DEATH. The Ultimate Predator

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By ASHWINSPGA



It is everyones' destiny to die,

And no matter how much you try,

It is everyones destiny to die,

No matter old or young,

Death will break the needle on which you're life is strung,

Death cares not that you're in love,

Death will push you Death will shove,

Till you're life is on the edge,

Then Death the sealer of you're destiny,

Will steal you're soul, And let you be,

For it truly is our destiny, No matter how hard it is to see,

To live to die to simply be.

 


As the poem above states, its every-one's destiny to die. There is no escape from it. With life there is death and with Death there is life. It's a cycle. Recently I lost the most important person in my life. Only 2 days before her death we were having a childish fight about what our babies name should be. Till this day i regret for not telling her how much i love her. I regret for not doing so many things that i should have done when she was alive. But that's always the case isn't it? You will only realize the true value of the person after she is gone. This hub is dedicated to all my friends, to remind you to not waste a single minute showing your love to your dear ones. Go make that call, Pick up the pen and write that letter, Send that email to the people whom are really precious to you and tell them you love them because you might never know. Death does not come by appointment. It does not give you time to prepare when it comes calling. It might be tomorrow, tonight or even a few hours from now. There is no way of knowing Death's schedule.So don't waste a single second more.

Watch the following video and see for yourself how swift and cold Death is. Don't worry, It's not a gruesome video. Just a sad tale reminding you no matter how great you are Death comes anytime anywhere anyplace. Please wake up my dear friends.Remember there is no second chance to make amends. Be Prepared.

Miklos Feher

Miklos Feher the 24-year-old striker collapsed during a league game against Vitoria Guimaraes -- the victim of an apparent heart attack.

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ESAHS  says:
12 months ago

" Reminder of how important life is!"

"Strong topic with many questions remaining!"

"Dramatic hub!"

"Two thumbs up!"

  CEO E.S.A.H.S. Association

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ASHWINSPGA  says:
12 months ago

Thank you ESHAS. Glad you liked it

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countrywomen  says:
11 months ago

Ashwin - So sorry to hear you tragic experience in life. My heart feels so sad for the life changing calamity that has happened to you. I agree we need to say all those nice words to people we love and care when they are alive instead of telling it when they pass away. Those words would mean so much more to them and to us when we told them when they could still physcially hear us. I will pray for your heart to heal. May God bless you with health, wealth and happiness.

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ASHWINSPGA  says:
11 months ago

Thank you very much Miss I really appreciate it. Glad to know my hub got to you.

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G-Ma Johnson  says:
11 months ago

but my sweet angel ashwinspga...her love is always and forever in your heart...and though the words may not be heard in the regular way they are heard and felt and she loves you dearly...and you will meet her again...and remember HE does not test you beyond what HE knows you can handle...

Love hurts....and healing takes time...and so "to simply be" is a necessity...My Love to you and my prayers for you and my wishes  will always be for your happiness.....There are only 2 things we know for sure in life...we will die and we pay taxes....about the rest.... we wish for the best....and you are the BEST...G-Ma :o) Hugs  XXOO

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ASHWINSPGA  says:
11 months ago

Nana thank you so much for coming here to visit me. You have always been there for me Nana and I'm so grateful that you chose me to shower your love. I can only imagine how wonderful it will be like if i suddenly happen to become your neighbour or living somewhere nearby you. You have a beautiful heart and i sincerely and truly love you so so so much.

Your Baby Ashwin

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B.T. Evilpants  says:
11 months ago

The words "I love you" are always nice to hear, but thet are only words, my friend. To say them is beautiful, but the real meaning of them is conveyed in your actions, and reflected in your eyes. I have no doubt that she knew EXACTLY how you felt.

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ASHWINSPGA  says:
11 months ago

Very True Mr B.T. but have you ever been with someone you love so much that sometimes you have felt like crying out of frustration for not being able to tell that particular love one just how much of love you have for her in your heart? The love is so great that whenever you try to explain to her or show her just how much, you only end up getting flustered for not finding the right words to express.

Yes.. Everytime i do for her something i put in extra special effort to make it perfect for her just so i can see her smiling face later on. But now after she has gone the only thing i can do is talk to her. and when i say i really love her this time there is no reply to pacify me that she got that message. So end up my heart sinks to this painful depth blaming myself for missing out all those opportunities where i could have said or shown her more of the love she deserved.

If your love for someone is so much deeper than the ocean then there are never enough words or actions to explain that kind of love True... action is louder than words but sometimes those 3 words coming out of your mouth could mean the world to that particular love one. Since that person is someone you love why take the risk and wait till that person is in front of you just so you can show your love by action? What would one do and feel when they get a call saying they wont be able to see that love one anymore., You understand what im saying my friend? Death can come anytime to anyone at anywhere at any place.  Just send a simple love to that person and you can show all your love when you meet that person but in the meantime for all those who can relate to this do whatever you can no matter how small or slight the gesture is. Go tell that person you really love him/her.Thank you so much for stopping by and thank you for your kind and wonderful comments.

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G-Ma Johnson  says:
11 months ago

Awww baby ashwin...wish I could give you a BIG  ((((((HUG)))))) right this minute....I know it hurts so much so very much...but is good you can talk about it...watch for the "penny's from heaven" my  dear...She is with you I know you feel her....and i know you did your best whilest she was here...

there is always things we think we could have done more of...but being young you aren't expecting such a quick end to things...and as you say anytime, any place, and to anyone...God's Will Be Done...I Love you sweetie...G-Ma :o) Hugs and more hugs

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ASHWINSPGA  says:
11 months ago

No Nana im alright now really! With angels like you around me how can i stay unhappy for long? You always find one way or another to make me smile from your poems to your recipes and your wonderful comments. Thank you Sweet Nana.

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diggersstory  says:
11 months ago

These are hard lessons to learn. For some they never learn. Thanks for your hub and the reminder what truly is important while we are alive.

Love is the greatest force on earth.

Miracles to you as you progress on your journey.

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ASHWINSPGA  says:
11 months ago

Thank yo very much my dear friend for your mighty kind words and wishes. Miracles to you too as you go along your life journey

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Lady Guinevere  says:
11 months ago

Here is something that you will want to read and it has things about death. Oh and I am glad that you are back!

http://www.members.optusnet.com.au/~acceptance/You

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ASHWINSPGA  says:
11 months ago

Thank you very much Miss Guinevere. I will go over and read the article. You are really kind my Lady

**Even when we may not be destined to meet our Twin Soul or Twin Flame down here on Earth, it is possible that we may instead experience a very close association with one of our own Soul-Mates, a member of our larger Soul Group. We may also quite likely have been closely associated with that particular Soul-Mate in a past incarnation, either as a former family member or as a close friend during a previous Earth experience"...( How very true!!! In a strange way we always know how one is feeling telepathically even if we were in different continents.

**Parts of the same soul will join together one day after they have worked out all their karma. Countless lifetimes are necessary for this, and much depends upon the swiftness of spiritual evolution within each part of the soul before it can be unified.... ( Though i have heard about this cycle of karma. How we have to live out the cycle before our soul's journey is finally over i wish there was a way of knowing how many cycles there are and how many we have left now.

Thank you so much. This article was really great. God Bless you Miss Guinevere

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Lady Guinevere  says:
11 months ago

I gave you the wrong page, right site:

http://www.members.optusnet.com.au/~acceptance/You

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sixtyorso  says:
11 months ago

Ashwin Your words are so true. Over this weekend a friend of ours lost her son in a skydiving accident. as you say "death does not make an appointment". He just arrives. Great heartfelt hub.

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ASHWINSPGA  says:
11 months ago

Miss Guinevere you have given me 2 great articles to read and the second one was a complete lesson of life. From out of the womb till the end, every single step till we become one with our Creator.

Being in a state of pure thought, with no physical body or emotions to make it want to take the easiest path, it may well choose a difficult life, either to atone for past deeds or as a means of learning. It may choose parents that give it a difficult childhood. It may take on the role of a mental or physical cripple. Hence the importance of accepting your lot in life, however arduous and painful it may seem, because your own inner self has chosen it.

Thank you so much My Lady. You have given me a great gift today and from the bottom of my heart i am very grateful.

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Lady Guinevere  says:
11 months ago

I can copy and paste now and here is some more things to read.

The soul before birthWhen a child is born there are two or more souls who have agreed to this opportunity to meet for a life lesson or a life mission to balance their karma. Both souls have to agree on this and make the choice to meet. It is not enough for only one of the souls to consent to this opportunity.Miscarriage or abortionIf the child’s soul doesn’t consent, the mother will have a miscarriage. If the mother, or any other person with whom the child has an agreement, does not consent, the mother will have a miscarriage or decide on an abortion. The fears and personal feelings of the mother may have an impact on this decision. That is all right, because those two souls will meet in another time in this life or in a future life.The only ones who can make the decision are the souls involved in this agreement. Nobody else could or should interfere in their making the decision. Remember that there is a great love between these souls, and that none of them judges the other in any way.The time for entering the physical bodyWhen does the soul enter the body of a child who is about to be born? It can be done at any time. The soul of the child is present with the mother a long time before the conception. You have to understand that the physical body isn't of prime importance. It is not until some time after the child is born that the soul makes a firm connection to the physical body. Before and after life, the soul is free to go wherever it wishes to go.The soul of the child may enter and exit the body many times during the pregnancy. This soul has a great love for the physical body-to-be, and is keeping watch over it during the pregnancy, but the soul does not yet have a firm connection to the body. The child’s soul makes a decision if he/she would like to enter the body and live this lifetime. This is usually decided at least two months before the birth.Stillborn child or sudden infant death syndromeRemember that it is possible for the child to reverse his/her decision at any time. If the reversal takes place before or during the birth the outcome will be a miscarriage or a stillborn child. If the reversal takes place after birth the baby dies, usually through sudden infant death syndrome.To the parents, this could seem inexplicable, and naturally it is a great shock when it happens. But you have to remember that the child comes to this life with a mission. A new-born child has a whole lifetime ahead of him/her, and is aware of all the possibilities and challenges he/she will meet. Not until some time after birth will the infant forget the knowledge of past and present lifetimes. Some souls do not have the strength to complete the lifetime they see before them. They then choose to leave this life and accomplish their life lesson in a future life instead.To most humans, the tasks a soul has chosen are unknown for optimum realization during the lifetime (otherwise, it would be like going to a test and knowing the questions beforehand). Some souls choose a very specific task, to be born for a number of reasons, and when that purpose is fulfilled. A soul sometimes offers to help another to learn a lesson, e.g. to learn the value of life, by being born as a child to the other soul and leaving the physical plane shortly thereafter (e.g. sudden child death syndrome or even being stillborn). In some cases, the child chooses this experience in order to learn the last missing lesson necessary for ascension.Reincarnation Every night you sleep, and the next morning you wake up. If you had an argument with your friend yesterday, you will still have the consequences of that argument to face when you wake up. They don't disappear because you went to sleep. You will still be responsible tomorrow for what you did today. Re-incarnation is just like that. What you create will be there for you to face in your next life if you don't take care of it in this one, just like the consequences that you create today will be waiting for you tomorrow if you don't take care of them before you go to bed.You are always responsible for what you do, and your responsibility cannot be assumed by anyone else. When you die, you don't go to sleep. You go home, and you are very much awake. You are also a much larger you than you are now. That is your soul. The consequences that you created, but didn't experience before you died, do not disappear. They are waiting for you. You may think that you do not want to deal with them, but your larger you - your soul - does. In fact, it creates another lifetime just to do that.Once you start to look at things this way, you begin to do things differently. You treat people the way that you would like to be treated yourself. That is the Golden Rule. You don't have to be a Christian to appreciate the Golden Rule. Billions of Hindus and Buddhists, who believe in re-incarnation, understand exactly what it means.Reincarnation is a compassionate way of learning responsibility. It is not possible to do a wrong thing. You do what you do, and you experience the consequences of it. It’s that simple. If you don’t experience those consequences before you die, your soul creates another life so that you can. Your spirit will choose a body and environment appropriate for the experience it needs. What incarnates is another aspect of the same individuality, not the same personality.Being in a state of pure thought, with no physical body or emotions to make it want to take the easiest path, it may well choose a difficult life, either to atone for past deeds or as a means of learning. It may choose parents that give it a difficult childhood. It may take on the role of a mental or physical cripple. Hence the importance of accepting your lot in life, however arduous and painful it may seem, because your own inner self has chosen it.Eventually, you begin to treat other people the way that you want to be treated. You put yourself in your brother's shoes before you speak or act. You let yourself feel your brother’s pain. You become more tender and caring. You also become more wise.When you become completely loving and kind - without fear and without thought of harming others - you graduate from the Earth school. That is when reincarnation ends and another adventure begins

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ASHWINSPGA  says:
11 months ago

Its so sad to hear about the tradgedy. I can't imagine the grief. Only a mother would know the anguish of losing her son. The pain must be so extreme for your friend Sir. never would your friend had guessed this was the last time she was going to see her son alive. There are no words to comfort such a loss. Hope she recovers in time sir and thank you so much for your wonderful comments

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ASHWINSPGA  says:
11 months ago

Lady Gunievere im so glad you are sharing this wonderful article and im honored its with me. All these articles are great lessons of life. Its like reading an eternity of lifetimes on one page. They are really wonderful My LADY. And i wish to thank you for your time and effort in sharing. Please do feel free to copy and paste all the articles you feel like sharing here. I'm sure like me many would learn from them too. Thank you so much once again

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Lady Guinevere  says:
11 months ago

It is a pleasure to share thngs about life with others. It is in my very being. Thank you for you comments. I wish that I could copy all of the articles on that site here, but that would be against copyright laws----and I don't really want to do that.

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ASHWINSPGA  says:
11 months ago

I totally understand Lady Guinevere. The links you provided are sufficient for anyone interested in wanting to know more. Thank you for the ones you have already shared. You My Lady are an angel and may your good heart reach out to everyone who is in need of your love. Thank you for sharing your time with me.

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Lady Guinevere  says:
11 months ago

You may think that I am an Angel but others on here think I am the Satan's Spawn. They are not ready to learn yet and they like to be in their tiny little boxes.

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ASHWINSPGA  says:
11 months ago

Well My Lady the messages you were trying to tell me with the posts were anything but satanic. Its 1 am here and I'm still up reading other articles from the link you provided. I have learnt so much from you today and I'm still learning all thanks to an angel who selflessly decided to stop by here and share her wisdom. I call that an act of an angel not a devil. Those who deem this to be bad are the ones who refuse to open their minds to the world and rather stubbornly live in the single minded world they have created for themselves. There are so many here who consider you a loving friend and very little( on last count just 1) who managed to find fault with you. I consider you Lady Guinevere a warm loving woman who is learned and extremely intelligent. Thank you so much for accepting me as your friend

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Lady Guinevere  says:
11 months ago

Thank you.

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Dottie1  says:
11 months ago

How did I miss this! Thank you Ashwin for sharing your heart and helping me to understand mine.

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ASHWINSPGA  says:
11 months ago

Awww Miss Dottie did i? Im really glad i did. May peace and happiness be ever filled in your kind loving heart my beautiful friend

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funride  says:
11 months ago

I just found out this hub and I couldn´t help writing some words to try to comfort you Ashwin. No matter how much we think about it we are never prepared to face those heavyhearted moments. Only time can help us.

I was watching that game when Miklos died and even though I never knew him I felt an emptiness feeling on my heart. It´s always difficult to see someone die :(

Take care Ashwin, be strong!

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ASHWINSPGA  says:
11 months ago

Fun-ride you are a dear friend and i thank you for your friendship. Over a period of time i kind of accepted what happened though i suffered quite badly emotionally being all alone in a empty house all of a sudden and also financially when i dropped out from a few major tournaments' first rounds i kind of pulled through and with people like you i only can be strong my friend. One thing i learnt from this is having a relationship with faceless friends is much much better than actually being involved with actual people as their loss, or betrayal or certain actions tend to hurt you more whereas in the world without faces and voices we know one day the word fun-ride is not going to appear on my screen anymore and we are prepared for that day. this is a lesson i learnt and there will never be a another relationship where I'm going to get myself emotionally involved again because the pain is just too much if they go away. Im more into establishing myself in my work my friend. and that itself takes up almost my entire time for me to worry or feel sad. So I'm OK Fun-ride really. and thank you for dropping by. Merry Christmas.

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Anamika S  says:
11 months ago

Nice Poem! Yes.. One cannot escape Death. So we have to make our lives worthwhile before death comes and embrace us.

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ASHWINSPGA  says:
11 months ago

Hi Sis Anamika, you got to make everything worthwhile and mark your spot because no one can ever say when your time will be up and the saddest thing of all is not leaving anything behind for other to know Miss Anamika was here. thank you so much for stopping by sister Merry Christmas to you

Ashwin

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Claudia Adães  says:
6 months ago

Hi, I have learned that life's plan is: when we do not pay attention to what we are doing; when we stop giving attention to what is really importante in life - love, friendship, honesty, honour, respect, dignity... lost appears in our lives to make us wake up for life. It is very difficult to accept indeed.

I watched the video. You know I live in Guimarães city. I was there at the Vitória de Guimarães foootball's stadium watching that game, I was with my husband, son and daughter (9 and 6 years old at the time). It was horrible. You know how people behave at stadiuns, when Feher fell, a group started yelling "die". But it was such a strange situation that in seconds, I felt that Feher just didn'd fall. It was something more serious, but know one would never imagine that he would die. But I shouted to the crowd "shut up. He can really die". Some of the man near me stared at me and stooped yelling. Me and my husband left the stadium with our children. It was such a big silence. Already in our car we listened through the radio that Feher was leaving the stadium in an ambulance, already dead - they were saying. Next game, my son who was a young player at Vitoria's football school, by the hand of the Victória's players took the flowers to the place where everything had happened.

I also learned that it doesn´t matter if we do not tell people that we love and care about them, the most important is that we really care and love them and that is shown by our acts. Feelings talk. Once a friend of mine told me "You don´t need to take pictures. The most important pictures are those you care in your head. Just feel and be here with me."

Just be. But verbalize every time you need.

I hope life had given you already the opportunities you deserve. Each of us has a life to live. This one is yours. Be in peace!

Claudia Adães

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