Can You Trust Your Husband?
67No Trust: No Relationship
Over the years, over so many tea party's, at so many beauty parlours, a recurring debate amongst wives has been the issue of trust as it affects both guilty and innocent husbands. Can and should we trust our husband is a song on the lips of so many concerned wives. Hey, for good reason too, if you ask me.
With the alarming rate at which marriages are crashing these days...is it a wonder? Every right thinking wife has to be genuinely concerned. Our global societies have run amork with increasing and shocking levels of decadence. Promiscuity is rife, sex abuse is rampant, drug use is prevalent, same sex marriage(ooops, this is just my personal opinion) is now a norm....on and on and endlessly.
Take heart wives, the worst has not and will not hit your homes if you learn to Trust and Obey!
The One who keeps Israel never sleeps nor slumbers! (wow did I just write that)? So even as we (by we i mean wives) commit our homes to Gods care, we must learn to do our part. Learn to Trust your husbands.
Treat him like a king....everyman loves to be pampered and dotted on.
Respect him....he deserves it. His thoughts and opinions count a great deal.
Understand his pressures...he goes through a lot to put bread on that table!!
Support him...be there for him; listen to his plans, problems,and prospects.
Talk with him...not tohim. His mother did that all his life!!!!
When most wives cultivate this simple method of trust in their marriages, it doesn't matter what anyone out there says about their husbands fidelity....he's coming straight home to you...because he knows you TRUST him!!!!
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Thanks for agreeing,i believe so too. It's actually the most vital ingredient...I guess.
Soyelude,
This is a well written hub. While I certainly agree with these points, I must ad that marriage is a two way street and this trust and treatment you mention is not always reciprocated. As a survivor of divorce for this reason, I know from experience that no matter how well you treat someone nor how much you prove you can be trusted, if that same respect is not returned, the relationship is still doomed.
Many times, society assumes that when a man strays from his wife that it is somehow her fault. Yet, when a woman strays, she is looked down upon as trash. While I realize that opinions and beliefs differ from one culture to another,, it just seems common sense to me that if you "both" trust each other and "both" respect each other, things will work a lot better than if a wife just "exisists" in a marriage to please her husband.
Love is a two way street and no matter how much you love someone, if they do not return that respect, love and trust, it is possible to kill that love as well as the relationship.
You bring out some excellent advice in this hub! It just needs to be directed at both sides, rather than just one.
Bonnie Ramsey
Thanks for the comment Bonnie,pls note that in a previous hub "Never,ever get married" I mentioned the male angle,so I thought to balance it. Thanks Bonnie for the incisive input,its quite good.
Trust and OBEY....
I'm staying single LOL
I have been lucky enough to always meet men who are completely honest with me and I give that back too. Trust definitely is important
OMG is that right soyelude King? bread on the table...In what perfect lifetime are you refering to my dear? Agreed that TRUST IS A MUST, TALKING WITH SOMEONE NOT TO THEM, AND BEING FAIR IS FINE AND NECESSARY..But what makes you think women don't like to be pampered and doted upon. It is a 2-way street no matter what. and though your other hubs refered to this,,,somehow this one charged me up...Love you anyway...G-Ma :o)hugs
Thanks for the comments G-ma. Not by any means trying to be chauvnistic...sorry you got charged up. Indeed, it is a two way street...love you trillions.
oh am sorry soyelude...didn't mean to attack
you...you are a fine person with a sweet caring mind..KING? G-Ma :O) hugs
I always have been there for my husband then one day he said its a two way street. wow, trust weres that.... 18 years later
Very good hub! Trust is a major factor when it comes to relationships. I am so glad that you emphasized about talking TO him and not at him. Growing up in a family with all brothers, I cant tell you how important this is. I always take that advice for my own relationships, men DO not like to be talked AT.. as you stated.. THEIR MOTHER DID THAT!
Great information! I definitely give this one a thumbs up!
I should get my wife to read your hub... :)
Thank you Kay Kerns and Junjie pls stop by again.
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Research Analyst says:
7 months ago
Great Hub, I agree that TRUST plays a big part in a relationships long lasting success.