My partner works as an IT for almost ten years now. Yet, I am proud to say that I know a little knowledge about his entire job functions. But there is one thing I'm sure he can't do...to open and check out all my email accounts.

As for my own opinion, if you respect and observed every individual's privacy you will never attempt to open your partner's emails. For it will only pains you whenever you see bad things and all cheateries in there. What if he or she is flirting another girls or boys, or some sex and video scandals and stories stored in there. How would you feel? Are you going to check it out still. The question is, "are you ready to see those?" Huh, I don't think so.

Your email account is as private as  confidential. This is the only thing that you can ever keep. Letters via Air mail can be seen even if you keep it inside a hidden mailbox. Diaries are also such, it can also be stolen. But, an e-mail letter cannot be opened, neither be stolen, unless you announces your password. It is not acceptable to check out anybody's emails without his or her permission, most especially your girlfriend's or boyfriend's emails. This might either caused you into trouble. The respect for privacy is being pointed out here. Will you accept if someone has opened your email account and read all about you mails? It is not right or acceptable.

The minute you ask for his or her password simply means you are also putting yourself into trouble. And the hell if he/she give it to you. Perhaps, he/she is wanting to create some trouble. None I guess, if there is any, very little did I know who would give his password to his partner for the purpose of checking it out.

Text Messages' Checking: A No-no

Reading your boyfriend's or girlfriend's text messages, for some reasons likewise a no-no for me. Although it is not that private as an electronic mail, it is not adviceable to read somebody's text messages, too. This is also putting your smooth relationship into sinking. Perhaps, this is very usual already. Many of us,  even I, do the same manner sometimes. The checking of your mate's text messages can build a lot of doubts that will start you questioning your partner to be cheating on you because you have read a sweet messages like, "i love you", "take care", "gudnight", and all that sweet notings coming from other person you didn't know. And you will start an argument. Your partner would simply deny everything that you have read about. And then you will get mad, telling that he/she is lying. And will start a fight. Things like that. And, you will realize... it starts from a single text message that you doubted about.

Do you think it is still acceptable to read or check out your boyfriend/girlfriend's emails or text messages?

Respect is the best Policy

In a certain relationship "respect" must always prevail. When entering a relationship, a policy for respect must be obeyed.