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Do You Know The Neighbors On Your Block

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Do you know the neighbors on your block?

Do you know where the sex offenders or America's most wanted live in your area?

For the United States,the web page is www.nsopr.gov

This page will tell you who and where these people live.

I bet 75% of the world doesn't.

It just isn't the same way it was when I grew up in a small town.I knew everyone including their dogs,cats and horses names.Even after I grew up and moved away from my home town,I got acquanted with my new neighbors,either by going door to door or having a block party to get acquanted.

Other ways to get acquanted with the neighbor hood is to share your expertise in a subject such as Plumbing,Electrical or Woodworking,Fishing to name a few.A project around the home goes alot faster if you invite freinds and neighbors to help.After the project is complete then you can have a barbeque to show your appreciation.

If you have a neighbor that stands off and away from the crowd you should do a little investigating.

For instance two people in Eldorado County, California abduct an eleven year old girl and hold her hostage for 18 years and the authorities or the neighbors don't become suspicious until 18 years after the incident (amazing).The girl was a sex slave for 18 years,for the religious sex fanatic who abducted her.

She had a baby at the age of 14,which was fathered by this sexual predator,while his wife looked on as nothing happened.

This is like burying their head in the sand.You have parole officers that are suspose to monitor these people plus check the home they live in for drugs and pornography paraphenalia.

What about the children next door,you would think they were suspicious of these people,as the kids did not attend school.My children would be asking me why they have to attend school when the neighbor kids get to stay home. Better yet why don't the neighbor kids know how to read and write.

And a recent study by the U.S. Bureau of Justice Statistics reported, "Nationwide, one-fourth of registered sex offenders cannot be located." And "compared with other offenders released from state prisons, sex offenders were four times as likely to be rearrested for a similar crime."

Did you know that in California!!!''People arrested for Indecent exposure with priors are not required to be listed on the public website,'' The California Dept of Justice states, which administers the Megan’s Law website. ''They are required to register with law enforcement,'' but the conviction is not published on the user-friendly Megan's Law website. Boy does this law need changes.

Wake up America,and the whole world as far as that goes...

One way is through the Megan website,another is through the County web site Criminal Calender.Some of these sites are free and some cost a few dollars.But I think it is worth it to know your neighbors that do not want to become part of the neighborhood,especially if you have Children.

By watching the following videos,will surely awaken parents to this growing

problem of drug abuse,stolen children,sold children.etc.

Here are a few suggestions to get started;

Call the local Police Dept. and tell them your plans.Sometimes they will put baricades up,to keep traffic from entering that area.

Check to see if you need a permit from city hall.

Make sure you have a sufficient supply of Garbage Containers handy.

Plan the food and drinks. Call it international night and have each family make a dish that is unique to its heritage. Or have everyone bring their own food to grill. This is a surprisingly effective way to get strangers to mingle easily--they feel less awkward with something to do. Have everyone prepare his or her favorite cocktails and munchies for a happy hour. Don't forget nonalcoholic punches for those who don't drink alcohol and for the children.

You may even want a band to play for the group.

Dress up the block with colorful decorations. Buy lots of balloons and have everyone tie them to trees and fences on their property. You might consider a block theme color and decorate accordingly. Ask each family to make a family banner to display on its front lawn. Hang pinatas for the kids. Tiki torches and lots of twinkling lights are festive when the sun sets.

This is making me hungry just writing it.

Enjoy and have a festive time,but by all means get acquanted with your neighbors...


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Sex Slaves

  1. This is a good reason to know ones neighbor!!!

When FBI and immigration agents arrested a 28-year-old Guatemalan woman three months ago in Los Angeles, they announced that they had shut down one of the most elaborate sex trafficking rings in the country. It was also the family business.

The woman, Maribel Rodriguez Vasquez, was the sixth member of her family to be rounded up in the two-year multi-agency investigation. Vasquez, five of her relatives and three other Guatemalan nationals were charged with 50 counts, alleging that they lured at least a dozen young women — including five minors as young as 13 years old — to the United States with promises of good jobs, only to put them to work as prostitutes. All remain in custody as investigators attempt to unravel the complex case.

Vasquez — quickly dubbed the “L.A. Madam” — attracted attention because she had been featured on the fugitive-hunting television program “America’s Most Wanted.” But it was one of only a few such cases to be spotlighted by national media, contributing to the false impression that cases of immigrant sex trafficking are isolated incidents, law enforcement officials and advocates for immigrants say.

Know your neighbor

  1. SAN DIEGO (AP) - An adviser to Lt. Gov. John Garamendi has pleaded guilty to possessing child pornography on his computer. The U.S. attorney's office says Wade Sanders admitted Monday in federal court in San Diego that he possessed a computer with more than 600 sexual images of minors. The computer also had a 21-minute sex video depicting prepubescent girls. You never know where they are going to come from unless you get neighborlly and check for yourself. The 67-year-old Sanders was Garamendi's senior adviser for veterans and military affairs at the time of his arrest. He also served as deputy assistant secretary of the Navy under President Clinton. A message left at Garamendi's office was not immediately returned. Sanders is scheduled to be sentenced March 30. The maximum penalty is 10 years in prison and a $250,000 fine.

Community Watch Programs

  1. The creation of a joint community watch program is aimed at beefing up communication between current community watch groups.

The program's creator, said he hoped the group will help bridge the gaps between neighborhoods.

"I've headed up the community watch for just over a year now, and have had the opportunity to see how neighbors can successfully work together to reduce the criminal activity,The one gaping hole that I've noticed is that a line of communication between the various watches is virtually nonexistent. There is a clear opportunity to take our fight against crime one step further, and I believe the Community Watch is that answer."

  1. Family abductions: The DOJ study estimates that 203,900 children are abducted by a family member.

Nonfamily abductions: An estimated 58,200 children are abducted by a nonfamily perpetrator. On July 15, 2002, Samantha Runnion was kidnapped outside her home by a man she did not know who claimed to be looking for a lost dog.

So, have abductions by strangers increased or decreased? The DOJ study finds:"No scientific basis exists to conclude that there has been a true decline — although it is possible. On the other hand, NISMART–2 results do not indicate an increase in abductions by strangers."

Extra: Another disturbing category of missing child is the "stereotypical kidnapping." (How does the DOJ define "stereotypical kidnapping"?)

Daughter Sold For Beer

  1. This is a case of not knowing your neighbor.

GREENFIELD, Calif. - Police have arrested a Greenfield man for allegedly arranging to sell his 14-year-old daughter into marriage in exchange for $16,000, 100 cases of beer and several cases of meat.

Police said they only learned of the deal after the 36-year-old man went to them to get his daughter back because payment wasn't made as promised. The man was arrested Sunday on suspicion of human trafficking.

Officers also arrested an 18-year-old man on suspicion of statutory rape. Investigators believe the girl went willingly with the man, but she's under California's legal age of consent and can't legally marry.

Police say arranged marriages involving underage girls have become a problem in this small Central Coast farming community.

 

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Do You Know Your Neighbor in the News

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    New Delhi, Dec.6 : A Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) team will be visiting Delhi on Monday purportedly to share information with the Indian Government on recently detained Pakistan-origin terror suspects David Coleman Headley and Tahawwur Hussain Rana.

  • FBI team coming to India Monday with Headley informationNew Kerala1 second ago

    New Delhi, Dec 6 : A Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) team is arriving in India Monday on a two-day visit with 'key information' on Pakistan-born suspected Lashkar-e-Taiba (LeT) operatives David Coleman Headley and Tahawwur Rana presently in US custody, a top official said here Sunday.

  • Indian Consulate in trouble over Rana's visarediff.com3 minutes ago

    The curious case of the Indian Consulate in Chicago issuing a visa to Pakistani-Canadian Tahawwur Rana, who was arrested by the Federal Bureau of Investigation for allegedly plotting terror attacks in India, appears to be getting more complicated. Both Rana and his wife Samraz Rana had been issued multi-entry visas by the Consulate with the visa stamp clearly stating that this had been issued at ...

  • FBI team coming to India Monday with Headley informationCalcutta News1 second ago

    A Federal Bureau of Investigation (FBI) team is arriving in India Monday on a two-day visit with 'key information' on Pakistan-born suspected Lashkar-e-Taiba (LeT) operatives David Coleman Headley and Tahawwur Rana presently in US custody, a top official said here Sunday.

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In The Doghouse profile image

In The Doghouse  says:
2 years ago

Firead45,

This is so true. With todays fast paced life, we hardly take the time to know our neighbors. I had an experience with my neighbors that was positive and thought I would share this idea. We live in an area that earthquakes are prevelant. I am a big advocate for emergency preparedness. Another neighbor and myself organized a meeting to teach about emergency preparedness and water storage, and organized our neighborhood into smaller emergency groups. This is to make sure that in an event of an emergency we will all be accounted for. I feel that we may not know our neighbors now, but if a crisis hit, we would certainly get to know them quickly. BTW, make sure you are storing water and that your neighbors are too! lol I even gave my neighbors a case of water for Christmas last year! WE found out who were medical personel and HAM radio operators, law enforcement personel, etc. It was great to see that in the event of an emergency we could work together to try and help each other out. Thanks for the HUB and helping me to remember to rekindle those relationships.

RachelOrd profile image

RachelOrd  says:
2 years ago

Yeah, it's unfortunate that most people don't know their neighbors. You never know when you may need someone! Our neighborhood is small and we have several block parties per year. It's really fun! Everyone is so different, and maybe wouldn't bother to be friends unless we had these gatherings. We have haloween costume parties, spring fling parties, and we are planning a fish fry in the cul-de-sac!

WeddingConsultant profile image

WeddingConsultant  says:
2 years ago

I think this is a great hub for many to pay attention to. I think we, as Americans, have really lost touch with the importance of getting to know our neighbors.

dhoosier profile image

dhoosier  says:
2 years ago

This is a great hub, it's so true, people need to slow down and reconnect. Myself included.

Inspirepub profile image

Inspirepub  says:
2 years ago

Kids aren't playing in a mob on the street any more - the connections made by kids were a vital part of keeping communities connected, because kids are so good at making friends.

Now that so many families have two working parents, and kids are at the grandparents or in after-school care, they can't just mill about and play with the neighbors the way we all did as kids.

It takes effort these days, instead of happening naturally, but you're right, it's worth making the effort.

Patty Inglish, MS profile image

Patty Inglish, MS  says:
2 years ago

These are good ideas for making friends and building community. I grew up after the Joe McCarthy era when some companies were STILL requiring their employees to watch their neighbors for Communists and to take notes and report on them. My father did this religiously, even through the whole 1970s, so we as a family had no friends and my mother never did after I grew up. It did not have to be that way.

Thanks for the Hub!

Decrescendo profile image

Decrescendo  says:
2 years ago

I feel hungry now. Thanks for sharing.

trish1048 profile image

trish1048  says:
2 years ago

Hi,,,this hub brought to mind the exact same thoughts I've had. I grew up in a town 1 mile square, and as you say, everyone knew everyone. I remember going to a neighbor's house to just sit around and have coffee while the kids were off at school. I was fortunate to have a wonderful childhood filled with fun. Doors weren't locked, keys could be left in the ignition and you could always count on someone to lend a hand.

Great ideas, thanks for writing!

Patty

myi4u  says:
2 years ago

I don't really know my neigbors. I only see them once a while coz almost everyone of them just go straight into the house after they get back from shopping or work. Same as me.

chordpiano profile image

chordpiano  says:
2 years ago

For sure... I don't know mine either...they are kind of weird tho...so I don't think I want to know them ;)

Gadzooks profile image

Gadzooks  says:
2 years ago

I think its the same all over, I live in the UK and most people dont speak to their neighbors much.

I do though, and its a real benefit, we help each other out a lot... more people should try it!

AlishaD profile image

AlishaD  says:
2 years ago

We live out in the country and don't really have any neighbors per say, but I think this is an excellent idea. It is always a good idea to know those who live around you, especially if you have children.

Gadzooks profile image

Gadzooks  says:
2 years ago

and especially if your neigbor can get you into your house if you lock yourself out ;-)

compu-smart profile image

compu-smart  says:
2 years ago

Excellent info for getting to know them but personally, I do not want to know my neighbors! not these ones but my last place i lived would have been nice...I have lived in this busy london street for about 3 years now and i have no idea of the names of the people to my left, right, or opposite from me..It's just how most parts of london are!

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donnaleemason  says:
2 years ago

I live in small town America, getting to know my neighbours was a must for me, one of them although she has since moved states is still one of my closest friends.

Donna

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stevemark122000  says:
2 years ago

Great suggestions. Thanks.

MommyMandy profile image

MommyMandy  says:
2 years ago

Great ideas!! We had new neighbors move in last week, you have inspired me to go meet them!! Thanks!

pjdscott profile image

pjdscott  says:
2 years ago

A very interesting hub. Having read some of Bill Bryson's books, he would seem to agree with you that the US has changed. I'm Irish-born but live in the UK. In the north of England, we have lived in two houses and all of our neighbours have been extremely friendly and helpful (contrasting with Gadzooks's thoughts). In Ireland you always get to know your neighbour, and they will usually help and support you if needed. Sometimes, it can get too close, but I would rather it that way than not knowing who to ask when you're in trouble.

seamus profile image

seamus  says:
2 years ago

I'm fortunate to know a lot of my neighbors. Thank you for this hub. I like the block party idea.

peachtron profile image

peachtron  says:
2 years ago

I thought I knew my neighbor until I saw his name in the paper for cocaine possession and carrying a loaded firearm. What a weird world to live in.

dsletten profile image

dsletten  says:
2 years ago

This really hit a cord with me. I grew up in a suburb of a big city but we knew all our neighbors and everyone looked out for everyone else. Since then I haven't lived anywhere like that again. Even living in a rural neighborhood now far from any big cities we barely know our neighbors. It's sad really. Thanks for the great suggestions.

LondonGirl profile image

LondonGirl  says:
10 months ago

I live in the centre of London - and I do know pretty much all of our neighbours.

k@ri profile image

k@ri  says:
8 months ago

Excellent advice, you really never know who may be living by you unless you take the time to meet them. We are losing our sense of community.

flread45 profile image

flread45  says:
3 months ago

You are so right k@ri

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