Beating the blahs

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By Melissa G


Do you ever experience a complete lack of energy and general disinterest in life? As someone who works from home, with very little human contact during the day, and not even a pet to keep me company (my roommate is allergic), I sometimes develop a case of what I like to call "the blahs."

When the latest onslaught of the blahs struck yesterday afternoon, I became determined to find a way to rise above the ennui, since life is too magical and wonderful to squander one minute of it on boredom.

Here are a few coping mechanisms I came up with to help replace blahness with excitement and energy. Most of these have been adapted from wisdom and advice I've received through various sources over the years.

1. Take a deep breath - Shallow breathing is a leading cause of low energy and subsequent boredom. If you find yourself lacking zest for life, try taking a few, deep, refreshing breaths. Be sure to exhale completely to help ensure that your lungs can take in the maximum amount of oxygen during your inhales.

2. Adopt an attitude of gratitude - If you're feeling down in the dumps, take a moment to think about all the blessings in your life, and give thanks to whatever entity you believe in, or the universe, or just thank yourself for everything that you've done to arrive at such a great place in life. It's difficult to feel anything other than blissfully happy when you're in a state of gratitude.

3. Shake it off - One of the benefits of being a teleworker is that I can get up and do a little dance if I need an energy boost. Since I wouldn't recommend this in a public setting, sometimes all you need is a quick walk to the water cooler or the break room, or just a stretch to relax your neck and shoulder muscles. A little movement can do a lot to shift your mindset.

4. Create - Sometimes an outpouring of creative energy is exactly what you need to recapture your passion for life. Journaling or blogging works best for me, others may find their creative outlet in cooking, doodling, developing a yoga routine, writing letters, making videos, daydreaming... the possibilities are virtually endless.

5. Expand your mind - It's difficult to be unenthused about life if you take a moment to learn more about yourself and the world around you, be it through books, music, movies, the Internet, recreational activities, conversations, or any other source of mental stimulation. The more I learn, the more I realize how little I know, which motivates me to seek out additional knowledge in a neverending quest to better myself.

6. Set goals - If you're not happy with where you currently are, start thinking about where you'd like to be. From a conscious creation standpoint, thoughts manifest into reality, and the vibrational energy you send out will, to a large part, determine the nature of your experiences. So if you want to transform your life from blah to brilliant, think positive thoughts and keep holding the image of how you would like things to be in mind.

7. Smile (a.k.a Fake it before you make it) - Although I've forgotten much of what I learned in college, one thing that stuck with me was a passage from a psychology textbook saying that when we make vowel noises like "aye" and "ahh," they cause our mouth to turn upward and therefore lift our mood, while sounds like "ewe" and "oh" cause our mouths to turn downward and have the opposite effect. So, in essense, sometimes elevating your mood is as simple as turning your frown upside down.

I'm sure this isn't an exhaustive list, but these are the strategies that seem to help me the most. Please feel free to add to the discussion if you know of any blah-beating mechanisms that I've failed to list here.

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Feline Prophet profile image

Feline Prophet  says:
15 months ago

Nice hub Melissa! As one who works from home as well I completely understand what you're saying. Music works for me...and some green tea...and exchanging occasional banter with online friends! :)

Melissa G profile image

Melissa G  says:
15 months ago

Thanks, Feline Prophet! Great points--I'm not sure how I forgot to mention music and tea! Yerba Mate is one of my favorites for a nice mood lift and energy boost.

Thanks for your comment!

Neil Sperling profile image

Neil Sperling  says:
15 months ago

Hey - love this simple yet enlightening post - Great JOb!

Love Light and Laughter

Neil

Melissa G profile image

Melissa G  says:
15 months ago

Thanks, Neil!

Shalini Kagal profile image

Shalini Kagal  says:
14 months ago

Melissa - those are great tips to beat the blues!

One of those tips reminds me of what my parents kept telling us when we were growing up - that the devil could never enter a humble or a grateful heart - counting one's blessings just lifts one's spirits, doesn't it?

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Amanda Severn  says:
14 months ago

Hi Melissa,

These are great suggestions, and I use many of them myself. It's good to focus on the lighter side of life.

Your comment about smiling reminds me of something I was once told about clocks and watches. In the days before battery operated timepieces, clocks and watches were always displayed for sale with their hands in the ten to two position, apparently because it resembles a smile, and smiling is contagious. A happy shopper is of course more likely to buy!

Melissa G profile image

Melissa G  says:
14 months ago

Thanks, Shalini! That is a great expression. I hadn't heard that one before, but it's a nice reminder of the importance of gratitute. :) Thanks for commenting!

Hi Amanda! This might be the first time you left a comment when I wasn't commenting on/reading one of your hubs! ;) Very interesting about the time pieces! It's amazing how something so subtle can influence shoppers at a subconcious level. Thanks for sharing!

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