You and your lover come home from work, eat dinner with the kids, watch some TV, put the kids to bed, then you two go upstairs do the bedroom thing, return back to the TV, then later call it a night. The sex has become routine, another chore on the to-do list. Both of you, craving the love making you once had when you first met, and instead finding yourselves merely performing a function for the other if only so that when you move on to the next chore you can still tell yourself that you have a healthy relationship.

Healthy as your relationship with your love may be, your sex life is boring. Don't worry its not just yours, obviously it's theres too. You two may get along fabulously and be very much in love but your sex is still boring.

When you were 19 you told yourself you would never let yourself get to a point where sex was just another thing on the list. Yet, here you are today, just as in love with your lover as you were when you first met them and yet there is more excitement in the bedroom when the Price Is Right is on then there is when you to are getting busy.

The bedroom is the room in the house that is the most important for your relationship. Does it say, midnight passion or clutter keeper? Clean up the room, consider getting a smaller bed, ditch the Tv and make the bedroom reflect your sexuality.

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The biggest most important rule of better love making is to stop planning the sex. Stop asking for it, stop bring up when you'd like to get it, STOP!

Your sex is a chore, why? Because your planning it. If you know that on such and such day you guys go at it like rabbits and that it is always these days, your planning it. When one lover mentions it in the morning that they would like it that evening, your planning it.

Anything you plan you add to your schedule, anything on your schedule is just another thing on your to-do list. Get it, you two aren't any less attracted to the other as you were before, your just took the thrill out of spontaneity. You two turned you love making into chore.

Moral of the story, stop planning. Starting today the times you make love will not be dependant on the day, or the weather, or whether or not the Seahawks won. You will NOT ask for late night booty before 5pm the same day. You may hint at your arousal but you will not ask for sex.

Instead, do not say anything and when the time is right make your move the way you would when you were 18. You may get shot down occasionally and perhaps the rejection is the reason you ask for it in the first place. The times that your lover is in the mood, your new spontaneous nature will be enjoyed and appreciated