It's always funny to me that when you are going through a break up some of your friends and family always tell you, I knew it wouldn' last. Some of them have actually tried to hurt the relationship while you were together. I know some of them actually had your concern at heart and really didn't want you to get hurt.

However, some of these people were jealous. Sometimes it seems like they like breaking up relationships just for the fun of it.  They are not happy so they don't want you to be happy. Misery loves company. Don't listen to these people if you think that you still love this guy and maybe you want to get back him. Then that's what you should do.

Breaking off the relationship can be very good at times. It gives you a chance to look at your boyfriend from a different perspective. Maybe you jumped the gun, maybe you reacted to quickly about something in the big picture really is not that important. Go back and look at the times that you and your boyfriend shared together. Were there a lot more good times than bad.

When you are evaluating your relationship with him can you honestly say that he loves me for who I am. Does he really care about you and sincerely wants you to be happy. Is he the kind of person that will go out of his way to make you happy. These are all very important aspects of a relationship and especially important if you are considering getting back with you ex boyfriend.

Be careful when you are considering this, make sure that he wants you back and that breaking up and getting back together is an emotional roller coaster. You don't want to find yourself doing this to often. The breaking up relationships thing can get old after a while.   If you and your boyfriend have the type of relationship where breaking up and getting back together has happened a few times already, then you need to consider getting out for good. If this is a pattern with you and your boyfriend then you need to break the pattern. There are some self help books that you should read to give you a better understanding of why this continues to happen. Look into some of these books and you will see that your relationship will be strong and less confusing.