Hey, Maxey here. Today I want to talk about the reality of sexual insecurity and how you can move through your problem with a sense of pride and fulfillment. Most men that I talk to about this have a deep seated wound on their sense of self, it seems they have identified with their troubles in their sex lives and its actually affecting who they believe they are in the world. So sexual insecurity not only affects the loudness of the woman's moans in your bed, but also the loudness of your affect in the world at large.

I know that when I suffered from sexual insecurity I feel frustrated and angry, I asked myself often "why me? Why do I have to be burdened with this condition when others are out sleeping with whatever is moving?" these kind of thoughts went around and around in my mind for many years as a young adult and because of this made me really insecure around women, and because I didn't have women I thought there was something wrong WITH ME, I became IDENTIFIED WITH THE ISSUE. So it wasn't just a condition I had, but it became who I was, and I think this is one of the main problems with sexual insecurity, this is why my techniques are usually directed at confidence builders, because I believe with confidence, everything else will come into place. I believe this to be true because when we have confidence in ourselves we will stop identifying with the condition and see it for what it is, A CONDITION. Then the motivation to take the next step will come naturally.

Once confidence is back after dis identifying with the condition, then sex can become a fun experience again, you are no longer needing that "outcome" of not premature ejaculating, with confidence you will find delayed ejaculation due to your mind and body enjoying the experience with confidence, not from some 15 year old boys need to feel desired, and before you know it, you will be living out the visions you thought about when you felt like you were less then you should be.

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Maxey Thomas.