. No matter what you are saying, say it confidently. Although 75% of women state that cockiness is a turn-off, 85% say that CONFIDENCE is a turn on. I don't care how you look, how much you make or what kind of car you drive. Act you are on are top of the world and the pillar of success. Men and women alike can sense confidence or fear in another person. Whether it's your facial expressions or mannerisms. A good way to get into the confident mindset is to not care about another person's reactions. In other words, don't think too much about if what you are saying is right or not, but rather say what would come naturally to you. Having a lot in common is good, but no one likes a whimp who will agree with whatever you say.
2) A smile sells a soul. If your teeth are even slightly discolored, go out and buy some whitening strips and use them for about a month. Trust me. The vast majority of men have discolored teeth and women recognize that as an instant turn off. Your smile will stand out and you will get compliments. I tested this myself and have heard from many women, "You have a nice smile." Now I also had braces when I was younger, but a whiter smile can instantly draw attention and attraction.
3) Laugh your way to the heart. Everyone likes to laugh and women love a funny guy. People enjoy being entertained and since you are not on TV the next best thing is being able to crack a few jokes. Don't be cheesy or corny, but instead be witty and a bit sarcastic. Sarcasm is a universal sense of humor and greatly appreciated. Be careful that you are not too serious. Say your sarcastic little comment with a smile (a white smile) and gauge the reaction of your partner. If they give you the look like, "Are you serious?" put their fears to rest with a simple, "Just kidding."
4) Start talking to the hottest girls/guys in the bar. Why set your sights low? I know you many be thinking, "She's way out of my league," but remember what I said about confidence. A hot girl is also a person and many of them have low self-esteem to begin with, thus the amount of makeup and glamour they constantly surround themselves with. Plus you are not the only one who is thinking that this girl is unapproachable. I've talked to absolutely gorgeous girls to tell me that no guys ever come up to talk to them when they are out, and that they wished more would. You know why? Everyone is thinking the SAME thing. There is no chance in hell. Well when you're in hell what's to lose? Project confidence and have a conversation. I have met plenty of girls who have dated total losers, just because they were the only one's who didn't care who they talked to. After a lot of trying the hard way, I learned many of these great techniques from a website called GuyGetsGirl.
5) Be an enigma wrapped in a riddle. Dating and meeting new people is a thrill. If you are well off financially, don't let anyone know. A mystery is a turn on. To keep everyone guessing don't make yourself TOO available. If you just had an amazing dating experience keep your cool. Don't call the next day, or even in the next 3 days. If your date wants to go out one night and asks you if your available, say you need to check your schedule first, you may have some business related meetings. Relationships can become stale after time. Look at how many marriages turn out this way. Everyone's mind needs to stay active and entertained after a long period of time with the same person. Surprises are enjoyable. So keep them coming for as long as you can.
I hoped you enjoyed the first part of Dating Tips from the Devil. Although this can be controversial and many of you will disagree, I'm sure there are a portion who can agree. Often we don't face the inner realities of our relationships or dating habits. People rarely admit to their guilty personal traits for fear of being looked down upon.
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epifanny says:
16 months ago
what a refreshing change it was reading your tips.. each one i read i was like YES!! DING!! this guy knows what his talking about.. projecting confidence is what its mainly all about.. if you lack it it would be hard to follow thru with the rest .. great hub.. i really enjoyed it !!