Astrology - How To Get Along - Aries and Scorpio
78Aries and Scorpio
Astrology - Getting Along - The Ram and The Scorpion
This series on AstroCompatibility will cover all of the potential matchups in the Zodiac. We will continue this series thinking about and commenting on Aries and Scorpio. Check out Christofer's new website at: www.astrologygetalong.com.
Aries - Scorpio
Scorpio's romantic aspect is based in intense deep inner feelings and Aries is in most everything for the energy and fun ot it. At first glance, this does not look like a "natural", but there are always reasons to hope. Aries is Cardinal and Fire. Scorpio is Fixed and Water. Looking at it on the surface, Aries is firey and fast, intelligent and into "movement". Scorpio is intense, achievement-oriented and does not necessarily think movement has any particular advantage, unless there is a strong reason for it. Scorpio has a stubborn quality, somewhat like Cancer, but stubborn, not necessarily for home, but whatever Scorpio considers to be personally important. With the Scorpio, they don't separate personal from significant and important. If they are feeling it, it is personal of course, but it is by their nature, not trivial or subjective, but rather it is "it". They function from the base of their being.
The Aries in pursuit of the Scorpio would find a compelling and magnetic individual. Scorpio could be attracted to a youthful, high energy person. Aries does not come off as frivolous and silly, so Scorpio likes that. Both of these are "strong" in their presentations of themselves. The Scorpio and the Aries could create a smoldering fire. Compatibility is going to probably depend on individual charts. It is not impossible to imagine. It could be a "high end" Hollywood type dynamic union, but also, it could end like one. No one is going to back down here. Neither fights for the fun of it, but both are good at it. If it lasted, the Scorpio would probably get its agenda, and Aries would be free enough to pursue its interests.
Positive Postulate:
Since Aries and Scorpio are dynamic persons and neither are "lazy", they could share much in values and pursuits. These two, headed in the same direction, could make quite a partnership. Positively speaking, these signs could be a public and dynamic pair. Regardless of how the genders work, it seems a pairing that could be serious. Scorpio would have to vote yes on most all issues, and Aries would have to spend their time figuring out what they considered worth making an issue. The Scorpio could enjoy the Aries personality. The Aries would have to really love the Scorpio, in order to overlook the stubborn insistences of what appear to be less important things. And this would be on a day to day basis.
Romance Recommendation:
Aries and Scorpio would have a very high romance factor, as long as Scorpio stayed a bit light-hearted and Aries enjoyed "intense romance". Don't take any fights into the boudoir and things could go great. Any current battle brought into the bedroom would probably play itself out there.
Conflict Quotient:
Aries and Scorpio can both defend themselves, and also, take an offensive position. Conflict would almost be prophecied with these two. Discussions could be long or short, depending on how angry Scorpio got. Neither of these signs will be intimidated, and neither would give in, just to give in. Both could be high-minded enough to make concessions, but they would have to see strong reasons for doing so. This is not a death pronouncement, It just means they will have to work things out. The unexpressed, the unaired, the hidden could spell doom. The discussions could be noisy, but healthful.
Peace Parlay:
Life in the end is repetitive and mundane, and so is Romance itself. This factor asks the question: "Can we be bored together over the long term?" Scorpio can take time for inner contemplation, and quiet periods could be helpful in an overall sense. Aries might take some convincing that a little peace and quiet could be good for them. A Biblical phrase might fit here: "Peace, peace and there is no peace". A good attempt at peace and boredom might be the "spiritual correction" that each needs, but one that could slip away.
Keep Up The Interest Graph:
Scorpio and Aries are a good "keep up the interest" signs, but Aries could tire of Scorpion "gravity". The pull of Aries trying to always accommodate Scorpio could fatigue Aries, and Scorpio always watching what Aries is doing next, could be distracting from Scorpio's main purposes. The basic material is there for potential long term high interest, it's just difficult to know how the two will act after a high-mileage relationship.
Seven Year Itchiness:
There are some signs that by their nature are more stable in their love interests and family concerns, as time goes on. Others are not. Scorpio could use the 7 year itch as motivation to make a fundamental change. Aries could use the 7 year itch to "finally get light-hearted again". If they truly are committed to each other, the seriousness of Scorpion values could save them. As I have said in other analyses, Aries could stumble into a new relationship, not knowing that its subconscious might be overly engaged in the prospect of infidelity.
RATING:
ASTROCOMPATIBILITY POSSIBILITY RATING: 50% Positive Long Term - 70% Short Term. This, as a young relationship, might have tons of appeal. Time is not necessarily the friend here. Scorpio can put on weight, if frustrated, but Aries could find Scorpio more appealing as time goes on, if Scorpio lightened up. The newer this relationship is, the more that there is a possibility that it will work. But once they get going, complications of Scorpion intensity and Arian ego could make for a difficult future.
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Hahaha So True @ Negacrowbar
I have been in a non-committed relationship with an aries for nearly 17 months, and this fits us to a T. We are constantly bickering about nothing but are completely crazy for each other. Yet I think deep down we both know it will never work out, when we get frustrated with one another we purposefully piss each other off but we are both too stubborn to admit we're mad. I would give anything to make aries and scorpios compatible. I have never believed astrology until i read over 20 aries-scorpio relation stories and realized they were all sooo fitting.
well i like this bot who is an aries so i wanted to read this to see how it would be he want a long term i think and i only had one long term realationship so idk if it will work
I'm an Aries that lasted lasted almost 10 years with a Scorpio. It's just exhausting and even trying to make it as friends afterward takes a lot of effort. I suppose I could be more patient and less of a controller. He always felt he was in my shadow and kept propping himself up. To me it was just someone endlessly blowing his own horn for approval. There's a part in my heart that wonders if we can truly make it work. I'll need a Scorpio point of view on this.
Oh my goodness, you guys make me feel like I am not alone! Me and my Aries lover is ALSO in a non committed relationship! What is with the Aries and their flirtatious ways? Sheesh!! For a year we have been fighting back and forth, but we cant seem to get enough of each other. I literally text him and do things to him on purpose just to piss him off, because I dont feel as if he is showing me enough attention. It has gotten really bad, and I swear I cannot help it! I am just passionate about romance, and life, and he is so laid back it annoys me! lol I think all us Scorpios if we are so passionate about loyalty and romance, we really need to just give in, and let them be. Aries is so laid back, they will not change just for a relationship, but best believe they will make changes accordingly to make sure their business is booming. So there is the difference. We have to learn to pick our battles for this to work. As hard as that sounds, I think I'm ready to do that, because now I am actually in love, and if you love someone you will do whatever it takes to make something work.
Scorpio is clear about things but Aries are not, they will take you to do the contrary eventhough they are wrong, they just want to be creative in their own way and will not admit that they made a mistake. I have been having that issue for over ten years. My husband is arrogant, irritated ect but they only thing that is keeping us is our marriage, is that we are good parents, good providers to the family, we enjoy to go to church, we like to go out and have fun, we enjoy our vacations, we are professionals, we love our family, we don't get in trouble with the law nor we use any substance but you ask my husband for a favor and you are clear about what you want, he will do his own thing and will sabotagre everything and then he thinks he did it right, lol. I think he is not aware of what he does however is been clarify what he did but he just does not see it. I guess I have to live with him all my life but I guess we have to look at the positive things also, no relationship is perfect.
You sound like you have reconciled your differences to a survivable degree. Aries is very head strong. Scorpio sees so much and you have enumerated all of the good and valuable things about your union and family. And you are right, no relationship is perfect. Maybe he sees more than he will admit to. Maybe not. Hang in there Scorpio.
This is very interesting as my husband who died in 2000 was an Aries and we did a lot of good work for the community together. Very passionate and my best lover with his Moon and Mars in Scorpio
Aries and Moon and Mars in Scorpio, now there is a template for action and zeal and ambition. Also, a great heart.
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I'm an Aries having dated a scorpio for 4 years straight and then on and off for the past year. We love eachother so much but at the same time can't stand to be around one another. Its mad, reading these forums and about the signs I'm trying to understand it. Its like an addiction, its very intense. But strangely i feel he's the only person I can relate to. At the same time I can't stand his secretive side it makes me not trust him.. But if u really love someone I guess you have to make the necessary sacrifices to make it work. Even if u can't reason why u should. Sometimes love doesn't have reasoning
My book is coming out in a couple months and it addresses the importance of transformative harmony, as do my readings. As I have said, If you are attracted to someone and find each other "irresistable" that tells you that you probably have something to learn from each other, and something to give each other. With Aries and Scorpio, things can seem maddening just because you both are wired so tightly. That is going to be a part of the relationship. The more you reflect on these issues, the more it can drive you a little crazy. Back off, a little, let things be, and see if things don't get a little easier. Keep each other in respect and dignity.
omgosh!! this is the truth! i like a scorpio and before i even read this i was complaining to my girlfriends about how this boy is a mystery and he irritates the hell out of me... but i can't quit him. he gets mad when i push the issue and i get mad when he doesn't give in. i feel like blowing up as arians often do but i dont because he wont even bother after that point. and he wants to persuade me he's right but he doesn't because he knows i'll blow. its give and take. we are learning each other. it's exhausting but worth it.
I'm an Aries and I've dated a Scorpio off and on for 5 years now... the love we have for one another is amazing, No one else compares to him, but all at the same time, I hate him, he drives me crazy. But I'm Not myself when hes not here. Hes something I need in my life, and I've, we've accepted that, were in it for the long hall. Hes currently in The United States Marines. Its hard, but our love will go on. Trust and honestly is key!!! Love you Hunni =D
my name is Tyler I'm a male Aries and im in love with a Scorpio who hates me so I don't believe that she would ever like me like this says!
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The tone and tension embodied in the above comment demonstrate the inherent psychic negative energies that when combined together create explosive manifestations. I rest my case.
In my book: How To Get Along With All of Those Sun Signs, I often declare that it is mutual attraction that inexplicably brings certain odd pairings together. If someone hates you and you love them, then maybe natural forces are at work, preventing you from having a relationship that ends up being a complete wreck. Sometimes nature is very wise!
i was in a long distance relationship, on and off for 3 years with an aries. i live in canada and he lives in lebanon, and the weird part is that we had only met in person once, but he fell in love with me instantly. and over time, we kept strong contact and i eventually had feelings for him too. we adored each other to death, but we bickered all the time, and we used to do so many things on purpose just to piss each other off. for instance, he started going out with this girl i knew (who was supposed to be my friend) WHILE telling me that he loved me. plus, our fights would get so out of control sometimes that he'd throw insults at me and at my friends. and in the end, all that made me not talk to him for several months. meanwhile he was DESPERATELY trying to win me back, always apologizing and trying to get me to talk to him again. i always said to myself that it was because he didn't know what my intentions were, nor did we both know what exactly we wanted. in the end, though, after 3 long years, we saw each other again. and for 3 days we had the most incredible time together. but it messed up because my parents didnt want me to be with him. so he got quite discouraged and started acting stupid again, not trying to do anything to be with me, not trying to make something out of himself to proove to everybody that he's worthy of me ... there is so much more to our story than i've said, i can write an entire novel about it. we've been through so much together, and it's been so hard, but the bottom line is that we dont understand each other the way we want to. all these things about aries and scorpio relate so much to what we had. and it makes me feel so hopeless because i dont see a way to make this work... now i've been forced to cut off all contact with him and im supposed to forget all about him, but i cant. i just cant. i worship him and i know he's crazy about me, and it kills me that we cant do anything about it anymore.
Its almost as if the attractions are so powerful, but the potential sabotage is so present, that these kinds of relationships often have purposes of transformation and learning, as opposed to pleasure and ultimate fulfillment.
I've been with this scorpio for a year and half now. It started out great. We talked on the phone from morning to night non-stop. As months passed, we talked less. We fought more, he couldn't trust me and fought with me over the littlest things. I gave in sooooo much to try to make him happy. I do hate him when we fight. I feel like this is such an unhealthy relationship yet I can't move on from him, because I love him so much. I just wish he understood and stop hurting me. I'm just not strong enough to leave him, but secretly I know that he'll be better off without me in his life.
i think an aries guy fancys me so i wanted to cheeck this out. all he likes to do is argue with me so i annoy him on purpose. but when he really annoys me i wont shut up till ive got vengance on him. my freind says that somtimes it seems that i like him and this annoys me all the more. my opinion is that arians like to fight they love the constant thrill of a new challenge and are bored by somone they can easily dominate and when a scorpio argues back they thrive on it, annoying the scorpio ever more but if scorpio is in love he or she will forgive aries but thers only so much one person can take. but scorpios or arians dont like to call it a day and give up. scorpio and aries have so much in common personality wize they hate eachother! im the sort of scorpio that will battle to the death evn if im inches from death myself and an aries wont stop untill they have compleated their challenge. not much hope for me, is there? but im upset now cos i feel i have upset my capricorn freind by asking him how he would like to die and he said "asleep" and he asked me and i said i wanna die saving somone elses life and he wouldent respond, or even look me in the eyes. i feel i made him feel like a coward and im upset about it. i cant help wanting to save a life for my death then it would have been worth me dying, wouldent it? i miss my capricorn freind already, he still wont talk to me, he normaly sends me an email but he hasnt yet i hate offending him, he offends easily like i do any advice?
Your Aries friend and your Capricorn friend kind of sum up the Scorpio dilemma. Scorpio knows that life is a game, it just has high stakes. Capricorn does not want to talk about dying and sacrifice. Their mind is in conquest and achievement. Aries is too much like Scorpio in many ways, but they are not as serious as Scorpio. They can walk away from a battle if they have to. Scorpio is invested. Thus, their game playing is more serious. They even ask curious hypotheticals that discuss the investment of life itself. This is what I mean when I say that our relationships are for our growth. You asked a Scorpio question, and got a Capricorn result. While you are shaking your head over others, ask what it is teaching you.
Hello! WOW, yes!! The past year ive become VERY interested in spirituality (astrology and psychics, etc!)Yes, i do believe astrology is very real, considering my love of two years... he is a Scorpio and i am an Aries. I feel I can not live without this man, and he can never 'give up' on us either despite the frustrations and what not! We seriously get in a fight (over nonsense) and dont speak for two weeks---it's crazzzy!!! yet everytime we come back, it's like nothing ever happened. LOL. I am going to follow my intuition on this one, and KNOW that we will be together for good for a lifetime. :) i know it wont be roses and daisies, but when the love is so intense, how could you ever give that up, real love up, for an easier path with somebody more compatible or simple?? that doesn't make sense to me! LOL.And as Shakespeare says "The course of True Love never did run smooth" .... i really really feel he is my path no matter what trying times we've been through! I feel he is the only man i could TRUST with all my heart, and i feel his love for me is so deep, nothing can keep us away for too long. :) I hope im not crazy for believing so, LOL.
I will have to check out your book Cristofer ;) This is all very interesting stuff!!
Hello! WOW, yes!! The past year ive become VERY interested in spirituality (astrology and psychics, etc!)Yes, i do believe astrology is very real, considering my love of two years... he is a Scorpio and i am an Aries. I feel I can not live without this man, and he can never 'give up' on us either despite the frustrations and what not! We seriously get in a fight (over nonsense) and dont speak for two weeks---it's crazzzy!!! yet everytime we come back, it's like nothing ever happened. LOL. I am going to follow my intuition on this one, and KNOW that we will be together for good for a lifetime. :) i know it wont be roses and daisies, but when the love is so intense, how could you ever give that up, real love up, for an easier path with somebody more compatible or simple?? that doesn't make sense to me! LOL.And as Shakespeare says "The course of True Love never did run smooth" .... i really really feel he is my path no matter what trying times we've been through! I feel he is the only man i could TRUST with all my heart, and i feel his love for me is so deep, nothing can keep us away for too long. :) I hope im not crazy for believing so, LOL.
I will have to check out your book Cristofer ;) This is all very interesting stuff!!
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negacrowbar says:
5 months ago
I didn't think Aries and Scorpios could ever get along. LOL.