Boob Jobs and Men's Opnions
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Im curious to hear from you men. Most of my friends are guys and Ive yet to hear that men actually prefer fake boobs. Ive heard (from one guy who had a girlfriend with them) that they "felt weird and unnatural."
Someone in my family had a boob job. When I hug her, they feel like rocks on her chest. And hers are quite a few years old.
Im wondering, do you men really care one way or the other? Are boobs just boobs to you? Is bigger necessarily better? Would you prefer a flat chested woman over a woman with fake double D's? Does it even matter?
Are breasts really that important when it comes down to loving someone? Would you rather date a fake girl with an obnoxious personality or a real girl with a down to earth one?
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Very interesting. Im more of the opinion that girls should keep it natural but then I like my breasts. I didnt always have boobs as nice as they are now though, for some reason theyve grown from an A cup to an almost C cup in a year, and its not because Ive put on weight either. Must have something to do with the meds Im taking post surgery (obviously not breast surgery). But even before when they were small, I liked em enough not to worry about making them bigger with breast inhancement. I just have never understood the need for huge boobs. I actually liked mine better when they were smaller.
I think we like real ones but if a girl is real flate,may be a little b**b job won't hurt. Being with a peerfect figure girl is definitely an aspiration, but not at the cost of real thing.
I dated a girl who was a C-size, and I married a woman who's an A. I wouldn't want my wife her to get implants. To me, the shape, nipple size, firmness, etc are more important than having really big breasts.
I'll glance over at woman with a big chest, think "wow", and then move on. They certainly get attention. But I'll do the same for an attractive woman with a small chest. If she's attractive, she's attractive. Breast size is only one component of that.
In my opinion, if breast size is a deciding factor in a relationship decision, some immature people are involved (that could go for the woman, too).
Thanks for your input guys. So Im getting that its really not an issue. Wonder why plastic surgeon's are raking in the dough for these surgeries then...
I used to think it had something to do with self esteem but my cousin had a healthy amount of love for herself beforehand so thats not it. I wonder what the most common reason for a boob job is.
The one reason my wife said she might consider doing it is that good clothes (summer dresses in particular) just aren't generally made for people with smaller chests. We also have a friend who went from a AA (seriously, she looked like a 9-year-old) to a B with implants, and she says it's just such a relief to be able to buy clothing that's made for "normal" women.
I can see those reasons but one thing women need to know before they do it, you cant ever go back to exactly the way you were if you dont like them. For one thing, as Ive said, they can be extremely hard. One girl I know had one go "flat" and mushy. Also, if you dont get a really good surgeon and pay a whole lotta dough, and im talking no less than ten grand, theyre going to look fake. I just wish women would love what they DO have and not obsess about what they wish they had.
the law of nature is the more the lady is feminine the more sexier and appealing she is. and curvaceous figure and fuller breats are a sign of ripe feminity with oomph overflowing. that is the reason men are drawn towards it.
when it comes to show bussiness it is visuals which command respect and women get the fake ones done.-(attention seeking and narcicisstic )
but in reality the sensuality counts not the size or contour. so may be in private reality and real ones scores better than fake ones.(men who are hypocrites can disagree with this)
teddy- I LOVE you! are we sharing a brain? haha!
Personally, i find fake breasts just as much fun as real, yet some fillings surgeons have used were too hard which made it unnatural and not as pleasant as real ones:D!..
It a shame that these days having a boob job is becoming more acceptable as having a piercing and if girls think that all us guys like bigger and firmer is definitely not the case..!
It's funny that JonBoy's wife says she would consider a boob job to fit better into clothing, because I've heard my big chested friends complain that nothing ever fits them right... I can see how it would be difficult to find stuff to wear that's big enough to accomodate large breasts and a smaller torso....
As for smaller endowed ladies, I think they have it better... they can wear a push-up bra if they want, but what's even better is they don't *have* to wear a bra at all!
As for the men... in my experience, different men like different things, boobs, butts, legs, blondes, brunettes or redheads. But the really good guys like the whole package... not just the parts.
I think boob jobs should be outlawed. It has no real purpose what so ever. Maybe in causes like breast cancer or something like that but not just for apperance. America cares more about bra size than test scores and that is the problem.
Real is definitely better, even if they're smaller. All the hoopla (boob-la?) is centered mainly around the entertainment industry and magazine sales.
I believe I remember hearing that the French say anything larger than what will fit in a teacup is excess, and they are suppose to be "great lovers" of women. My wife has small breast, but I like them just fine.
I don’t like fake people. So I don’t like fake boobs, I don’t like botoxed women and I definitely don’t like fake personalities. Sure I can see that one pair of (natural) boobs is more attractive to me than the other. So when it comes to boob jobs, I think that having your breasts modified just because you THINK that men will appreciate you more is a big mistake. It’s different if a woman has her boobs lifted (or made smaller), because she herself really feels physically, menatlly or emotionally bad, due to (the size of) her breasts.
I feel that REAL anything is better than fake. Why single out on one area of your life. Look how popular massive muscles were in the 70's. Now lean is the trend. I guarantee you in a few years smaller breast will be the trend. All the "doctors" will have a pocket full of money, hte big breasted women will be left with unpopular fake breasts with ugly scars. Scars ulgify anything on the body.
I agree that natural is preferable but for women who are have very small breasts, augmentation IS better than keeping small breasts. I will be completely honest, I am a breast man. I am not the only one. I like large, full, firm breasts on a woman, and I consider it a very important feature, just as a woman's hands, gait, and eyes are important. C cup or larger should probably not be enhanced unless there are certain fetishes or body modification fantasies are play; they will not look real. I would suggest that a full D cup or double D is a good figure for a woman of curvy build of 5'5" or more in height.
I say if a woman wants it for herself than go for it. I love a woman for who she is not what she looks like. If that includes real ones or fake ones i'll love her just the same.
Tomas XDisciplin says:
2 years ago
I'm willing to date women who are flatter than I am, and am slightly averse to overly large breasts; however, for a handful of other men I have talked to, the prestige of dating a woman who *looks* like she has perfect breasts (and therefore gives him envy-points among the other boys) is very attractive.