Country vs City Life

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By glassvisage


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I was just thinking the other day: Everyone I know in the country is weird. At least for my town, which has no stoplights and one main intersection, we are a little strange, I think. We don't get out much. We think running across the freeway is a thrill. I grew up playing in mud with frogs and snakes. Is that weird?

I feel like my friends and I have had a somewhat difficult time in mixing with others. I almost feel like if I had lived in the city, I might understand more about other types of people (as I've said before, I am the only Asian in my town, along with my brother) and how they think and interact. I feel at times that I am behind on a lot of things, including how to be cool. *buckteeth*

I feel fortunate at the same time that I have grown up in a rural area. I would never trade in my memories of playing in a stream, climbing trees galore, swimming in the river, and hiking up hills for a breathtaking view... all within a half mile from my house. I sometimes feel sorry for my friends who were surrounded by asphalt, concrete, and power lines.

I also think city life is much less healthy, what with all the waves radiating from wireless items like cell phones and Bluetooth, smog, gross water (tap water in the country is so much better than city tap, I can't even explain the difference), garbage... the country is so CLEAN. The sky is so expansive and the hills so extensive that I couldn't imagine such a thing as disease. The only people I know in my hometown with sicknesses smoke, color their hair, and eat too much aspartame. The people who grow their own vegetables and sit outside during the evenings are pretty healthy, as far as I can see.

Work may be more difficult if you live in the country - things get pretty dirty, and there's probably more yardwork (we have a big yard with bushes and trees and roses and more). You also have to look out for mountain lions and coyotes where I live... though I guess you have to battle traffic and other such things in the city.

It can be hard to bond with people in the country due to the physical differences between homes, but at the same time, there are so few people, you can't help but get together sometimes, and we are so close to our neighbors - even our city neighbors with weekend homes - that it's hard to believe.

There are some fascinating structures in Urbania - beautiful buildings, great shows and parades, and breathtaking lights and signs. I envy the diversity as well, in every aspect from ethnicity and culture, sexual orientation (anyone homosexual where I live are considered... different), political views, and more. It's also nice how much people have in common where I live, though.

I do like that I can set my own pace while living in the country. In the city, it seems like you're on a zillion schedules, and you have to depend on traffic, coworkers, prices... city life is too fast sometimes, but that can be exciting in a good way, too.

There are pros and cons of city and country life. Please tell me some of your own benefits and/or disadvantages you may know of!

Country Boy / City Girl


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guidebaba profile image

guidebaba  says:
3 months ago

Thanks for answering my request.

barryrutherford profile image

barryrutherford  says:
3 months ago

Nice...

MasonsMom profile image

MasonsMom  says:
3 months ago

Great perspective! I don't exactly live in the country, but I don't live in a big city either. (my city's pop. is 50,000) However, you can drive about 15 minutes out of town and be in the country. So I can identify with what you're talking about. It is very different!! Great post!

jacobworld profile image

jacobworld  says:
3 months ago

The best solution is to in a small satellite city of a huge one

funride profile image

funride  says:
3 months ago

I don´t think you´re weird but I´m suspect because I also live in the country :D

Even though I was born and grew up in a big city when I had the chance I escape to the country side and I will never live in a big city again. I guess I must be weird too ;)

quensday profile image

quensday  says:
3 months ago

Hello glassvisage,

This is a great hub. I live in the city, but I think I'm pretty weird for being bored of it. There seems to be nothing left to do. Another physical ailment: I'm semi-deaf. My most commonly used phrase is "what?"

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William F. Torpey  says:
3 months ago

My first 15 years of life, glassvisage, was as a city boy in Yonkers, N.Y., where there were always lots of kids around to play with and lots of things to do. We could travel all over the city easily on the trolley cars and we played a lot of stickball and softball and all the old games like Kick the Can, Hide and Seek, etc. I didn't see a live cow until I moved to Connecticut around 1950 or so. I loved the city, but there were drawbacks as well. Times have changed, and cities aren't what they once were, nor is anything else. It also depends, to some extent, on what city you're talking about.

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Aya Katz  says:
3 months ago

We live out in the country, just outside the city limits of a village whose population is less than five hundred. I have ten acres surrounding my house, including part wooded (mostly oak) and part pasture, and an orchard full of apples and peaches. It's a great environment for my nine year old daughter, who is very active, likes gymnastics, swimming, horse-back riding and climbing trees. The down side is that she has no other kids to play with, unless we make a very formal play-date appointment. Children used to go outside and find their own friends. Now most parents work outside the home, and children my daughter's age are in day-care, even when school is out. Once we went to the pool and met up with some of her class-mates from school, who were on an organized outing with their day-care providers. It seems that with the social structure today, even children living in the country have very little individual choice as to what they do or who their friends are.

glassvisage profile image

glassvisage  says:
3 months ago

This is so true! It would take quite a bit to arrange a good playdate... and forget about house parties!

Karen N profile image

Karen N  says:
2 months ago

I'm living in a small town right now because I didn't want my children to grow up in the city. It's almost crime free which is great, but if you don't like tractor pulls then there's not a lot of entertainment except for the gossip:(

glassvisage profile image

glassvisage  says:
2 months ago

I agree, Karen; after living in both the country and the city, I've found the country or at least surburbia to be a much better place to raise children

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Judy Cullins  says:
2 weeks ago

Hi Karen, Aren't we all weird? And if we realize that, we would be more compassionate about others not like us. I am in La Mesa across the street from San Diego-surrrounded by nature. I love the culture of city and love the connected to harmony in nature. Viva la differance!

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