50 Ways to Meet people and Make New Friends

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Be connective with others, when you are in a new environment use it as an opportunity to meet new people and make friends. Some simple tips on how to start conversations and communicate with confidence.

  1. Be the first to say hello.
  2. Introduce yourself to others.
  3. Take risks. Don't anticipate rejection.
  4. Display your sense of humor.
  5. Be receptive to new ideas.
  6. make an extra effort to remember people's names.
  7. Ask a person's name if you have forgotten it.
  8. Show curiosity and interest in others.
  9. Tell other people about the important events in your life.
  10. Tell others about yourself, and what your likes are.
  11. Show others that you are a good listener by restating their comments in another manner.
  12. Communicate enthusiasm and excitement about things and life in general to those you meet.
  13. Go out of your way to meet new people.
  14. Accept a person's right to be an individual.
  15. Let the natural you come out when talking to others.
  16. Be able to tell others what you do in a few short sentences.
  17. Reintroduce yourself to someone who has forgotten your name.
  18. Be able to tell others something interesting or challenging about what you do.
  19. Be aware of open and closed body language.
  20. Use eyecontact and smiling as your first contact with people.
  21. Greet people you see regularly.
  22. Seek common interests, goals, and experiences in the people you meet.
  23. Make an effort to help people if you can.
  24. Let others play the expert.
  25. Be open to answering common ritual questions.
  26. Get enthusiastic about other people's interests.
  27. Balance the giving and receiving of information.
  28. Be able to speak about a variety of topics and subjects.
  29. Keep abreast of current events and the issues that affect all of our lives.
  30. Be open to other people's opinions and feelings.
  31. Express your feelings, opinions and emotions to others.
  32. Use I and speak of your feelings when you talk about personal things.
  33. Don't use the word you when you mean I.
  34. Show others that you are enjoying your conversations with them.
  35. Invite people to join you for dinner, social events, or other activities for companionship.
  36. Keep in touch with friends and acquaintances.
  37. Ask other people their opinions.
  38. Look for the positive in those you meet.
  39. Start and end your conversations with a person's name and handshake or warm greeting.
  40. Take time to be cordial with your neighbors and co-workers.
  41. Let others know that you want to get to know them better.
  42. Ask others about things they have told you in previous conversations.
  43. Listen carefully for free information.
  44. Be tolerant of other people's beliefs if they differ from yours.
  45. Change the topic of conversation when it has run its course.
  46. Always search for another person's passion of interest.
  47. Compliment others about what they are wearing, doing or saying.
  48. Encourage others to talk with you by sending out receptivity signals.
  49. Make an effort to see and talk to people you enjoy and have fun with.
  50. When you tell a story, present the main point first, and then add the supporting details afterward.


Online Sources for Meeting New People.

http://www.meetup.com/

Meetup is the world's largest network of self-organized clubs and community groups.

Meetup helps people:

  • Find others in their area who share their interests
  • Learn, teach, and share things
  • Make friends and have fun
  • Rise up, stand up, unite, and make a difference
  • Be a part of something bigger-both locally and globally

25 Places to meet new people http://www.essortment.com/all/meetnewpeopl_rbhr.htm

A great article on how to make friends and meet people can be found at WikiHow http://www.wikihow.com/Make-Friends

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Wehzo profile image

Wehzo  says:
7 months ago

Wonderful advice, and the beautiful thing is you are right. Great hub Research Analyst.

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thekingjohann  says:
7 months ago

bless you'r heart we all think you are just a dear valing

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compu-smart  says:
7 months ago

Hello..Very handy tips i will take on board..Thankyou:)

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Research Analyst  says:
7 months ago

Yes I thought 2008 would be a great time to connect with new people!

MrMarmalade profile image

MrMarmalade  says:
7 months ago

Enthusiasm in all ventures makes a tremendous difference.

I love your Hub.

Thank you

Research Analyst profile image

Research Analyst  says:
7 months ago

I agree with you Mr. Marmalade.

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soyelude  says:
7 months ago

Making new friends is a great and rewarding experience..thanks for the tips RA,it's bound to improve my people skills. Great hub.

T&TMommy  says:
7 months ago

I think that is very helpful advice. I found myself thinking of past situations where I could have really used this list. I'll keep it handy.

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Research Analyst  says:
7 months ago

I agree soyelude, its great to establish friendships that last a really long time.

ripplemaker profile image

ripplemaker  says:
6 months ago

Wonderful hub :-) With your winning smile, I'm sure it's easy to make friends. Openness to all these ideas is the key.

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Research Analyst  says:
6 months ago

Thats funny you say that ripplemaker, my mom said when I was a toddler, whenever we would go places, she would watch me as I tried to say HI to everyone who passed by.

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ripplemaker  says:
6 months ago

Hahaha I guess I was right about your smile. ...and your openness. :-) That's a gift, I believe.

Research Analyst profile image

Research Analyst  says:
6 months ago

Thanks, I sure hope so. I have been told I was too bubbly.

LOL

Vivenda profile image

Vivenda  says:
6 months ago

Excellent advice, Research Analyst! I'm so bad at making conversation with people I don't know. Hopefully this will inspire me!

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Research Analyst  says:
6 months ago

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Dottie1  says:
6 months ago

50 great ideas. Thanks for sharing them with us. Thumbs up!

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Research Analyst  says:
6 months ago

Thanks Dottie1

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