^{excertps from Ramon Johnson, About.com}

A cheating boyfriend can cause tension in any relationship. Everyone hopes their partnership is built on trust, but what happens when that bond is broken and you suspect your boyfriend is cheating? Here are a few signs:

1. Suspicious Computer Activity
   These days, it's easy to meet men in chat rooms, forums or on instant messenger. Have you seen a suspicious name in your IM window or an unknown chat site in your browser history? A little digging can go a long way. Be careful trying to be a super snooper, though, and give your man space. It's just as easy to meet friends online as it is love interests. Your partner may just be reaching out for other gay people to talk to.

2. Sudden Changes in Schedule
   Some men may be spontaneous, but most of us keep a set schedule or standard routine in some form or another. This is especially true for day-to-day activities. Has your man's routine suddenly changed without you knowing why? Did his working hours increase or does he have a new gym schedule? Things often change in our lives. In turn, we decide to try and impress our bosses by working overtime or resolve that it's finally time to get into shape. But what raises suspicion is how these changes are communicated to you. Was the decision made without your input? Was there an attempt to include you? Are there any signs of progress?

3. Emotional Distance
   It's normal for the intensity of your relationship to decrease after you've been together for a while. There may have been a time when you couldn't bare to leave each others' sight and now you both enjoy your time alone. This isn't a sign that he is cheating, only that the relationship is starting to settle into a loving and comfortable phase. Nonetheless, take note of any emotional distancing. Has he stopped listening or laughing? Does he seem distant or spacey, almost as if he's preoccupied? Take note if your partner is there physically, but not quite "there" mentally.

4. Less Time Together
   Just as the intensity of a relationship dwindles slightly over time, so may the time you spend together. But spending less time with each other shouldn't be confused with spending no time at all. Don't react too swiftly. Who knows, his company may be ready to close on a huge deal and they need him around the clock. Or there may be some other legitimate circumstance that demands his attention. Many huge time commitments like these don't last for long periods of time and make sense. He may be working 14 hour days, but does he also leave home on weekends? Look for the unreasonable and unexplainable time commitments.

5. Instinct
   Mom always said follow your instincts and this is a time when that motherly voice can come in handy. If your gut tells you that something is wrong or that some other guy has captured your man's attention, then go with it. But take caution with how far you follow these feelings. Ask yourself if they are legitimate concerns or if you yourself are lacking trust.

These tips aren't meant to turn your trusting relationship into a game of hide and go seek and there are always exceptions. Trust first, but don't ignore the warning signs. If there are just too many inconsistencies for comfort, then communicate them to your man directly. Don't let him hear of your suspicions from a friend. Also, try not to be accusatory. Simply tell him how his behavior makes you feel. He may be dealing with other issues that have nothing to do with cheating on you with another man.

1. • Asking your friend if he/she thinks so.
   • He acts different around you.
   • He talks about other girls in front of you more often than not.
   • He doesn't spend as much time with you as he used to.
   • When he's on the phone and says he has to go because he's busy and you call him back to find out the phone is busy.
   • Doesn't call or talk to you as often.
   • Makes different excuses for one mistake.
   • Avoids you.
   • Pays more attention to a certain girl than you.
   • Gets annoyed when you ask him where he's been.
   • You find him with another girl when he's supposed to be somewhere else.
   • You catch him kissing a girl.
   • You sense it.
   • He tells you himself.

^{excertps from: How Do You Know If Your Boyfriend Is Cheating?}By Veronica L

Just suspecting your boyfriend cheating is heartbreaking, that aching gut feeling that something is not right. How do you know if your boyfriend is cheating or not? Is he just going through a "phase" or is he going out with somebody else, he is not supposed to? If your boyfriend is the one you where thinking of spending the future with, you need to find out the truth. You owe it to yourself, get rid of the worrying and get some solid proof. These are some of the signs you can see in a cheating boyfriend.

Working late - Has he lately started working late a lot? If you try to call him on his cell when he is working late he very seldom answers. If you ask him about it, he just tells you the phone was turned off.How do you know if your boyfriend is cheating or just working late?A lot of people work a lot today and it does not mean they are cheating. But if you suspect your boyfriend not being at work when he tells you, drop by his work. If he tells you he is working late, drop by with dinner without him knowing. If he is there working hard he will love dinner and think you did something very nice. If he is not there... you need to find out what is going on.

If your boyfriend is cheating he is most likely to communicate with his lover over the phone and computer, what are the signs of cheating around the phone and computer?

Cell phone - When you are together he turns his phone on silent or vibrate. If the phone rings he goes outside or to another room to answer. If you walk in on him he whispers and hangs up, if you ask him whom it was it is either a friend or wrong number.If he started acting different around the phone lately how do you know if your boyfriend is cheating? See if you can look at his phone when he is not around is there a suspicious number that shows up over and over again, both called and received? If there is, use a reverse phone lock up to find out whom your boyfriend is talking to.

Computer - Is your boyfriend acting nervous around the computer? If you walk in on him he will change the screen or minimize it. He spends a lot of time on the computer and he can not really tell you what he is doing online. If you check the computer history it is erased. That is a sign that he is doing something he is not supposed to why would he erase the history if he has nothing to hide? How do you know if your boyfriend is cheating on the computer? If you suspect him cheating and using the computer to communicate, install a computer spy ware. That will you solid evidence if he is cheating. You will be able to see all the sites he is visiting, all the emails and Instant Messages that are sent and received and from whom they are sent and received. You will get access to all the information you need!!

How do you know if your boyfriend is cheating? If these signs sounds like your boyfriend, take action today to find out the truth! Tomorrow and next week will not be better if you do not find out what is going on.