One of the quick tips I can teach you on how to attract Asian women is to stop telling Asian women that you have an Asian fetish. That is one of the key fundamental factors for success and results in dating Asian women. Let me explain why.

I've dated tons of Asian women. I've interviewed a bunch of Asian women. I'm an Asian guy myself. So I understand what they are thinking because I've interviewed them, talked to them, and asked them what kind of qualities they want in a non-Asian man.

They revealed to me and told me that the number one thing they are looking for is someone who is "normal". Now you might be thinking "what kind of girl wants a normal guy?" Well, it's not the normal guy you think. It's because so many white guys, black guys, Hispanic guys bring up the fact that they are totally obsessed with Asian women to Asian women. And that is a definite no no!

You should not tell an Asian woman that you have an Asian fixation. And you should not tell an Asian woman that you have an Asian fetish. Those kind of things will repel an asian woman away from you. So if you want to know the secret tip on how to attract an Asian woman, you have to learn NOT to telegraph your asian fetish to the Asian woman.

Once you do that, you will distinguish yourself from the 99% of other non-Asian guys who are trying to desperately to get an Asian woman but always failing. And the number one reason they are failing with Asian women is that they are showing too much obsession. And interestingly, the more you show a fascination with Asian women, the more repelled she will be from you.

If you want to attract her, you need to stop telegraphing your "Asian fetish" towards her. So starting today, stop being weird and stop expressing your Asian obsession with Asian women. Once you do this little technique, you will succeed with Asian women more than the average non-Asian guys.

So many non-Asian guys are messing up because they are telling the Asian woman "I love Chinese women! I love Korean women! I love Asians". Now when an Asian woman hears that, she sees a stalker, a weirdo, a freak, a guy she does not want, a guy who is obsessed, a guy who is too attached, a guy who is too needy, and basically a guy who is unattractive.

So starting today if you really want to have more success with Asian women, then start to approach an Asian woman as if she is not an Asian woman. Don't tell her you are Asian obsessed. Don't tell her you have an Asian fetish. Do not telegraph any signs that you have an Asian fixation to the Asian woman. If you follow my simple tips, you will have much more success with Asian women. So go out there and have fun starting today!

Out of all the dating tips for men, the most important tip is to write down your own personal pick up goals!

That's right. Before you get to know all the techniques, tactics, and tricks to pick up women, you need to write down your goals.

It's not talking about your goals. It's not dreaming about your goals. Instead, it is WRITING your goals down.

It is important to write down your goals because that's when your goal becomes a REAL PLAN of action.

Secondly, you want to make your goals as specific and personal as possible. Make sure your pickup goals are your own goals and not someone else's aspirations.

Write down the specific date you want to achieve your goal by. Once you write down a deadline, you will take MORE action steps to achieve that goal. Plus, your goal will also be more realistic rather than some far away day dream.

Thirdly, write down the reason WHY you want to achieve your goal. This is important because your "why" will give you the motivation and energy to take action on a daily basis.

I notice too many people in the pickup community just talk about pickup techniques but they don't have the overall big picture. They don't see the purpose of doing those pickup techniques.

Having success with a woman for one night can be fun and dandy but having a bigger picture will help you really take MORE action to improve your pickup skills to the next level.

So starting today, write down your own personal pickup goals and start taking massive action to become better at picking up chicks!

The secret on how to get a girlfriend is for you to be CONGRUENT! That's right! So many guys in the pickup community are NOT congruent.

The PUA community thinks that pickup lines can do the trick and seduce a woman. The PUA community thinks that you can do some kind of patterns to hypnotize a woman. The PUA community thinks that you can do "pea cocking" and attract more women by wearing silly clothes that make you look like a goofball in reality!

The key is NOT in these stupid silly tricks!

How do I know? Because I've tried all these silly tricks myself in my journey of picking up and approaching over 2000 women. And yes, I've tried everything.

And after all the women I have picked up, I can come down to ONE single lesson that is the most important key to creating, building, and maintaining attraction. And it is very simple.

The secret on how to get a girlfriend is for you to be congruent!

You must be congruent from the inside out. That means, if you are some kind of cocky and funny guy in the beginning, you MUST be the cocky and funny guy later on down the road.

If you are an intellectual, you must be congruent to that identity.

The problem with 99% of pickup community guys is that they try to be someone they are NOT! Thus, they are incongruent like some bad script in a movie!

Thus, you need to find out what makes you congruent from the inside out. Stop trying to be cocky and funny if you are NOT cocky and funny. Stop trying to be a jerk if you are not a jerk.

Instead, be true to your CORE strengths and demonstrate your true strengths. Then, you will attract MORE women into your life because you will be 100% congruent to your true strengths.

As the pickup artist, you will find at times there will be moments you will have to face rejection, and it's how you deal with that rejection that will ultimately determine whether your future pickup artist methods are going to continue to work for you.

You can persevere as the pickup artist if you know how to handle rejection and become an individual that's not so willing to give up just because you were turned down a couple of times by some women you're trying to attract.

Let's face it, rejection is not a fun thing for anyone, but your attitude shapes the kind of pickup artist you are. What I mean by this is that if you go into the practice of being the pickup artist with a positive mindset and attitude and you can easily blow off rejection and move onto the next prospect, the likelihood that you're going to be a successful pickup artist increases dramatically.

On the other hand, you can learn to attract women by doing what pickup artists do.

if you should become a pickup artist and you handle rejection terribly and you allow every rejection to affect you personally, and you further allow that rejection to shape how you react and interact with women, your attempt to attract women will begin to fail time and time again.

Look at it this way: if you were to approach 20 women, you may get 10 rejections from half of the 20 women you've approached. I'm saying, so what of it?

You can easily look at it as if you've been rejected 10 times, or you can look at it as if you have been successful in your attempt to attract women 10 times; it is the glass is half empty, half full philosophy, and the way you choose to look at and deal with rejection shapes your future interactions with women.

I would like to also suggest at this time that if every single attempt to attract women was successful, then everyone would be a successful pickup artist!

Women are unique individuals, with unique interests, passions, likes, dislikes, and no matter how successful you are as a pickup artist you are not going to be successful in every attempt you make to attract a woman.

To hold that kind of expectation of yourself is to compare yourself to an impossible ideal to set standards that are unreachable and unattainable for yourself. What I'm saying is that you need to be a little fairer to yourself, and reasonably come to expect that you're going to experience rejection from time to time.

The best way to handle rejection is that you consider why you were rejected and move on. For example, if you were rejected because your pickup strategies need improvement, you can learn from the event involving rejection, improve and change your pickup methods, and thereby increase the level of success for attracting women in the future.

In addition, if you were rejected simply because the women did not hold any interest in you or there was no spark or connection, you need to simply move on to the next opportunity you encounter to attract women.

There is no need to allow an instance of rejection to define or to be an all defining factor in the way you interact with women or attempt to attract women. In essence, you need to either learn from rejection or get over it!