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Celebrity Death: Culture And Consciousness

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By A.M. Gwynn

"One cannot be aware of one's own mortality without conceiving of the inevitability of death as an affront and an indignity; and without thinking of the ways to repair the wrong."  Zygmunt Bauman



The death of a celebrity, or a well known admired public figure, creates a profound sense of collective loss.

It is strongly suggested that due to contemporary culture's repression of death; our inability to accept and explore death as a natural and inevitable event, the subsequent outpouring of collective shock, disbelief and grief after the death of a well known figure is therefore exacerbated.

In many ways it is felt the media has a strong role in this. And it is not only because of the celebrity's larger than life presence in collective culture, the very horror of death itself persists in our collective consciousness.

We have seen this throughout modern American history many times; the deaths of President John F. Kennedy, Rev. Dr. Martin Luther King, Elvis Presley, John Lennon, Princess Diana and now Michael Jackson.

To explain why millions of people can experience such profound grief for someone they did not personally know, we look to sociology, psychology even anthropology to explain it for us. We are desperately enthralled by the idea, image and symbolism of celebrity. We have in most ways, set them apart from us.

We raise their humanity to unbelievable levels, expect them to deliver things to us not asked of, nor expected from everyday people. We hold their behavior, their habits, their ability to entertain us and inspire us, and their mistakes under a microscope.
When they speak we listen, when they endorse a cause, an entity or a product, we join that cause, endorse that entity and rush out to buy that product.

And when they make a mistake, commit some wrong, or fail us in various different ways, we turn on them and crucify them.
What is this phenomenon of human behavior that is inherent in us as a culture, a society? Can this be dated all the way back to antiquity? Is the story of Jesus Christ a good place to begin?

"The trivialization of death lies at the very heart of our cultural difficulty in treating seriously matters such as bereavement and loss and gives rise to a dramatic sense of death as an obscene event."   Anthony Elliot


Certainly the concept and experience with death has changed for us over the course of history. In earlier times, death was accepted as a natural and expected event in the course of life. In modern times, death has been a subject of medical and technical "control".

Death is hushed and hidden away. We do not as societies incorporate the experience of death as a normal process, nor do we embrace the learning and acceptance of death.

Death is the greatest symbol of fear. Death is the greatest fear. It lives in our collective consciousness as the ultimate horror.
We must have an explanation for death. And because there is no explanation for death outside of it being natural and inevitable, we have great trouble accepting it. This is always true and when it happens to us personally, it is devastating and life altering.

When it happens to a celebrity, one who is such a constant "unaverage" presence in our collective daily lives and memories, it can be just as devastating to many people. Especially because we have created them to be larger than life, personally admire them, and many times feel as if we do now them personally.

Celebrity itself, the making of, the psychology of, and awareness of it, is an entirely different subject. And these celebrities themselves often work hard to create such an image and presence in collective societal consciousness. But celebrity death has much to do with collective self knowledge, a shared sense of admiration and stored memory, and a sense of collective identity and security.

The death of a celebrity is a collective mourning of ideals, a fracturing in society. We feed upon and react to each others senses of the world and celebrity as we know it and understand it. And our identity as a nation is wrapped up in our collective memory. The everyday man's death comes and passes silently; because their deaths are not in that place of collective memory, they are only grieved within their families and friends psyches.

It is a fine line one must walk between public and private life, between identity and it's presentation, between a normal life and celebrity.


If "larger than life" human beings, if those very ones we have set above all others dies, especially suddenly, under circumstances that could have been prevented, or that was an unnatural death such as murder or accident, death becomes all the more shocking collectively. And the real imminence of our own mortality screams at us in the mirror of their death. "If these larger than life people die, how fragile are we really?"

We feel as if our collective identities have been stolen, melancholy echoes of their work, their music, their art or their humanitarian efforts can in the beginning haunt us, leaving us grieving as if they indeed were our very own family. In the larger collective sense, we have made them part of our family. A part of our everyday lives.

Unable to mourn, to release the very real part of someone we have incorporated into ourselves as a part of ourselves, leaves us unable to withdrawal from their death, unable to release them in order to make sense of their lives, our own lives and the concept of death in order to live again. Society should be able to mourn the losses of their cultural "identity" just as they should mourn their personal and individual losses.

Without this mourning, we are left not only with perpetuating the disbelief of death, but the coming to terms with and understanding, the meanings of our collective memories and symbols.

It is not irrational to expect great mourning in those who have incorporated an individual into their contemplative thought, memory, admiration and history. Public figures, or celebrities that may have existed throughout most of our lives as presences, on any extended or elevated level, that suddenly are no longer a presence, causes to some extent the same sense of loss and sadness, as do extremely personal losses.

And as collectively territorial as we become of our dead cultural deities, we also experience and even participate in, collective exploitation of them when they die.


Do we subsequently trivialize death through commercial exploitation? Certainly history repeats itself regarding celebrity death and the immediate reaction of commercial dissemination of images, products, and a bombardment of glamorized tributary events. This phenomenon is ten fold when that celebrity is known and admired not only in this country, but throughout the world.

For the most part the reaction of this sudden scrambling to buy t-shirts, CD's, posters or other memorabilia of a celebrity, is a nostalgic idealization. A sense of perpetuating the lost one through the saturation of their image. In some ways it seems indicative of a cultural crises.

And in the short term, it is a cultural crises. A collective sorrow, a questioning and an attempt to understand not only in individual terms, but in cultural terms, all that the celebrity has meant to culture, how they may have changed it and fought for change that represented our own ideals but our inability to achieve them.

There is commercial exploitation that results in celebrity death foremost by media and commercial industry sources. Are we participating in this exploitation by tuning in to those media outlets that saturate us, by purchasing those products and materials related to the celebrity? There is a line to draw here as well. In order to realize the fact of a celebrity's death, accept and move forward from it; just as in the extremely personal deaths which we must work through, we must also process "cultural" deaths.

"It's fear of the unknown. The unknown is what it is. And to be frightened of it is what sends everyone scurrying around chasing dreams, illusions, wars, peace, love hate."   John Lennon


But there is a difference between the media assisting the public and the collective culture by reporting on new details, allowing us visual opportunities to come to terms with celebrity death; and shameful, disrespectful, dishonest trivialization of their death. The media itself has become "circus." And in many ways corrupted.

Being glued to our televisions is not what is wrong. In the beginning it is expected and it is okay, even healthy if it has assisted you with feelings of shock, disbelief and grief. It is when we find ourselves screaming in anger or indignation at those television screens, when it perpetuates our feelings of grief when we walk away from that television that it becomes harmful.

We may never be able to reconcile ourselves with our love/hate relationship with the relentless driving force of media, but we can put it in perspective. We can compartmentalize it's role in our lives. And until we can collectively change the face of media and it's role, change the rules of the game and the boundaries, if ever, we must create them for ourselves.

There are some for whom celebrity death is a nuisance, an afterthought, they have no opinion either way of the death and it doesn't affect them at all; they do not participate in collective cultural grief. That is healthy too. What is not healthy, is the disregard or the refusal to recognize the fact and effects of cultural grieving.

There have been few celebrity deaths that have had the magnitude of setting into motion a global grief. That too is a whole other subject. But I urge you to study and learn of this very natural human reaction and cultural grieving's place in society.

Collective grieving brings us together as a nation, a global community, and as human beings. It reminds us the rituals of storytelling, the continuation of memory and experience, and it bonds us into a future time. It can not only help us to understand our culture, our humanity and ourselves, but the process of death and dying.

{ All photographs provided were taken from the worldwide collection of captured moments in the collective grief of the death of Michael Joseph Jackson 1958-2008 Requiescat In Pace }

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rosariomontenegro profile image

rosariomontenegro  says:
5 months ago

I remember how the passing of the great saint of the XXth century, Mother Teresa of Calcutta, received a fraction of the attention it deserved due to the global pain you describe focused on Lady Diana, that was killed at the tunnel de l'Alma one week before. Only India mourned appropriately --with good reason-- the passing of that universal Mother.

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A.M. Gwynn  says:
5 months ago

Rosario, I remember the Mother Teresa's death. She is remembered for her force of humanity in the world. I think, that would be a lovely Hub for you to write perhaps? We never feel as if we could do justice to these powerful human beings through writing small articles on them, but remember that it is our sharing, our remembrance and our storytelling that matters. I hope you think about it.

TONYA HICKS  says:
5 months ago

Very well written. This is a subject most of us would not even think about , going through the process of grieving as a whole, seperate as a family . The whys and reasons as society goes through this process I have never heard and what it does bring ,to us as a whole.... very interesting indeed

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James A Watkins  says:
4 months ago

You are incredibly perceptive and an extraordinarily incisive writer.  I felt bad about MJ because I think—I do not know—that he was falsely accused and that this ultimately led to his death by escaping that pain.  For money.  I have been falsely accused by a vindictive Ex-wife who knew it not remotely true but just wanted to hurt me in a child custody case.  Luckily, the truth about her came out a few years later but the accusation itself really hurts.  I have ignored all the TV shows until today when I tuned in to the last hour of the memorial service and when his little daughter got up there to say he was the best father in the world—I wept.

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A.M. Gwynn  says:
4 months ago

James, thank you so much for sharing what I know must have been such a painful experience in your life. It is the sharing of such human experiences and struggles that unites us as people. It allows others to know they are not alone. Thank you.

I have avoided speaking publicly, outside of family, about Michael Jackson. This is because although life is never black and white (always, always full of grey), I know how rabid people get when they wrap themselves around the controversies surrounding his life. And though I have always found it disturbing that people who hear only bits and pieces, only know what they are fed, and do not realize things that are hidden or that many things are half truths... I now find it disrespectful and abhorrent to be a party to any such discussions of these controversies since he has passed on.

But if you would allow me to share my final thoughts, my true thoughts on Michael Jackson, spoken without fear, I would like to share them now. I know I have said some of this before, and I apologize for the length, but wanted to leave nothing out:

My Final thoughts on Michael Jackson's Death:

I am immediately saddened by all of the disrespect and ignorance I see and hear going on with people now regarding Michael Jackson. Even though I knew it would be coming.

Did Michael do those terrible things to children that he was accused of? To keep it all true, only three people know that: God, Michael Jackson and the child. You are living in great delusion if you think you can know.His name was not Jacko or any of the other labels the world put on him. At least show him respect in death, even if you didn't in his life. His name was Michael Jackson. He was someones son, brother, father.

Could he have been guilty of child molestation? Yes. But perhaps, he truly simply loved the souls and hearts of children. Their perfection of innocence. He had the heart of a child himself. But again, I do not know. Therefore how can I judge? I am speaking as a mother. A mother of sons. If he did do the things he was accused of? Let him have forgiveness now. As you would want forgiveness for your ills or wrongs. It is all beyond him now, beyond us. Let it go now.

And remember, this world always seeks to kill goodness. That is a fact. Fight the urge to be one of those human beings. Fight the urge to play God. And thank God, or something else, you were never judged as he was. People are so quick to accuse and demonize, especially without facts, without evidence, and because of ignorance, fear, self delusion or general hatred.

Everyone deserves dignity in death. ALL MEN SHOULD BE WISHED PEACE IN DEATH.

Some people can never be understood. We can never explain their eccentricities or their difference with us.But the sum of who all people are, can never be defined by the world's accusations and judgements against them. Nor by the mistakes they may have made along their journey.

Be mindful of how you speak of the dead. Be mindful of your own soul and the fate of your own afterlife. Trust that you know nothing of what you think you do. Be careful of who you think people are and how you judge them, for you never know what their true identity and purpose is.

Intentions of kindness, goodness, they are more powerful than you could imagine.Listen to the world with your soul instead of your ears. See with the eye of the universe instead of with your fleeting eye. Free your mind from the brainwashing of societal, governmental, and institutional machinery. Understand that there are liars and thieves everywhere and those bent on nothing but deception and destruction.

Death, it is hard, serious, heartbreaking business. Give it respect.Vow to yourself and to your legacy as a human being, that society, government and institution will not steal your immortal soul; cause you to be caught up in the falseness of this world and it's sickness of demonizing others.

Much of what you see is not real. Most of what you hear is not true.If it were, you still have no business outside of your own soul. And you most certainly are not the higher power. Whatever wrong someone has or has not done, is not yours to judge, fix or control.Have compassion, mercy and forgiveness.

Let all in the world and the world be forgiven, if they are needing of forgiveness.Be kind. Please, please find kindness in your heart.Remember him for the human being he truly was, the enormous gifts he gave to the world, and may he now have the peace that so eluded him in this world.

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James A Watkins  says:
4 months ago

Your words are powerful.  This comment should have its own page.  Thank you.  I agree with everything you said and you said it all—and so well.  I will make one judgment: you are wise.

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A.M. Gwynn  says:
4 months ago

You're way to kind James. At the time I wrote it, I was angry and disgusted. And as usual, when I feel that way I go on a writing frenzy that is full of pure gibberish! But honestly, there is so much we don't know yet we make condemnations. This is why I don't talk about it. I will more than likely get a lot of flak over that comment, maybe not... oh well. Thanks James!

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Mighty Mom  says:
3 months ago

Hi AM Gwynn, This hub popped up as I was reading another one. A bit late, but I'm glad to have found my way here. Such a thorough and thoughtful explanation of group grief phenomena.

Who can explain why some celebrities attract such mass attention while others don't? I remember being upset that poor Farrah Fawcett, who had publicly struggled with cancer, had her moment of fame snuffed out prematurely when MJ died the same day. Why is his death sooooo much more worthy of the glorification it has received?

PS I absolutely loved your comments above. Could not agree more with your assertions. MM

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A.M. Gwynn  says:
3 months ago

MM, Yes Farrah's death did get knocked out of the attention so to speak with the equally untimely death of Michael Jackson. I did hear many people remark on it, and I beleve her death was mourned collectively as well in other ways. I did hear the Jackson family publicly express their prayers for Farrah's family and friends, as it should be.

I think there are so many factors involved in collective grieving. It is no less a sense of loss (though these are not close losses and because loss is so personal for each person) and it is hard to say in any definitive sense what each person's reasons are. But collective grief is real even though some do not understand it.

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