These days there are so many factors in daily life that can affect your marriage and be a potential reason for divorce. Pressures of work, children, finances and more can all put an invisible strain on your marriage which will not be apparent at the time but if these problems were to be eliminated then the marital problems would certainly e different if not erased altogether.

Here are some pointers that you might find of use if your marriage is looking a little unstable.

• Don't try to change your partner. You will not be able to do so and it is not worth the effort in trying. If you try to do this then you will give your partner the impression that they are not wanted or loved as they really are.

• Make passion in your marriage a priority. Keep the spark alive and maintain the passion. The fire can often easily disappear in a marriage and can be re-kindled with a little passion.

• In all contentions there is always a greater good. When you are having an argument, both couples will recognise when the absolute truth is uncovered. Don't be afraid to admit that you are wrong and submit to the higher truth. if you can let your ego subside and admit when you are wrong is one of the most powerful techniques that can be used and will help your marriage more that you can imagine.

• There will always be things that you disagree on in your relationship some of which will never be agreed upon. Don't be afraid to disagree, accept it and move on.

• If you are both on tight schedules and have problems in actually spending time together then you should try to schedule in a time when you can be together. Quality time on a daily basis is a must. Also going on dates with each other can help maintain the spark in your relationship

• Try to keep on top of your marriage. Even if there are no apparent problems it is a good idea to get a couples retreat, either organised or just a simple get away. You might even benefit from a joint counseling session from time to time just to keep your marriage fine tuned.

• Major decisions should always be made as a couple. This includes making large purchases, schooling and upbringing issues for children, job decisions etc. All of these should be discussed so that neither partner begins to feel dominated with their decisions being duped or ignored.

• Try not to let small matters get in the way. Try to keep things in perspective. The little annoying habits of your partner like leaving the top off the toothpaste or leaving clothes lying around shouldn't become grounds for divorce. This can all be worked out with a little give and take on both parts.

If both of you are willing to make a little effort with your marriage then most of the problems can be sorted out with ease. Get out of all the emotional issues and take a look at your lives from a different perspective, put thing into order and sort out your priorities. You will soon see how your marriage can grow into something stronger and more beautiful every day.

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