Communication Issues: Lies And Truth

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By Menjia_Rose


Communication Issues: Lies And Truth

 Everything in life is based on lies more so than truths...think about it...how did the word lie come about? The bible tells us that the first lie was told in the Garden Of Eden...(a serpent spoke to Eve, telling her God didn't want her to obtain more knowledge than him.) These are the first lessons in life if you have a religious family background. We so often believe everything we're told...in fact we rarely seek for the facts.

 Communication between all races, religious groups, and families has been broken for so very long due to the lies that's often told to us as children. I call it False Projections...meaning everything you hear, see, and say is 80% lies...the other 20% is uncertainty. It is a known fact that everyone has lied in their relationships, work place, school, and the list continues on...because they've been lied to by someone. We often tell lies because of the fear we feel of loss( Consequences, privileges, or punishment ). If we think of all the things we stand to lose...then it seems easier to tell a lie...rather tell the truth and suffer the consequences of our actions.

 This society has taught us to punish no matter if it was an accident or unintentional (Not knowing the fear we bestow in their mental frame). I ask you as a Father and Mother...would you want to tell a lie or the truth if there was a punishment awaiting you? If you think the way I think, then, you've probably answered...tell a lie to keep from suffering a punishment or consequence. (" Too lie is to gain and too tell the truth is to lose.")

 The best things in life is based on lies...anyone that says different hasn't yet begun to live. For example: My best-friend got married to a stock broker...she had everything money could buy...she had four children...after six years it all came crashing down. Her husband was cheating on her with his senior partner...who was eight years younger, I must add. The wife knew of it, but chose to over-look it because of all she had gained from being married to him. Though, living a lie at the time seemed to be the right thing...it wasn't until he asked her for a divorce when the truth came into action...and the truth was, it was already over when he started cheating...and her lie was that everything was going to continue even if the home was unhappy living a LIE.

 Do you see how easy it is for us to tell ourselves lie after lie...not knowing we teach our children the root of lies by trying to conceal the truth...and children catch on very quick...later on they begin to tell lies just as you've told them. The cycle of lies is where no truth can be found...only False Projections in the life of communication issues. We are still being misled astray never finding the truth...but dancing with the melody of a lie.

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