I have been married to a women I met when I was seventeen years old. I am 48 now. We have been through alot of ups and downs. We raised four kids together and our youngest signed up for college today. We really had some tough times starting out. We both have always worked, and it has helped us grow together.

Some people say marriage is 50/50 but in reality it is 100/100. We have been mad at each other and not talked for a few days. i say we grew up together.

I do not know what your situation is but if you truely car about your mate and your mate cares about you all the rest can be overcome. Money is truely the toughest part to overcome. Either you have it or you don't and sometimes it can cause problems either way.

You have to figure out if you care about each other enough to cast everything else aside and tough it out. Sometimes it seams easier to walk away.

If it is meant to be it will be

Bob