Seducing is an art form.  The art is 10% and the form is 90%.  And form is technique.  Sure, everyone wants to effortlessly talk to any girl regardless of how hot she is and turn that small interaction into the beginning of something special if you so choose.  But no one starts out that way.  Yes, you have met guys who do this and seem like they have been doing it forever but that just isn't the case.  No one is a natural at anything.  You must practice a thing or... do something very similar but even then you must still practice.

There is no substitute for this small thing.  Without it there is nothing else.  And the art... it only comes AFTER you have the form.  When you have mastered form then you become an artist.

But let me give you the basics of attraction. 

You see... men assume that women choose men just the way that men choose women... based on looks.  But it is not true.  yes, they notice looks... as you have no doubt noticed and hot girls seem to be with hot guys but there are plenty of hot guys that have trouble with women.  When you exude confidence then you seem hotter than you really are.

What women actually base their choices on is SAFETY.  You may have shaken your head but if you did then you have no real understanding of women.  Not the safety that their conscious mind thinks about... we have twisted the word with our fears to mean so many different things.  But it's original meaning was merely a person's ability to create a situation where there was no danger.  That didn't mean in the future or past there was or would not be danger.  But right now no danger threatens.  But the assumption by women is... if you are not experiencing danger right now then you probably don't experience it often..., unless you tell them differently with your body language.

Nice, eager guys lean in, nod in agreement, make women comfortable, try to connect with them, bolster their self esteem and in general make their life easier.  But not safer.  Just the opposite.  While they are increasing self esteem they are raising danger levels at an alarming rate.  The woman will not feel in danger rather she comes to understand by your behavior that you are often in danger and have no control over it.  She can't be attracted to you.

When you ask a girl out... make it seem like you are doing her a favor and there are other girls just waiting but you're wondering if she might have that something special you are looking for.  You doubt it, but, there's a spark...

This way, if you've created some attraction in the past, you don't destroy that.  Instead you'll help it up.  If you arrived hoping for 5 Great Ways to Ask a Girl Out and were expecting those lists... they are for guys who fail all the time and who are afraid of succeeding with women.

Are you one of those guys?