Age Difference Between Men and Women in Relationships
76The Question is How Many Years is Too Many in a Relationship Between a Man and a Woman
With the advent of technology, it has become more and more invasive that men and women are not as concerned about age. The written word dictates that thoughts and ideas are the binding force that connects people to one another. In the case of internet stalking of innocent children, the dividing line is definitely illegal.
Demi Moore and Ashton Kurston has set the stage for the age differences as not being a problem as well as other people in the movie industry whose job it seems to be to defy age. In the real world, however, the movie move of dipping into younger territory to retain youth is becoming widespread. However, it is not a matter of whether there is a connection of ideas when it comes to communication. In the hollywood world, it has been a technique to try to stay young and little else of concern with communications. Couples who have made it to many years of marriage just as Mel Gibson and his wife have decided to divorce. You guessed it. Mel Gibson intended is much younger. Bruce Willis has just been connected with a younger woman and posed in W magazine looking years younger than his age. Wearing the nail polish and the toe polish may have been a bit much but if Bruce Willis had to do it for his younger mate, he made the sacrifice.
It seems that men have the penchant to dip into the younger world of men than vice versa. Now, however, it has become a trend for older women to dip into the world of younger men. Why? Because for one thing, men mature must slower than women. It seems as though the years got a little out of whack and a woman in her thirties as she is reaching her prime, can be attracted to a younger man in his early twenties.
Some women has a silent rule not to date anyone that is the same age of a son for reasons of ethics. These women however will date men as much as 15 years their juniors. A rule of thumb for most women in this new generation is to not dip lower than 15 years or the variation between experiences in life would be too. It is best to connect to who you are compatible with and if the person is too young then that person is not compatible to you and you should move on.
Still, the computer generation is the connecting tool that have dating website busy twenty four hours a day with the profile and introductions of people seeking to meet other people of like interests. Make your individual choices and stick with them so that you will find someone compatible within your age frame. The age frame is totally between you and the other person and there are no social mores to stop you from being with the person you are compatible with.
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Hmrjmr1, thank you for your comment. Men has always had an open range when it comes to ages differences and dating. I am sorry to hear about your wife.
Age difference between man and woman is very important factor for long term relationship. Within the same age group, people understand each other much better. That's what I've learnt so far, lol
KevinPeter, thank you for your comment. An age difference about three to five years older of the man over the woman is usually the norm. Times are changing, however.
I'm dating a man who is 17 years older than me (I'm 28, he's 45) and it works surprisingly well. There are definitely extra challenges with so large an age difference, but for us it has very much been worth it. You can make generalizations about "life stages" and maturity levels, but at the end of the day it all depends on the individuals involved.
This is a great Hub to write. It totally depends on the couple, but I'd say that age does not have to be a huge deal. I've never dated anyone my age :)
glassvisage, thank you for your comment. It seems like a fact of nature that the man is normally two years older than the woman in a relationship. I can see how you have never dated any one exactly your same age. I hope that the relationships were happy ones and appreciate you for sharing.












Hmrjmr1 says:
4 months ago
Interesting thoughts being a widower I have been online I was restricting my range to five years younger maybe ought to open it up a bit...