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Something crazy happened the other day...

A friend of mine was dating an amazing

woman he had recently met, and things were

going great.

They had gone out 5 or 6 times and couldn't

keep their hands off each other.

They both felt a strong level of attraction

and chemistry with each other that told them

this wasn't just another thing.

And my friend kept telling me how great

this woman was after every date-

"She's just the coolest woman I've ever met.

She's fun, she's sexy, and we have such an

incredible time together."

I could see his interest in her was growing,

and it was clear this was going somewhere in

his mind. This guy didn't usually talk or act

this way about women he dated.

It looked like this was more than two people

"dating". It was becoming a "real relationship".

But then something happened...

I didn't hear from him for a few days, and

I gave him a call.

As soon as he picked up the phone I could

hear something was different in his voice.

He didn't have the same energy and excitement

that I'd been hearing lately.

I asked him, "So what's going on?"

Reluctantly he told me-

"You remember that great woman I was dating?"

"Yeah", I said.

"Well, I should have seen it coming. I

finally found out that she's crazy."

And with that, it was absolutely clear

that my friend was 100% OVER this woman.

Not 2 days ago he was falling for her and

she could do no wrong.

In fact, the thought of her being "the one"

might have even crossed his mind.

But in a matter of moments he had gone from

passionate and excited to be with this woman

to absolutely, positively sure that she would

never be the kind of woman he wanted to stay

with.

How did that happen?

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PROBLEMS I've found that consistently stop

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If you'd like to know all about what's

really going on with men and why they lose

interest just because you say or do one little

thing that makes him pull away, then you need

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Ok, now back to it...

So how does a man go from into a woman and

thinking she might be "the one", to suddenly

WITHDRAWING because he sees her as "crazy".

Even though she's the same great woman he

used to be so wild about moments before.

Well, I'll tell you.

Have you ever heard a man you know - a guy

friend, a brother, whoever - talk about how a

certain woman is "crazy"?

It's a common word among men... and if

you've heard how men use this word, then

I don't have to tell you how men use it as a

kind of short-hand.

When a guy says a woman who he was dating

turned out to be "crazy"... every other guy

who hears this knows what this means about

the woman without having to ask.

In fact, without having ever talked about

it directly, all men speak this kind of "guy

code" about women when it comes to what it

means if a woman is "crazy".

All men have what I think of as a highly

tuned "crazy" radar system when it comes to

women and dating that signals a warning at

the slightest hint of what they perceive as

"crazy" behavior.

And what's more fascinating is that all

men have the exact same RESPONSE when they

get a hint in their mind that a woman they're

dating is acting "crazy" - they WITHDRAW.

The truth is... no matter how amazing a

woman seems, and no matter how incredible the

time has been that a man's spent with a woman,

if a woman shows up and does anything that

makes him see some of those "crazy" qualities,

then EVERYTHING ELSE goes right out the window.

It's as though nothing else ever happened

in a man's mind... and all he can see are the

bad things he's afraid might be there inside

a woman.

Now, I know it's not very "nice" to say

and talk about a silly stereotype about women

in general that isn't true, or very mature to

use.

But here's the thing...

This is THE REALITY of HOW MOST MEN THINK

about women when dating, for better or worse.

So why do so many men think this way about

women and dating? And what can you do about it?

Here are 2 things you need to know:

1) Men "Date" Without A Relationship In Mind

Do you ever get frustrated that you can go

out with a man and have an incredible time

together, and maybe even go out on a few dates...

and then he'll simply stop calling and act as

though there was never anything there between

you?

Or have you ever had a man spend lots of

time with you, beg for your time and attention,

and then once he gets to be with you he suddenly

turns on a dime and tells you how he's not

ready for a serious relationship?

Frustrating, right?

But what do all these things have in common?

They all are examples of how men don't

think of "dating" the way you do.

Men can spend time with a woman, be physical

with her, and connect with her on a certain

emotional level... and still not have any real

desire for a relationship.

This in of itself isn't a "revelation".

Here's what is...

There's a "danger" to feeling that strong

CONNECTION with a man.

The "Danger Of The Connection" you feel with

a man is that all the things you think, feel and

experience with him will tell you inside with

certainty that this is something REAL.

The beginnings of an amazing RELATIONSHIP.

But the reality for a man is that feeling

and experiencing this connection with you has

VERY LITTLE to do with whether or not he will

want a relationship with you.

In his mind, the feelings he shares with

you are simply part of him "dating" you and

spending time with you... and have nothing to

do with him thinking about or wanting to COMMIT

to anything with you.

2) Mature And Immature Men Can Be "Scared Off"

By Women Who Show "Crazy Signals"

I wish it wasn't so... but men can see the

EMOTIONS you share with him as very bad things.

Even when your INTENTION is good.

If you're concerned about your relationship

with a man, and you want to help things along

by talking to him about it... often times the

very same emotions that you feel because you

want things to be better are the same emotions

that will have him see you as "crazy" and want

to get away from you as quickly as possible.

Sure, it would be great if men weren't so

quick to respond to your emotions in this kind

of way... but then guess what?

Then they also wouldn't be so quick to

respond to your emotions in POSITIVE ways

either.

Here's the point...

If you don't know what it is you're doing

that is causing a man who loves being around

you to get scared off and WITHDRAW... then

you're likely to never be able to have the

relationship you want and make it LAST.

For the quickest way to learn what's going

on inside a man's mind, how men think about

relationships with women... and how to talk

to a man in a way that gets HIM to open up

and start sharing his feelings and bringing

you and your relationship closer together...

then I STRONGLY RECOMMEND you check out my

eBook "Catch Him & Keep Him".

In it I talk in detail about the "Danger Of

A Connection" with a man... and what it is

that makes a man want a relationship with

you other than the connection he feels with

you.

For a man, there is a trap he can fall

into with you that will guarantee that he'll

not want to grow in your relationship and

become more loving and committed with you-

and that trap is falling into the "Resistor"

role with you... where you have to be the

one to "carry" your relationship and CONVINCE

him that your relationship is the best thing

for him.

Of course, playing this "Convincer" role

is also a HUGE trap tons of women fall into

themselves. Which by definition causes a

man to take on the role of RESISTING them

and growth in their relationship.

Don't let these traps, and the things you

can quickly and easily learn about keep you

from having the lasting relationship you

really want.

Learn all this and everything you need to

know about how men think about relationships

starting on page 46 of my eBook.

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it in literally a minute from now if you

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And if it's time that you finally learned

once and for all exactly how to magnetically

ATTRACT a man to you on a DEEP EMOTIONAL LEVEL,

so that he might even be the one trying to

convince you to want more with him, then I've

got good news here too.

And as luck would have it, I've put together

an entire CD/DVD program to help you do exactly

that - create an intense level of ATTRACTION

that will draw a man in and emotionally "connect"

him to you in a way that will carry your

relationship forward.

When a man FEELS an intense level of

ATTRACTION for you that goes way deeper than

the common Physical Attraction he can feel for

other women... he'll see you as VERY SPECIAL

and want to stay with you.

Go here now to see some video samples from

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attraction with a man you never knew possible.

And enjoy the lasting relationship and the

deep emotional connection that comes with a

man feeling this way about you.