I know this might sound a little wacky, but if we want to keep our husbands or sign a person that believe in trying a variety of things to spice up my relationship with my husband. He will probably tell you, that there's never a dull moment living with me, because I always come up with something new for us to do. We all want our relationships to continue to blossom, so we do things that makes a difference in the relationship.

So, I got this idea for a bedroom pajama picnic party for two, and pajama means exactly that, but ladies you can wear your sexy lingerie, and let the guys wear their PJ's or boxer; whatever is comfortable and seductive to them. if you don't have little one's running around that's perfect, but if you do; you can wait until they 're all tucked in for the night. Ladies, you can get all your picnic things together, like the blanket, wine glasses and the food. Now you don't want nothing heavy, pick up some crackers, cheese, cold cuts, fruits, wine or cider to drink.

Ladies you can make a large tray with every thing on it like , crackers and cheese, crackers and cold cuts fruit chunks like pineapples, strawberries and whip cream, and grapes. This will be enough food tidbits to devour for the time being. Now pick out your favorite romantic music, you both like to hear; and put in on low. Spread your blanket and bring all your goodies to the bedroom and put them on you blanket and get the party going.

Turn on the music and maybe light a few candle, and turn off the lights and just talk about how you got together and how much you miss each other; just getting together and showing your love for each other. If this is done right , you both will have the time of your life and maybe even ignite some flame that has been left smoldering and unattended, the purpose of this little outing is to let your hair down and maybe even try some new things that you never did before.

Ladies you might could do a sexy strip dance, or be someone else for one night, the only thing you will be doing is rekindling a fire in your partner that will keep it burning and he or she gives you everything that you need and want. Sometimes in trying to surprise our mate or significant other we end surprising ourselves, all for the better.

After you ave finished eating your tidbits, drinking your wine, talking and dancing with each other; you can put out the fire that you both stated burning ; by kissing and touching each other and enjoying each. This never fails,I think it makes you appreciate each other for the better. Put a special little thing to do on your agenda at least once a month, if it's no more than renting a room at the hotel, and giving your husband a invitation to your room, make sure you be very enticing maybe with a new sexy wig and sexy lingerie or nothing at all but jet black stocking and heels, ladies you know how to do it, come on that 's how we got them in the first place; being a little naughty but always nice.

Come on we all have brains so let use the to come up with ways to make him or her happy, satisfied and content. There's always to a situation a romantic one, just by being smart and inventive. Why should you settle for a ho-hum relationship when you can have static electricity in your relationship. Try it you might like it.

Benny Faye Douglass