5 Ways To Know For Sure He Likes You

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By Rhomylly


You like him. You like him a lot - so much, in fact, that you'd love it if your relationship moved to a new, more intimate level.

But - and this is a big one, you don't know for sure if he feels the same way. And boy, will you feel like an idiot if you suggest the two of you start dating exclusively, only to find out he thinks of you as "just a friend."

Oy.

So how do you know, without risking terminal embarrassment by asking, whether or not he likes you as much as you like him? Here are five ways to know for sure:

He initiates communication. Whether it's via the phone, e-mail, texting, or Instant Message, if he contacts you as much or more than you get in touch with him, I've got good news for you. He likes you! Guys, in general, are not super-communicators. My husband Alex, for instance, would rather clean the bathroom with his tongue than talk on the telephone - unless he really likes the person he's talking to. I should have known that he was interested in being more than "just friends" before we started dating; ninety percent of the time, he would call me.

He just "happens" to show up where you are. There's a huge difference between a guy who manages to "coincidentally" show up at a party or other event you've been invited to and a stalker. But if he almost always just "happens" to be nearby when you get out of class, or he's a co-worker you just "happen" to keep running into in the hall or the cafeteria - don't believe his protests of innocence - he is more than a little interested in you!

You catch him looking at you - a lot. If you're out on a date with someone, and you catch him looking at you or watching you when he thinks you won't notice, he is hooked. Guys who watch their date more than they watch the movie - especially if it's not a chick flick - are deeply in like, if not in love. His expression is important, too. Up until the day he died, my father-in-law looked at my mother-in-law as if he still couldn't quite believe she'd chosen him - and they were together for over fifty years.

He makes reasons to touch you. And I don't mean sexually. I mean casually-but-often. He puts his hand on your back to help guide you into the movie theater. He brushes a strand of hair out of your face. His foot "just happens" to touch yours under the table at a restaurant. He tells you that you have dirt on your nose when you know you don't. He rests his hand on your shoulder for no reason at all. Oh, boy. Does he ever like you!

His friends know all about you. If a guy introduces you to his friends, and they know all about you, what does this tell you? Especially if the friends are being friendly and polite? Well, it'd tell me that he's been talking about you to them - a lot. It's a Guy Rule: men don't usually talk about specific women with their friends unless a) they've been recently, badly dumped or b) they're very, very interested. Since you obviously haven't dumped him - he must like you!

Men, even when they like someone, are often reluctant to make the first move and say so. So, if you like him, and you found yourself saying "Yeah, he does that" to at least four of the above signs, I say: go for it! Ask him out. Tell him you're very interested. If he's doing everything I listed above, he is a real sweetie. Grab him!

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kaci  says:
12 months ago

omg omg omg there is tis relly hot guy that goes to my school were both popular but im not as popular as him. we have every class togather and we sit right next to each other in everyone to. i dident think that he liked me because we never really talk. i think hes really cute and i really like him but i cant tell him. i always thought that he liked my best friend ashley. every time that i look over at him he is staring at me and he smiles really big i just thought he was saying hi or someting. now that i think about it its obvious HE LIKES ME i am going to call him and talk to him. ill tell what happens later peace!!!!!!!!!

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Rhomylly  says:
12 months ago

I can't wait to hear what happens!!!!

Molly  says:
12 months ago

I have been BEST friends with this guy for 11 years ever since 2nd grade. I know he likes me but he's not asking me out. Do you have any suggestions on making him feel less scared of asking me out?

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Rhomylly  says:
12 months ago

Ask *him* out. Seriously. Think of something the two of you might both enjoy, and ask him to go with you.

Make sure he knows it's a date -- not just friends.

lana   says:
12 months ago

well most of them apart from the fact that he dotn call at all but then again he has no credit and is only 14 as i am but he dose always tell me to phone him and i do alway meet him bu its more me going to see him than the other may around but he never goes anywhere anyway what should i do ???

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Rhomylly  says:
12 months ago

If he asks you to phone him, and talks to you when you do, then I think he likes you!

krys  says:
12 months ago

hi.. i was hopping you could help me with my problem. i like this guy but he's a lot older than me.. i dont consider it that that old.. but others do. i see him twice a week because we work part time together. he always says hi to me and how are you as soon as i get there and recently came really close to me and initiated conversation in front of all the kids and everything (we are learn-to-skate coaches). i really want to ask him out, or to hang out, but if he says no.. or he doesnt feel that way i still have to see him a lot... and it would be awkward.

help?! any advice would do. THANKS

Sydni  says:
12 months ago

Hey, I'm BEST friends w/ this guy i know-and he calls me ALL the time-like everyday and he always will go sumwhere if i invite him or if i say im going sumwhere he'l be like hmm-i should go-and ive never thought of him as more than a friend-b/c he really is my BEST friend-my parents love him and everything-i JUST recently started thinking of him as more and even after saying yes to all of the above im still not sure if he likes me as more than a friends b/c thats just how its ALWAYS been between us-we r both 16-please give me a lil advice on this-im confused and i dont want to make our great friendship akward by telling him i like him and him not feeling the same way

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Rhomylly  says:
12 months ago

kris -- what a cool job! Yeah, it would be awkward if he says no and you still have to work together...maybe that's why he hasn't asked *you* out! I'd stay friends, and try to be as good a friend to him as possible. Both of you aren't going to be working together forever, and it's a short step from "good working friend" to "someone to ask out".

Sydni -- being in love with your best friend is the absolute best thing -- especially if he likes you back, and it sounds to me like he does! Invite him to do something -- just the two of you, and see what happens. If nothing, then you're still best friends and he doesn't have to know. Or he may ask *you* to go somewhere, just the two of you. You never know!

Meredith  says:
12 months ago

My friend does three out of these things and he doesn't seem to like me. he seems to be interested in this girl sara, and hes been on and off with his ex, natalie. but natalie keeps dumping him for someone else. and sara shows no interest. and i change who i like every two weeks or so. but all his friends keep telling me he likes me.

so does he or is he just a flirt??!?! its driving me insane!

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Rhomylly  says:
12 months ago

Ask him to go to a movie with you. See what he says.

jamie  says:
12 months ago

What are some more signs within a " friendship" cause i know that changes things a lil bit

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Rhomylly  says:
12 months ago

If you catch him looking at you when he thinks you won't notice -- especially if he has a wistful look on his face.

If he gives you a CD full of love songs he's copied and says, "I thought you might like these."

If he never likes the guys you date.

These are all sure signs.

mimi  says:
12 months ago

I like this guy at my camp and he's done every thing in the book . Even cose me over his best firend in a game. He does look at me alot in a crowed and his friends are joking around him every time I walk by. There nicer to me to. The only thing I'm afraid of is Im not sure if he rely likes me and I'll feel so imbarresed if I asked and he told all his friends he sid no.HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!SOS

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Rhomylly  says:
12 months ago

So don't ask him if he likes you. Ask him out. If you have fun on the date, ask him for another one...

Alexis  says:
9 months ago

I really like this guy. He is smart, funny, makes me laugh, and i enjoy spending time with him. We flirt, talk, and mess around. He jokes around and tease each other. I look forward to hanging with him and seeing him in class. The classes that we have together, we seat near each other and talk and all that stuff. I send him signs by flirting and all that, but i dont think he is getting the message or if he is, he may be ingoring it. I asked his best friend to ask him about me so i can know if he likes me or not. The first time that his best friend tried and asked with his mouth, he just ingored him. The second time that he asked he wrote it down, and the guy just threw the paper away. I want to know if he like me or not. I am running out of ideas and i dont want to waste my time on him if he doesnt like me. I dont want tomake him like me, I just want to know if he does or not..

penny  says:
9 months ago

I have a friend who i have liked for some time. He does all the things listed above. However, about a year ago we were e-mailing back and forth which resulted in him saying that he only thought of me as a friend. I ended up dating one of his friends. We have since broken up (nothing dramatic or anything...it was mutual and we are still friends). My ex is on a traveling missionary team, and i never see him. The other guy and I have grown in our friendship and although i thought i was over him, i am beginning to have feelings for him again, i think. Is it an excellent friendship? or is it more? and how can i be sure he feels the same way, without confronting him about it again?

Kasi  says:
8 months ago

I have a friend who is in love with her boyfriend, but he recently told me he is gay. Should I tell my friend, or should I keep my mouth shut?

BJ  says:
8 months ago

Ok there's this popular guy in all my classes I like him a lot! IDK if he likes me and I'm like not pop at all! every time I look over I find him looking at me but then he looks away, and talks to me randomly! HELP

BJ  says:
8 months ago

Ok there's this popular guy in all my classes I like him a lot! IDK if he likes me and I'm like not pop at all! every time I look over I find him looking at me but then he looks away, and talks to me randomly! HELP

Lynn  says:
8 months ago

I am currently dating a guy that has children, I also have a child we have been dating for some time now and we have not met each others children yet, when we do meet them do we introduce the kids to each other as well or is that something that should wait???

vali  says:
8 months ago

there is this boy at school that I really like,and I think he also likes me too .He is constantly traying to give me hugs etc.i would love to get to know him better and go out with him, but it seems that every time I get close to him I have nothing to talk about with him and I dont want him to think I am the stupid kind of girl ; please help!what should I do about it

darleni  says:
8 months ago

i like thiz boy and we have alot in common but i dont think he knows that and i think hes really cute and when i went on hiz myspace and i read his blog and then i was surprised cuz we have alot in common, wat should i do to find out if he likes me back??? 

morgy--nickname  says:
8 months ago

hi there is this guy in my class and he so nice to me im the only girl he talk to and we flirt and talk on the enternet together i want to ask him out but how? (EVERYONE say he likes ME.

lala  says:
8 months ago

this guy is nice and so funny we text all the time i told him i liked him in september then i just stopped talking about how i liked him but before that he put his arm around me now its december his friend told him i like him but i dont act like i do and he stares at me at lunch when i am not looking and in one class he looks also but we dont talk as much as we used to dont get me wrong we text but does he like me and if not what do i do to get him to

lennotts  says:
8 months ago

..im confused with my classmate. i dont know if he likes me or he is just too friendly. i remember first week of classess he approach me and ask my name and offer a handshake but i wasnt that too friendly so i answered him sarcasticly.. and later i kinda noticed him talking to persons whom i used to talk to or whom i seat beside to,he always seat at the opposite side where i am seated to and sometimes few seats at my back, i sometimes catch him looking at me. and one time he seats besides me touching my knees unmaliciously.. and days ago when i was sharing a joke on my classmate he actually said that i really makes his day cause i always wears a smile and share a laugh everyday.. i really dont know if he likes me or am i just so paranoid about his friendly gestures.. i think he knows that im already a single mom and im a year older than him, its just recently when me and my boyfriend broke up and is it right if i started to like someone again or starting a relationship again? please help me.. what do you think about it?

One Guy  says:
8 months ago

Oh, dude...

She knows...

Yeah, what she wrote is exactly what I (or we) do...

meghan  says:
7 months ago

OK so here we go. i really really like this boy. and he knows that i like him. i catch him staring at me all the time.he is kinda reserved and gets red when some people he doesn't know talk to him. his friends know i like him and so do all of my friends. i have been wanting to talk to him for a while. and since i see him all day everyday i don't know how to start it. i have practiced saying what i plan to say BUT every-time i want to do it i get to scared and chicken out. i have absolutely no idea why i chicken out., and today i had two very good opportunities to talk to him and guess what i did? i froze and had no idea what to do. now am kicking myself in the ass and regretting not talking to him! ahhh what do i do about this? i want to be boyfriend and girlfriend by Christmas which is not that far away so i have to get the ball rolling. i might be going to one of him home basketball games. when i go do you think that i might be stalking him or just another sign of me being interested? ahh please help.

yogo  says:
7 months ago

hi there is this guy in my class and he so nice to me im the only girl he talk to and we flirt and talk on the enternet together i want to ask him out but how? (EVERYONE say he likes ME.

clarissa  says:
7 months ago

ok so there is this guy at school and my friends tell me that hes always lookin at me constantly....does he like me?????lol and is it possible for a guy to get attached when your friends with benefits too?????

bry  says:
7 months ago

i think tht this is an awesome page. in fact this will sertainly help w/ the problem tht i am gonna solve 2day. i really like this boy. he is 14 and i am 12. i think he will understand when i tell him the REAL truth. he knows i like him, just not the way i really like him. thankx!!!!!!!!!!

sad heart  says:
7 months ago

I had a crush on this boy since I was in the sixth grade,but I`m in the seventh grade.He`s in the same homeroom as me,but everytime I always see him he thinks that I`m mean.And I`m not a popular or the hotter.He`s ex-/I don`t know if they had brokend up back stabbing" friend".(Tears coming out of my eyes) I still do like him even though I have a boyfriend. Last year I had heard that he had liked me too.I am not sure if that was a joke or not.And I am going to try it out.

Please help me

kinishua  says:
7 months ago

What does it mean when a boy licks his lips at you

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Rhomylly  says:
7 months ago

He's probably wondering how you taste.

Kyleigh  says:
7 months ago

i like this one Boy but i am scared to ask him out because he is already going out bu ti know he likes me becasue he always stares at me in class

Confused  says:
7 months ago

Ok ,so theres this boy in my class who's always talking to me,trying to hold my hand nd always putting his arm around me and just iono ...but the thing that i dot get is that if he likes me,cuz heres the thing he does alot wit me but around my friend he ses sum of the same stuff just not alot,he waz tlkin to her nd i guess he sits in front of her so he put his hed on her desk and said "lets make out" but im not in that class but my friend had told me then he was walking wit her and he tried to hold her hand an he tries that wit me 24/7 but what confuses me is that who does he like.My friend told me that he is always tlking about me in that class (good or bad),but he doesnt talk bout her in our class and he gets this blank stare to where he stares at both of us for hecka long does he like me ??

CONFUSED

Super Confused   says:
6 months ago

Hey there's this guy I like but I'm not sure if he likes me. Were in eigth grade, just so you know. I also think he likes my friend. To me though he keeps sending mixed signals for example;

-sometimes he acts like I'm the only person in the room -other times he acts like I'm not even there

-sometimes he wants to be partners for a project -other times he acts like he trys to avoid me

-I have caught him staring at me -but other times i saw him stare at my friend

-We're in this group for S.S. {social studies -that retarded class} and for some reason he acts me for help, when he could have asked anyone else in the group

-He has complemented me before, but that was months ago and he hasn't since

-He also teases me {sometimes it feels like it's not playful}

-At times he makes me feel like I'm one of the guys -other times he treats me like a outcast

-When we do talk in the whole when we walk from a class we do walk a little close, but I'm not sure it's in the 'bubble' if you know what I mean, but still kinda close

-whenever we talk I see him staring at the ground or fiddling with some object, normally never looking at my face

-he does brag alot around me and brings up a lot of funny stuff

-one time we were in this clas and his friend was sitting right behind us and his friend kept saying,"Poke her." and more stuff about this her, i'm still not sure who 'her' is.

-And finally the scariest part of all, I met someone online with the same name as him, {I know his name because that's what his email adress is and i'm not a stalker!} but he acts differently and claims he is years older than me. We can talk to each other really easily and we can tell each other a lot {just not anyone else's secret}, do you think it's him?

jessica05  says:
6 months ago

Ok, well to start there's this guy i never really thought anything about him because i had a boyfriend, and to top it off he was my manager. im 21 and his 29. well once i started working with him more and more i noticed he would keep suggesting for me to leave my boyfriend that he wasnt good enough for me ( he wasnt and we did end up breaking up after 1yr and 6 months) well a little before we broke up my manager would goof of when we were working and we decided to go watch a movie together one night...well its been going on ever since for like a couple months now but its getting more and more intense..like if im scheduled to work, and his not he comes in. he calls, tx, emails me. his really sweet but he wont make the move and it drives me nuts..but he is super friendly so i wonder if his just wanting to be friends or if he is just scared because im his employee..we both talk about relationships, all the time, what i want what he wants..and than i also dont want him to be playing mind games with me..im just completely lost. i told him the other day if he had something to say that he should and he was like well you'll have to figure it out, so i told him well if you dont tell me ill never know and im not going to beg, so he just said fine you'll never know..what the heck!! he was engaged 2 yrs ago but they cut things off after 4 yrs so he was really really hurt but that doesnt mean he has to be chicken..how much more obvious do i have to be im not going to kiss his ass..HELP PLEASE ASAP

Confused  says:
6 months ago

so, I've been dating a guy for a year n a half, and a few months ago, he gave me his friend's email address, so i added him to msn, and we started talking alott, and i started to have feeling for him, and he's told me b4 that he would date me if I was single, and he compliments me all the time, over msn and in person, we've hung out just the 2 of us a few times, and it hasnt been awkward, I'm just so comfortable around him, I'm going to be 20 in a month and a bit and he'll be 21 in about 2 months, we have alot in common, but i dont know if he likes me as more than a friend, or if its strictly plutonic friendship... he tells me things that make me think he likes me, and then other times he seems like he doesnt...I'm not sure if its just because I'm dating his friend or if he just doesnt think of me as anything but a friend.....one night we were with our group of friends and he held out his arms to hugg me, so i did, and that was fine, i thought it was kinda odd that he'd randomly do that. but then a little bit later he did the same thing again...and throughout the night he continued to do it every now n then...one of the hugs tho, he didnt want to let me go, we hugged for quite a while...maybe I'm just thinking too much into the whole thing but I really wish i knew what to do, he would make such an awesome boyfriend, and I'd love to try with him, but i really care about my boyfriend and i dont want to hurt him. but I need to know if this guy has feelings for me...if I ask him I think the friendship would be screwed up and we'd be awkward around each other or he may not talk to me as much because he doesnt want to mess with my current relationship....i just wish i knew what to do....plzz throw some advice my way

daddeedaddeedooda  says:
6 months ago

well, i like this boy and he always looks up when i pass him, and my friend obviously likes him too, did i mention my bff since preschool? he always puts his arms on our shoulders when he sees a group of us talking, and he tied our shoelaces together! does he like me?

Cathy  says:
6 months ago

Hey i like this guy. hes 20 and im 16 hes also my best friends brother and i dont even know how or why i started to like him i just do and im really close with their family so it would just be way too embarrasing to tell him how i feel. i used to think he likes me because i would always find him looking at me but everytime i get near him he kinda moves away..i guess thats a clue but i dont want to get over him i want a relationship with him. any advice Rhomylly?

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lapak2000  says:
6 months ago

You are right because I did it all the things that you wrote here.

Worried  says:
6 months ago

I've been crushing on this boy for over a year. I've had dreams about him, and all my friends say he likes me back.. even my mother. Two days ago, i pulled up enough guts to ask him out. He looked at me and smiled and just shrugged. I asked what that meant and I THINK he said "I guess." I think i should wait and get a definite yes or no to tell my friends. Do you? and, theres rumors going around he's gay. But I know there not true.

hot ass chick  says:
6 months ago

this boy tyler evans asked me out but i said no because i was frustrated and now i really like him but i think he will say no to me because he went out on a date with one of my friends.what should i do?

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Cathy  says:
6 months ago

can someone please tell me what they would do about my situation im usually a very flirtatious person but not infront of him i jsut cant.. my post is the fifth one above this one.

Someone  says:
6 months ago

My friend asked this boy out for me and he said i really dont know her and i cant really go out with her if i dont know her.I dont know if this means he wants to get to know me then he will go out with me or its just a nice way of saing no.

Cassandra  says:
6 months ago

I like this boy at school and he is really hot. He always picks the seat next to mine so i think he likes me. He texts and calls me more than talk to me. Does that mean he likes me? i really want to know. We have sorta been on an unsuccessful date and he asked me out again this time. He's kissed me on the cheek and helped me pick up my books every day. exept for weekends. i think he likes me i just need a second opinion.

Hayley  says:
5 months ago

HELP A SHY GIRL OUT! PLZ!

I like this guy...A LOT. A LOT. A LOT. He works at a gorcery store my dad and i shop at. But i can't seem to form words (coherent words/if any) when i'm even ten feet near him. I see him at school(at lunch & after 4th period) I'm almost always in the same lunch line. His friends are always near him, he's never alone for me to even think of speaking to him. I think he like's me cause he's always turned in my direction, his friends nod in my direction when i enter the cafeteria. and the other day he was outside where I sit (I saw him over the hedge, he looked like he was looking for someone) his friend saw me and piont and for a split second our eyes met and the I ducked under the hedge! I'm hopLESS! HELP! PLZ!

Asimina  says:
5 months ago

Thanks!helpful!But what do we do with the guys that dont want to show that they have a Crush on you??!!! Thanks!

Confused  says:
5 months ago

There is a boy that i have known since kindergarden at least. In second grade he always used to flirt with me. He still does once and a while.We don't have any classes together. But he always stares at me when I walk past him in the hall. I can't tell if he likes me or what. He has not asked me out ever. But I think he would have asked me by now. But i don't know if he just thinks I am not his type and i will say no if he asks me out. I really like him but i can't tell if he likes me. What should i do?

GiecoWasHere  says:
4 months ago

I meet this guy, around the end of Janruary. He happens to be in my moms English class. When we first meet, My mom was talking to him, his cousin and [I'm guessing] hi other cousin. She had told me to sit down and wait while she finished, as I passed by [by what she has told me] he almost called her "Suegra" [mother-in-law] but didn't finish as he as that my mom looked up. She told me his cousin just laughed and elbowed him. That following Saturday they had a small party for my mom's teacher, birthday, and I was sitting a few seats from them. While he was talking to this other woman, I overheard their conversation, and after noticing he was getting fustraded, I spoke up. The conversation went on from there. The week after his cousins [Juan & Humberto] talked to me more but he shy away. The next week, again his cousin Juan was talking to me and gave me a CD of his band and said that the next he would give me his cousins [Andres], he then came out and just said about 2 sentences to me and walked towards these other girls where at. After that, they were having another small party, for no reason, and Juan had told me, when Andres sat down, "Please talk to him, he's lonely and in need of friends." and Andres had answered back by saying "You're just jealous." [Jealous of what, I still don't know] For awhile they went back and fort with the whole Jealous issue. The week after that he gave me a memory card to put music in it because he had asked me if I could the week before. That Sunday he called me, and we spend almost 3 hours on the phone, and along the conversations we had he would say something along the lines of "Imagen if we were going out and I asked you to wait for me" [dealing with his impatieneces] or "Why does a beautiful girl like you not have a boyfriend?" and "Who knows, you might be the next one." and this Saturday that passed we talked before class for about half an hour, and after class his cousin again talked to me, and when he came out, Juan said "Well we have to go." But Andres stayed and just started talking to me, while Juan said something along the lines of "oh, then we're gonna go heat up the car." And just stayed for a few seconds and smiled. The girls from before were staying behind me, waiting for him to talk to them. After a while I told him if he had problems to just call me, and he repeated my number and ask if he could take a picture so it could go along with the number, the girls then left but came back seconds later, and again waited. After another while, he finally said he had to go, shook my hand, said take care and finally turned around and noticed them and said "bye girls" turned again to me and said bye.. [The girls don't like me from what I've noticed hahaha.]

My moms says he likes me, his cousin from what he's mentioned or let loose, makes it seem like he [Andres] likes me, and well everyone else who just happens to know of this thinks the same. He has no girlfriend from what, he & juan have told me & my moms. But I really don't know if he's just being REALLY friendly or if he really likes me.

melanie  says:
4 months ago

i recently got dumped only seeing each other for a month but he has a young daughter he kinda dumped me abruptly none of his friends saw it coming but any how he still messages me but i am doing the silence treatment and let him text first then i reply etc he told me he doesnt want a girlfriend but he wants to hang out with me! i realised i didnt know anything about him, i think it was to serious fast is this way of going slow with me? cause he still makes an effort to say hello when we see each other his ex hurt him bad should i be friends and have fun with him and see if anything comes from it?

thanks

Whispery Ash  says:
4 months ago

I met a guy from a site I hardly used.We started just friendly chatting 8 months ago.We did meet once and have contiunly talked on and off again.We now talk alot on the phone for hours at a time,we enjoy every minute on the phone from talking about our feelings on life and our own feelings.He is not ready ,but I am .This guy really feels like to me my soul mate.He wants us to be friends for now and see where it goes untill he is ready.Should I wait or just move on?I really feel we do share alot in commom and so does he,he is just messed up right now with everything he is going through and I fully understand.How can I handle this without ruining my chances with him?

Da Girl Next Door  says:
3 months ago

Heyy dere z a guy that i like and i dont reeallyy kno if he likes me bac..

cuz everytime we walk in the hallway at skool he would teas me or out side he would let me borrow hiz sweather if itz cold...nn he would ask me to give him a hug when i give a hugs 2 my girls..

so doez dat meanz he likes me r just playing

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solarshingles  says:
3 months ago

I like your direct attitude and your clear descriptions of such a hot topic!

Cait  says:
3 months ago

i really like this guy from my grade and ive known him for a little less than a year were pretty good friends. But he always flirts with me and when i ask him if he thinks im hot or something he says no. HELP ME!!

morgy--nickname  says:
3 months ago

this guy jared likes me and i like him too as in love and we both know and talk about that we love each other and we have sooooo much in common his name is jared he has sat beside my since november and i wanna ask him out but.....all my friends are always saying you are perfect for each other

lena  says:
2 months ago

so i have this problem and i am very confused..there's this guy that i really like, and we have alot of the same friends and all of them were sure that he liked me, one of them even asked him if we were dating and he said not yet, we hang out and he always gives me hugs that definately signify he likes me, and then i went to a get together and he met me there...more like told me he'd stop out, and this time they werent mutal friends i was with, anyway...he called me a few days ago and we talked for about 2 hours and then he said he could see us dating later..and that he didnt like me like that??? could it be becuase he is going to college in the fall and doesnt want to leave me..but i will be going in the winter and will not be far away...? how could we all have been so wrong about this, or is he just trying to hide his feelings? please help me figure this one out.

mimi  says:
2 months ago

I am a little confused on if this boy likes me. I believe he is shy because he works for my dad's company, but when we are together we have so much fun! He ALWAYS looks at me by the sides of his eyes, and I think he likes to show off a bit in front of me. I want to ask him to the movies, but my mom thinks i am doing all of the work and should move on! I ' see that an option right now, so what should I do? I just believe he is shy with relationships. He is outspoken in everything else though.

claudia  says:
2 months ago

there is this really cute guy in my school and i just recently noticed him. i sort of met him 2 months ago while i was in another class talking to my friend. he sat next to her and i saw hi looking at me so i turned my head and said hi. he smiled and siad hi back. after that, i saw him a couple of times around the hallways and afterschool and he would say hi. and i have caught him looking at me a lot. when i notice this, i look back at him and smile back. he stopped doing that when we stared talking more. now he pokes me and pulls my hair (without actually hurting me) whenever he sees me and he sometimes goes through a different path to get to his class which makes him pass through my class. but it is still confusing because he sometimes doesnt show interest. and then i ask my friends and some say he does like me and others say they arent sure...

ilovejustinbraswell  says:
2 months ago

i ove this boy at my school hottest boy ever

zanessalover  says:
6 weeks ago

ok i hang around with this boy outside of school i really like him but he has a girlfriend and he always giving me signals that he likes me he can be touchey like putting his hands on my back and putting his hand around me.when im not out hes always asing my best friend whos a girl am i coming out and asking loads of question bout me like when am i coming out or if im sleeping over somewere when will i be hme etc.then we recently found out that were going to america together and my best friends thinks that hes going to make a move but hes with that girl and oh hes consently telling my best friend that hes going to break up with her but he wudnt say nothing infront of me bout her well he says he hates her bu thats about it can u help me?? because i falling in love with him thanks xxx

Jennifer  says:
5 weeks ago

Theres this really hot guy he's almost 13 and i'm alomst 12 i think he likes me like he always is messing with me in a nice way when we go swimming . but he act like he likes my friends. but when i asked him he said he doesnt i'm confised does he like my friends or not

Jessica  says:
5 weeks ago

I want to ask this guy out bu he says he has girlfriend. But y frirnds said that he told them that he likes me. So should i ask him out or not

Angel  says:
5 weeks ago

Theres this guy he's always telling me to hug him which i think is weird he pulls me in the pool dunks me and follows me where ever i go he's always asking if i'm going swinming and if i do go swiming he's like yea. But He says he doesnt like e. So can someine Help does he like me or not and should i ask him out

McKenzie  says:
5 weeks ago

Jessica:

ok, number one rule of all things girl:

1. NEVER ASK A GUY OUT IF THEY ALREADY HAVE A GF. Thats just totally inappropriate.

just keep looking pretty & flirting & start texting him or talking to him on the phone & you guys will bond :D

Mel  says:
10 days ago

Hi, i like this boy alot and he says he likes me back but he also likes this other girl, he said that he is getting over her slowly but i don't know whether he means it or not and i dnt no whether to wait and see what happens or just move on!! HELP ME PLEASEE!! Xo

Tasha  says:
9 days ago

Wow thank you, that helped me. I like this boy and my friends reckon he likes me too and i think that too but we are both too scared to ask each other out! He does everything on the list. In art out of the whole class to ask for a sharpener includig the teacher, he asked me. :)

Thank you !!

reina22  says:
5 days ago

thers's this boy @ skool dat i really like when people ask if we like each other we lie about it ..i've lliked him 4 about almost 2 years ...he looks @ me alot in class and always watches me when i do sumthin ...i think he likes me b-cuz he lives across the street from my cuz and one time i wuz over there and his dad asked my cuz if i wuz his cuz and then he told J*ELLE there goes yo girl ..... idk what i should do ...........HELP i really like him and i know he likes me !!!!!!!!<3

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