BEST FRIENDS

A true friend is someone who cares about our feelings and emotions. A true friend is a gift from God to us, and we should be very thankful to God who gave us this special gift. A gift that is most precious on this planet. Their friendship gives each of us support, saves us from going into worries, has always helped us in bad times.

Trust is the bases of any type of relationship. Each of us have found our true friends, and started trusting blindly...

We sometimes feel that our special friends are the most trusted people, and each of us share the good or bad experiences without any hesitation. And it is true, that, our friends should never hurt us or break our trust in any way. Honestly, we should really be proud of our loveable friend. With forgiveness we can move on to trust them and love them again.

There are many of us who go through life appreciating the special people in our lives. We may have several or some of us may only have one person who really makes a difference. These special people should be given a medal for friendship. If there was any for friendship and for having to bare the burden of our pain, our sorrows and carrying the cross for us when it has become too heavy to carry.

Our special friends that we cross paths with in our lives we sometimes take for granted and as they in turn take our friendship for granted. The lord has helped us along the way and given us the opportunity to meet these special people who have made a difference, touched and inspired us in so many ways.

However, as much as we go through life respecting and appreciating or sometimes loving our friends for being there; they sometimes forget the true meaning of friendship. As much as they do not realize that there are some people who actually do value friendship and cherishes what it means to have a true friend they hurt us unintentionally. They may not always realize the little things such as lying or playing games to test your trust, worthiness, morals, or to see what kind of person you really are. Every thing they do to test the waters of friendship or to see the value of a potential mate within their friends actually affects the friendship that we have grown accustomed to.

The trust we have in our friends will be broken because of the game of lies they want to play; will never be the same. And sometimes that may not always be true. Trust in a friend can be repaired. As much as we go day to day wishing and hoping that they should have thought about their actions we can never go back to change it. We sometimes ask ourselves why?

Knowing that our best friend should know better and they should know how we are when we are lied to. But what exactly is it that made them do the things they do? Why is it that once we see what is truly going on within our friendship...the friendship comes to a halt and we step back to see the true person? The path in our lives may sometimes hinder the friendships that we make along the way. Most or maybe one of many people will be taken for granted. We seldom see all the good that they may have done for us because they have done something wrong to our friendship and we will only see the bad that they have done.

We almost always make a mistake and end our friendships because we know that deep down we can never trust them again. We would think that as hard as it is to keep them as a friend and sometimes it may be the wrong thing to do. Ending a precious friendship will certainly bring more pain into our lives than we imagined. Only to realize that what I did was wrong. Most of us may not always feel a certain way for our friends and for which we all thought our best friend was the perfect friend that the lord sent our way. He/She was heaven sent. Every time I fell he was there, he picked me up and has told me it was going to be ok. However, its not every day we get to meet people who become important to us as our friends have throughout the years.

Look at it this way; be fortunate that we were given the gift of friendship. I am glad that God awarded me with someone so precious. I found that true friendship is few and far between. To be as lucky as I have been with his presence in my life you should be lucky to have that special friend in yours. But the road flows both ways. They should always remember and never forget that we are just as special to them as their dearest friend. As special people that they are they will always share special moments, both in happiness and sadness in our lives. They will never leave your side even through complicated situations. You are an asset not only to them, but they are to you as well. Their friendship and sincerity leads us to consider ourselves one of the luckiest individual(s) on this earth.

But with honesty, we can live our lives as friends...if it was meant to be. If they can't be honest because they are worried by the thoughts that it will hurt.....And in such way they will hurt each of us, try to find it in your heart to FORGIVE them for being dishonest. Friendship should be valued; we will go through life knowing that potentially our friends will hurt us. We will always need their love as our friends and their support to get us through life. Not everyone is perfect and we should not expect them to be. And in return they should not expect us to be perfect either.

We will feel even more positive and with peace in mind when we put our energy in to those we have trust in and over those whom we believe in, rather than going against the wind and regretting the mistakes we made. When we communicate we find that our likeness are far greater than the differences which we are having between us....and when we don't have any communication we see "only and only" our differences.

We should consider ourselves lucky because of our special friend(s). Your special friends should know that they will always be appreciated and that they are really remarkable. We should always enjoy their company near or far and try to capture these precious moments in each of our lives. Share your feelings with them because you just never know if you will get another chance to make things right with the special people in your lives. They are and will always be the only ones who will know you, love you for who you are. They will never ask for more or less of you as you would of them. Be there for them as they are there to guide you when you astray. It is our blind trust in our special friends and I am sure we will all be able to shake it. Always remember that you need each other. Love them for who they are and forgive them for what ever they did.

So have faith in the people who we truly call special friends and look forward to each day cherishing the friends we have in our lives. And when it all comes down to true friendship, we will all know when the reality of our friendships were not meant to be.

LIFE is too short to wake up in the morning with regrets. Love the people who treat you right and forget about the ones who don't. Believe that everything happens for a reason!!!

Because, " Life is like a box of chocolates you'll never know what your going to get!"

~ Forrest Gump (Tom Hanks)

To love and be loved is to feel the sun from both sides.

~David Viscott

A friend is someone we turn to

when our spirits need a lift.

A friend is someone we treasure

for our friendship is a gift.

A friend is someone who fills our lives

with beauty, joy, and grace.

And makes the whole world we live in

a better and happier place.

~ Jean Kyler McManus

To love and win is the best thing. To love and lose, the next best.

~ William M. Thackeray

Happiness is where we find it, but rarely where we seek it.~J. Petit Senn

Happiness depends upon ourselves.~Aristotle