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After over 5 years of working security in a bar/club, I have seen some interesting events to say the least. The one spot I would like to touch on are those that go to the bar/club looking to get laid, "club sex".
Speaking of men I've seen come in and out, I would guess around at least 85% are hoping to get laid. As for women, maybe around 40%-65%, these are just guesstimates.
So you may ask, why would anyone want to meet an acquaintance at a bar? From experience, I will say this is not a good idea on most occasions. When most go to a bar, they go to drink or dance or relax from the work week. I have seen many come in and leave with a different person every weekend. If you and the person you meet are both drunk, you will most likely see false personalities of each other.
So what happens if you do think you have met that right someone in your drunken stupor? Should you go with the moment and endulge in "club sex"? I can't say, this is your decision. I will say that there are often bad consequences from drunken actions. I wrote another piece about "sex on the first night". http://hubpages.com/hub/Sex-On-The-First-Night
To men, I would like to say that some of the regular women in the bar would leave with different guys every weekend and vice versa to the women. Many men that would come in often would leave with different women every weekend. If you decide to go with the moment, more power to you. However, I would suggest a condom or saran wrap if either you or the other is down to "give it up" the first night meeting.
Thank You for Reading.
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I met my husband in a bar/club. Was supposed to be a one-night stand and here were are some 18 years later. But I agree I am in an extremely small percentage probably 1% if not less.
Thanks for reading Alex, Triplet Mom.
Triplet Mom, Do you and your husband still go to bars?
never met a guy in a bar I would talk to in a drunken stupor. not a good idea, it;s jus a lay and when they are drunk not that good.
dori
I have dealt with the bar scene in years but I see that it is the same routine, you certainly are giving others some common sense points. Nice little read. :)
Thanks for reading Dori, AEvans
I appreciate your advise especially the last one. Thanks dear.
some things to think about there indeed great hub
Hello Brenda, Shame,
Thank You for reading/commenting.
Well, this is life for some, sadly now days it can be deadly.
Thank You for readin ralwus. Some of us think or have thought that we are invincible.
"Some of us think or have thought that we are invincible" very true and most of the time very sad. I to use to be a bartender, some folks looking for, conversation, some looking for a lifetime friend, some looking to drown out there miserable life, and so on. But I did enjoy most of the people that came in.
Thank You for reading. Hit on much as a bartender? lol You got them drunk and I had to kick them out. Plus you got paid more. I enjoyed the people that came in that we didn't have to kick out.
It would have been nice to have a bouncer, but all I had was a big old bat. Only had to use it one time..lol.
Completely agree. It happens very rarely that one can meet a good person to live the rest of the life together in a bar/club. But you know - there are exceptions. ;)
Thank You for reading and commenting Gin. Very true, always exceptions.
AlexK2009 says:
5 months ago
Good common sense points, though common sense is a very rare quality.
Sex with a stranger is a high risk matter whether in a club or elsewhere. Obviously one should use protection, but better wait till you know somethig about them. I am not saying only have sex with someone if you love them - liking is enough as long as neither expects more.
The adverse conequences of casual sex include disease, pregnancy and someone getting badly hurt. In some countries it can result in you getting killed by the other person's relatives.
There is also the Badger game where you get lured into sex. You probably won;t get robbed ( another risk) buit suddenly someone bursts in claiming to be a policeman and that what youa re doing is illegal. On the way to the police station thy will say things can be fixed relatively cheaply,,,,,,
I would hope I have more self respect than to rely on alcohol to help me attract sexual partners.