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By Jerilee Wei



Breathing Time

Words and books can get trapped in my mind, like some familiar old song playing over and over in my head. Both kinds of brain freezes are a mixed blessing. Today, it's those pesky words that are haunting me. They were spoken by a dog, and they've been tickling the corners of my unconscious thoughts all night.

Getting up this morning and switching on both the computer and the stereo, I quickly recognize there is no escape from seventeen words penned by another author. The evidence is laying right before me -- in the dog resting on my feet, and the cat who has once again, assumed ownership of my pillow against my allergic will.

"Look at them," the seventeen words whisper. Taunting me further, with the repetitious words as a living reminder, "They are breathing time."

"She had learned in her life, that time lives inside you. You are time, you breathe time."

-- Almondine (a dog character), from The Story of Edward Sawtelle by David Wrobleuski (page 461).


The Story of Edward Sawtelle

The Story of Edward Sawtelle, a novel by David Wroblewski, was an unexpected birthday gift, given to me by my polar opposite of an adult daughter. I probably would not have picked it out on my own, which I sometimes find is a good thing.

If I had to put it's plot in one sentence -- It's the story of a mute (but not deaf) boy and his kinship with dogs, and it's all about breathing time in unison with nature. That's not what the book reviews will tell you. It's not what Oprah's book selection will tell you -- it's just that one reader (me) says.

David Wrobleuski Interview


I Am An Animal Magnet

Ancestrally, I come from a long line of people who talk to and walk among animals. Some family members are even more attuned and more comfortable with nature, than all of human kind. I'm fairly certain my mom (Ginn Navarre, here on hubpages) and my younger sister, ryanobie(also a hubber) -- sometimes have entire days when they like their dogs a hell of a lot better, than some people.

From the next room, as if I need no other reminder or convincing, I listen to my husband coaxing our elderly beagle to take a morning walk with him. It's a daily dialogue of sweet nothings, their own secret language, one that transcends all common boundaries. There are times, when this bond of elderly man and elderly dog, is the only happiness either of them will accept.

My heart alarm sometimes leaps, when I add the heavy knowledge, that when one of them passes from this life, the other may soon follow, if for no other reason than a broken heart and loneliness.

All of my family members seek the company of animals, carefully and deliberately. I'm a nature and animal lover too, but there's a rare charisma I can't escape or deny. With me, it's different. Animals and wildlife of all kinds, seek me out first, exclusively, and often won't leave me alone. The thought, has not escaped me -- I am an animal magnet.


Calico - More Than A Fabric

Here's a domestic example of my animal magnetism -- take Jasmine, who currently is sitting on the back of my office chair, leaning just as hard as she can into the back of my neck. She is not my cat. I would never own a cat. It's not that I don't like them, it's just that I am exceptionally allergic to them as a species.

Jasmine is no ordinary cat. She is what’s known as a tortoiseshell and white (in the UK) or a calico here in the U.S. Anyone who is familiar with them, usually is aware that this coloring (it is not a breed) is most likely a female cat. Moreover, personally, I've never known one who wasn't also not about half crazy. The stereotypical black Halloween cat, has nothing on Jasmine.

She's probably the meanest cat on the planet. Her visits to the vet are greeted with dread by the staff who work there. Her chart is marked with dire warnings"

"Needs to be sedated to do anything! "

"WARNING!!!! She bites!

"BAD CAT!"

Here at home, she streaks and sneaks around, not liking anyone in the house, but me. She cannot abide me being out of her sight. My grandchild has had her since she was a tiny kitten. She has never been abused, but she cannot stand humans in general. She resists all attempts of friendliness, even by those who feed her. Some days she tolerates them, other days she's apt to bite, or attempt to shed them if they come near.

If I shut my bedroom door or the bathroom door, she's on the other side, crying loudly, and using her paw to bang the door non-stop. I leave and she grabs the one and only toy she likes, and bawls loudly until she spies something of mine (usually the very thing I don't want her on) and plops herself down on it until I return.

Upon my return, that same toy comes with the same bawling as she runs to greet me, to let me know how unacceptable my absence as been. Several times a week "her love" means wet washrag compresses on my swollen and itching eyes.

No matter how many times she's been bit and smacked in the face, our elderly dog has drawn a hard line, at the cat's attempts to climb up on the bed with us at night.

Yet, on some of Jasmine's loneliest nights, I must shut her in a bedroom across the house, because she will settle for nothing less than four in a bed. This is a physical impossibility with, one six-foot-five giant of a husband, a beagle, and me. Adding a half insane cat is not happening, on the one-third of a bed that is my designated portion and shared with the dog.


Take One Dog Prescription

Pliny, the Roman writer and philosopher said it best, "Take one dog to cure your ills." Well, not exactly what he said, but the supposed quote loosely applies to blood pressure. Pliny's old script had more to do with woman suffering from stomach aches, but the same principles apply.

Pet therapy has proven that illnesses like coronary heat disease and high blood pressure make contact between humans and animals a "must." Even children's blood pressure is reduced in the presence of a pet. Maybe the quote should be:

"Take one dog (or cat) and call me in the morning."


Did You Know That Money Cats?

According to the folklore of several cultures, Calico cats and  tortoiseshell and whitecats are believed to bring good luck and financial fortune. So far, at least in our household, this theory has not come to pass.

Touch, Sound, and Sight

All parts of communication, when you think about it, is about touch, sound, and sight, I guess it's another haunting lyric, "Do you listen as well as you hear?" (Another broken record that sticks in my head). I wonder too, do we know what we see when we are dealing with a non-human species?

This morning I stood on the back porch feeding red headed sandhill cranes, when a small bird landed at my feet pecking at the bread crumbs that had fallen from my hand. The cat watched from the window, our beagle glared at the missed meal from the other side of the porch -- as I looked up and watched our neighbors dog, bolt from her to come running to visit me -- the same as most mornings. He cares not for the birds, or the bread -- just wants to talk to me. To the rest of the neighbors, he's the barking and growling terror of the subdivision -- to me, he's just another pussy cat who won't leave me alone.

What can I do but love him back, for unconditionally loving me, even if I never asked him to? Perhaps, that is the secret of my animal magnetism? 


Curlew
Curlew

Curlew

We humans often pride ourselves on the power of touch. It's as much of our human make-up, as all other of our senses, -- yet, it is the one sense, that is so important, it is almost impossible to live without it.

The curlew, has such sensitive touch in it's sensitive nerve endings in the tissue of it's beak, that it lets the bird "feel" the vibrations caused by worms and burrowing insects.

Wouldn't it be something if we humans were so in touch with what's hidden from our sight that we could feel beneath the earth?


Woodcock
Woodcock

Woodcock

For the woodcock, it's all about all-round vision, as they have 360 degree fields of vision. Even cooler, this species, has a sector of binocular vision to the rear.

Can you imagine how different our lives would be if we had the same set of peepers?

This provides them optimim protection from surprise attacking predators, and allows them to continue feeding and nesting on the ground.


Boreal Owl
Boreal Owl

Boreal Owl

Locating sound sources, now there's an area where most humans are lacking -- compared to the rest of living and breathing beings on the planet. The boreal owl, doesn't have this problem. They can actually determine the direction of sounds with an unparalleled accuracy.

Boreal owls can find their prey under woodland debris, or even snow by solely using it’s keen hearing.  I've always wondered, what would it be like to hear like the animals and birds hear?

Boreal owls are fickle in love. While they form couples, love is apparently only one season. Additionally, it takes on many forms, monogamous, polygynous, and even polyandrous.


American Kestrel
American Kestrel

Kestrel

As someone who wears no line trifocals and still struggles and longs for 20/20 vision, I envy the Kestrel. It has large eyes that are placed right along the front of it's head. This gives them a large field of three-dimensional vision.

Can you imagine what it would be like to have accurate judgement of distance?

I know that other drivers on the road with me, probably wish that were possible. Along with my car, who wouldn't have to worry quite so much about dents and dings when I park. Don't mind me, just wishful thinking.

For the Kestrel, it gives them the hunting ability to dive and accurately snag prey. In case you don’t know it, a kestrel, isn’t a single kind of bird, but a name commonly applied to diverse members of falcons. Unlike other bird predators, they have the ability to hover like a helicopter above intended small animals and lizards. They hunt on the wing, and live life on the wing.

David Wrobleuski Author

Exactly, what is it to breathe life?

There are some things you don't learn in school. They are more things you just come to know by close and on-going contact with others of not-your-own-kind. In my mind, it's generations of knowledge all co-mingling with every breath of every being on the planet, handed down in the sub-conscious. I have no scientific proof of this, but I live it, like time lives inside each of us. I've long known that all of nature has it's own language, and that it too breathes life all of it's own.

 


That "Other" Calico

The word “calico” to those of my generation and older, usually means an inexpensive popular with quilters, colorful cotton fabric. Calico cotton was hugely popular with women on the Western frontier in the settlement of the American west.

I understand that the word “calico” when applied to fabric in other parts of the world, such as the UK, means another fabric entirely -- muslin.

Talking to the Animals

Animal Magnets in the News

  • GameMill and Activision Announce "Zhu Zhu Pets" for Nintendo DSdBusinessNews.com3 hours ago

    SANTA MONICA – Activision Publishing and GameMill Publishing, Inc. announced today an agreement with Cepia, LLC to develop and publish video games based on the smash hit Zhu Zhu Pets™. The first Zhu Zhu Pets game will be released on the Nintendo DS™in the spring of 2010.

  • Poor pets to get a helping paw in EugeneThe World4 hours ago

    EUGENE (AP) — A full-time, full-service medical clinic to treat the pets of people who are either homeless or living in poverty is expected to open in Eugene next year.

  • Keeping an eye on your pets in the coldMt. Pleasant News4 hours ago

    With frigid temperatures hitting the area, people are paying close attention to themselves and their loved ones. The idea is to make sure everyone stays warm. But in the process of guarding people from the cold, it is important not to overlook the four-legged members of the family: Your pets.

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Teresa McGurk profile image

Teresa McGurk  says:
9 months ago

I don't know what I would do without my animals. Thanks for this lovely hub.

Aya Katz profile image

Aya Katz  says:
9 months ago

Jerilee, I love this hub. I listened to the interviews with David Wroblewski, and though I have not read his book, I was struck by how peaceful I  felt after listening to him talk. Country Roads by John Denver is so appropriate here, though again,  can't say why.

I'm allergic to cats, too, so that is the one animal that my daughter seeks out at other people's homes.  I'm really curious about your daughter, now. In what way is she your diametrical opposite?

Dogs are an important part of my life, too. I don't think there is anyone who likes chimpanzees, who doesn't like dogs, also.

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Jerilee Wei  says:
9 months ago

Thanks Teresa McGurk! Pets are a life-line for a lot of people.

Thanks Aya! Had to laugh, I never intended the John Denver video, I was testing it for my mom who was having trouble loading it to her hub and forgot to remove it.

David Wroblewski's book isn't the kind I would have picked on my own, and I'm still not sure how I feel about this very well written book. May have to read it again.

Of my two adult children, Janet is more like her father, very black and white in her thinking, same thought processes, philosophically in her belief system than her mother -- yet, so alike me in other ways. Love both of my children dearly but my son and I can almost read each others thoughts and finish the other's sentences. Someday that topic will be a hub most likely.

I don't think I've ever lived without a dog, although I've given it some thought when I was getting up every night several times a night a couple of months ago with our elderly one.

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Ginn Navarre  says:
9 months ago

Jeri great! there has always been a pet of some sort in your life and it shows. What so many people don't realize is that they do not pick their pets---the pets pick them. Do you ever wonder why they can understand our language and we don't understand their---barks? WHO IS THE INTELLIGENT ONE? Love ya, MOM

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Andromeda10  says:
9 months ago

Awe. I think it's great that your mom and sister are Hubbers too! What a fun activity to keep each other motivated, busy and having a great time!

Maybe that's the answer! I don't have children and my little niece moved away (I was her full-time during the week nanny) and now I'm a little lost. I find myself watching "Imagination Movers" on Disney and "Dora" on Nick, Jr. even now. School is my huge commitment and I only work part time. I should get a dog! The only thing is I want to have bigger dogs like I had when I was a kid. (1 dalmation and 2 great danes) but I live in an apartment.

Great hub! I don't genuinely like many people in my real world (young,bratty,loud college students) and ("people who want to be your friend for self-serving purposes") I really like my husband though!

=)

Jerilee Wei profile image

Jerilee Wei  says:
9 months ago

Thanks Andromeda10! I think there are a number of hubbers out there who have made this a family endeavor. Like you, I've had a couple of Great Danes, never loved a dog more than one of them. She's been gone for years and I still miss her.

Hawkesdream profile image

Hawkesdream  says:
9 months ago

Our family have always had pets, in fact like yourself I can't ever remember a time when the four legged friends were not a part of my life. Really enjoyed your hub.

Jerilee Wei profile image

Jerilee Wei  says:
9 months ago

Thanks Hawkesdream! They really are part of the world's fabric of life and happiness.

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Jerilee Wei  says:
9 months ago

Thanks Ginn Navarre (mom) ! We loved every one of our dogs, especially Bonnie, Penny, and Calamity Jane. I'm certain I'm not learning dog barks, solely because our Beagle only makes one little bark in response to the door bell ringing, after that whoever is there is just someone else who might have food. She only bays when you say the word "rabbit" but not when she sees a rabbit, then she cries.

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ryanobie  says:
9 months ago

Loved the book review sis! Thanks a lot!*!*!*! Now I have to go out and buy that. (Like I don't ALREADY have a tower of books stacked on my nightstand - vying for my attention each morning.

Go to the eye doctor Thursday. Perhaps I can even see them to read after that, lol.

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Jerilee Wei  says:
9 months ago

Thanks ryanobie! This book will keep you thinking about a lot of tangents. I'd send you and mom the book, but I think I need to read it again to get it off my mind.

I'm not to the point of using the magnifying glass Gram sent me for reading. I think it was a hint.

Keepitsimple profile image

Keepitsimple  says:
9 months ago

Animals certainly are close to my heart and i loved your hub,..... thanks!!

Iphigenia profile image

Iphigenia  says:
9 months ago

This was a beautiful read - I can't imagine not having animals in my life - they help to maintain a balance because they live in the moment. Thaks Jerilee.

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packerpack  says:
9 months ago

Nice hub Jerilee, for me it is mainly dogs and cats that could go as pets. Not that I do not like other animals but I like them most. Rabbit could be another option in animals while in birds I would prefer Ducks and Peacocks.

claire hibbert  says:
9 months ago

Hi jerilee

Thank you for sharing your thoughts - like you I love animals but wish we as humans had more respect in the world for them.

Jerilee Wei profile image

Jerilee Wei  says:
9 months ago

Thanks keepitsimple!

Thanks lphigenia! Pets are an important part of staying balanced.

Thanks packerpack! Dogs and birds for me!

Thanks claire hibbert! Part of what I write about here are hubs trying to increase awareness about their world.

rongould profile image

rongould  says:
9 months ago

From one animal magnet to another - loved the hub!

yxhuang profile image

yxhuang  says:
9 months ago

Jerilee- I do not want to have any pets (other than a gold fish) in my house due to I am so afraid of the day that they are going to leave us. I guess not only me can't handle the lost but seeing my kids dealing with the situation is also very painful. I use my serious allergy as an excuse not getting any cat or dog and my children seemed to understand. I have a feeling that my kids also know about my concern of the death of "a family member" and they sort of agree with me. My kids and I play with our neighbor's cats more often to solve our pet-less need. You are absolutely right about this: "There are some things you don't learn in school. They are more things you just come to know by close and on-going contact with others of not-your-own-kind." Thanks for sharing.

Jerilee Wei profile image

Jerilee Wei  says:
9 months ago

Thanks rongould!

Thanks yxhuang! It's always exceptionally sad with a pet member of the family leaves us. One of our dogs (a Great Dane) has been gone a number of years and I still miss her. Yet, death is a natural part of life, and when I think on it and all the pets I've had over the years -- my life would have been diminished without them. There are some who say pets do not go to heaven, I don't buy that, someday I believe we'll all be reunited, perhaps in another life.

As for children and pets, the responsiblity of having a pet to me is an important part of raising children to be compassionate adults. I do like your solution though, that works for your family.

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ccdursina  says:
9 months ago

Great hubs, wow, you covered a lot; cute pictures too.

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Jerilee Wei  says:
9 months ago

Thanks ccdursina! I do my best and my readers do the rest, provided my hubs pass their individual tests.

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k@ri  says:
9 months ago

Great Hub! I love the talking animals video! I not an all animal magnet, just a cat magnet. Glad I'm not allergic! Sorry you are, but you seem very loving to let the cat stay anyway. :)

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britneydavidson  says:
9 months ago

really cool hub....i have enjoyed reading it...loved it...specially your fabric cat is so cute....thanx for sharing it...

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Jerilee Wei  says:
9 months ago

Thanks k@ari! and britneydavidson!

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