Just the other day,while my hubby & I were taking a Saturday morning ride, he brought up the fact that i didn't have sex with him the night before.Of course I replied " I didn't know you wanted to" This started a long and deep conversation.

You would think that after 30 years of being together and 25 of marriage,we would not have this type of problem. Amazing isn't it ?

Now mind you, we have a very healthy and happy sex life,or so I thought, Ha !

The truth of the matter is sex is not the most important thing in a marriage...communication is.

So he has communicated to me that just to set the record straight (smile) ALWAYS assume that he would like to have sex and just what is sex to him ?

Kissing, touching,  cuddling,rubbing his back, etc. Intercourse is just one area of sex, not all of it. Seems just embracing each other he likes it as much as I do. Who knew.

We are now  more in tune with one another more than ever .

Let's not get so distracted with the world problems and neglect your mate.

They are the ones to see us at our worst and yet loves, protect and cherish us.

We are to put them first. Period.

Be encouraging,loving.Learn to disagree without being disagreeable.Listen with your heart,

open your eyes...focus .

I am learning that the more we communicate to one another, the better things are.

Happy Communicating !