FInding the right words to express your sympathy and compassion is often difficult to do. If you are looking for condolence message samples then you've come to the right place.

You will find many example of condolence messages, and many books to help give you just the right words to express your heartfelt sympathy.

Many people don't consider the importance of writing a good condolence message or note. Reading and even re-reading sympathy letters can be an important part of the grieving and healing process for someone who has just suffered a loss. It can be comforting to know there are others who shared good memories with the deceased and a well-written note can be a reminder of a special memory or a bond with the loved one.

There is no right way to write a condolence note, but there are some general ideas to consider when writing one. When writing The Art of Condolence, Zunin and Zunin researched thousands of condolence letters for their book. They identified seven specific points to address in a condolence letter:

• Comment on the loss and the name of the deceased
• Offer sympathy
• Mention special qualities of the deceased
• Find a special memory to share
• Offer specific help
• Remind the person of his or her strengths and special qualities
• Thoughtful closure