I have done extensive research regarding dating attractions. I believe that the astrological signs play a large part of chemical attraction. However chemical attraction is not enough to sustain a true relationship. I was told many years ago that the Virgo men are attracted to the Sagittarius women, and this is a true fact. It is very important that a Sagittarius female learns about the Virgo's traits before they enter into any relationship with a Virgo.

I have had a large amount of angry Virgo men message me because I gave up their game. Some have even admitted having the traits, and still tried to convince me that I was wrong. I met the first Virgo forty years ago, wow, and that should have been the last one. I met the second one thirty four years ago and he was even worse than the first one. Yep, I had married both of them. I was a trusting, naive lady that believed that all people were good and kind and honest. There were three more later in the years that tried but I was too smart by then to fall for it.

There was the Italian Virgo, the Croation Virgo, the Correction Officer Virgo. I would not date the last three, and told them why. I want to explain that the Sagittarius female is attracted to the male Virgo, but it is the male Virgo that pursues. The male Virgo starts out by being very nice. He will show up out of no where, be fun and exciting, normally good chemistry and good looking. The sad part is that you do not even know what is going to happen.

The male Virgo is isolated and in the beginning , you are his main focus. The first six months appear normal, yet most do not mention anything about their family, and have few close friends. They are planning and working on stripping away all your independence. They have to know where you are at all times, they start to take away your family and friends, even suggest moving, if you are going to live together. Perhaps sharing one car, to save money. They try to hide their need to control everything in your life. That need manifests later when you have become dependent on them.

Usually the dependency starts when you move in together, perhaps they do not want you to work, because they think you should serve them only. You may become pregnant, or get married. I have found when you find out something about their earlier life, there was a controlling father, either verbally abusive or physically abusive, or both. Once they know that you are dependent, hell has no fury. It is a very dangerous relationship. They will contol the money, the car, your life and if you rebel you set them off into violence. Then they cry and say how sorry they are, and they do it again. I have never found the traits in any other sign other than The Virgo Male.

My girlfriend met a Virgo male, named Robert. I warned her, she is a Sagittarius female, the second night he got upset and broke his own car windshield. She married him, moved him and even his mother into her house, he had been in trouble with the law since he was 6 years old. Years went by, and even when he went back to prison she drove the 4 hours every other weekend to give him money, and stamps and letter paper. When he got out he still was a criminal, he would beat her, her mother, the dog. I knew this girl for over 20 years, and she was consumed with him.

Finally she divorced him, but she is not done with him. I worked in a Casino, in the credit department, and every man that came in, I could spot a Virgo in 2 minutes, and I was always right. I was a victim of abuse for so many years caused by a Virgo, there is no amount of money, or attraction that will ever allow me to date a Virgo man again. If you are stuck with one good luck, I have had guns pointed at me, and worse. The only way to be safe is to not start.