Cook a Romantic Meal For Your Girl Friend

Love is the Most Important Ingredient In The Meal You Cook

Whenever somone cooks a meal, the mental processes, the feelings and the whole experience of cooking affects the taste of the meal at a subtle level.

When someone eats a meal they eat the subtle effects too.

The physical part of the food goes to our stomach. The intellectual part of how well the meal is cooked and how beautifully it is presented goes to our brain. The emotional part of the love with which the whole preparation is made touches the heart. And there is something beyond all this that leaves such a deep impression at the unconscious level, which both the person cooking the meal as well as the person eating it may not be aware of.

The point I am trying to make is more than the recipe, the real love for your girl friend is what is going to make your food superb.

Even if you mess up the whole meal, the effort you put in, the care you have taken to make something special for her, the pleasure you felt while trying to do something to please her will be passed on to your girl friend directly through telepathy and she will find the food absolutely delicious.

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and taste is in the heart of the lover. In India we have the great story of Laila and Majnu. Someone asked Majnu, Laila is not so good looking. There are thousands of people who are more beautiful than her. Why are you so mad about her? Majnu said you have to look at Laila with Majnu's eyes and then you will know.

Similarly there may be expert chefs in the world who can churn out exotic recipes but the love with which you prepare the meal will add that flavor to the meal, which no chef in the world has in any of his kitchen containers.

Let the love of your girl friend guide you in what will be the best experience for both of you.

Choosing What to Cook

This will depend on your how well you know your girlfriend. One very broad choice you will make is whether she likes Veg or Non-Veg. This choice will also depend on whether you want to try a veg recipe or a non-veg one. Another thing you need to find out is whether she is ready to experiment with new dishes or prefers only what she has always used to have. These things you might have already found out while dating her and taking her out to eat.

Once these choices are made you can get the necessary ingredients and start your preparation.

If she is health conscious you may give her a health drink and talk to her about how good it is for her health. This conveys the message to her that you know what she cares for, you have taken the trouble to prepare it and you share a common interest.

If she wants to try something different you can try a chocolate recipe, millet popcorn, rice recipe, chickpea recipe or some cool desserts.

I am not saying you should try something you have never cooked before, but you have these options. The main ingredient is love and the main decision maker is your heart, which will tell you what she would love to eat.