It is my personal experience, that lets me say that one-on-one relationships are far over rated. I myself have been married for 15 years, however, we got "legal" just for political reasons. If two people stay together, it should be because they find something on one another. It is natural that people become bored with each other and if they do not act then, they will eventually get fed up with each other! People also nee solitude! There is no reason to feel guilty because the other one seems bored; one needs to take the first step and say "look it's been fun, but i need to go my own way for awhile." At this state we tend to stereotype that our sexual performance is being criticised, but (!) we are not only made for (that!). We are sensual, spiritual, creative beings, in addition to production studs (and mares)! Sex is also overrated! It is a piece of logic that sex represents a leading marketing context for countless products: Not only condoms, negligees, vaseline and the spanish fly capitalize on the marketing of sex, also the fitness, center, diet programs, the clothing industry, golf clubs, casinos ...... e.i. appeal to the sexual energies we occasionally experience and want to live out.

The bottom line is: Our spiritual satisfaction, which is the source of our sanity, will most likely not require anything that has to do with commerce, economy, money, sex or even somebody else. To be balanced human beings, and to have balanced relationships, we need to be at peace with ourself first, then we can go beyond our personal parimeter and form healthy, inter-dependent bonds with others. Two people sitting at home feeling bad because the other one looks bored? Please. Just go and entertain yourself for a while so you have something to talk about, again!