Do you have any inspirtational quotes that you use in your coaching sessions with young people?
70Wisdom of the Ages
I have always loves quotes. In part because I was raised on them. My mother was constantly using quotes to teach us about everyday life. My mother did not teach us the origins of the quotes. She was probably simply repeating what she had been taught as a young girl.
But that fostered my love for quotes and as I grew older and began to learn about life, I saw the wisdom in what she had taught. I also began to dig deeper and find where the quotes came from. One thing that surprised me was the fact that so many of the quotes were quite ancient. It seems that the knowledge about life has been there for ages, but it also seems that we cannot learn some things simply by reading - we have to learn by experience.
Aesop's Fables
So much of our everyday language can be traced back to the stories from Aesop. Aesop was born a slave around 550 B.C. But because of his teachings he was set free. Aesop is one of the most famous story tellers to ever live and his method of teaching is still widely used today - tell a story and wrap a lesson in the story.
Today, we do not need to hear the entire story, just the lesson and we remember the entire story. Here are a few of his more famous stories:
Do not count your chickes before they are hatched.
I am sure the grapes are sour. (The fox and the grapes.)
Slow and steady wins the race. (The tortoise and the hare.)
Look before you leap.
Birds of a feather flock together.
Those who seek to please everybody please nobody.
It is thrifty to prepare today for the wants of tomorrow. (The ant and the grasshopper.)
A man is known by the company he keeps.
Thinking to get at once all the gold the goose could give, he killed it and opened it only to find - nothing. (The goose that laid the golden eggs.)
Proverbs
Proverbs is a collection of quotations attributed to John Heywood. It is doubtful that he wrote them all himself, it is more likely that he collected and published them . They were written in 1546 and are part of our everyday speech.
Haste makes waste.
Two heads are better than one.
To rob Peter to pay Paul.
Rome was not build in a day.
A penny for your thoughts.
Would you both eat your cake and have your cake?
This hitteth the nail on the head.
Nothing is impossible to a willing heart.
The best of Ben Franklin
No collection of quotations would be complete with some from Ben Franklin. These are all from Poor RIchard's Almanac.
Buy what thou hast no need of; and e're long thou shall sell thy necessaries.
He that cannot obey, cannot command.
Necessity never made a good bargin.
After crosses and losses, men grow humbler and wiser.
Well done is better than well said.
It's the easiest thing in the world for a man to deceive himself.
Success has ruin'd many a man.
Other sources
There is such a wealth of quotations, that it is extremely difficult to complie a very short list. My experience is that quotations can stick with a person for life. The lessons learned will serve a person well over their entire life.
These are only a select few of my favorites:
It is no profit to have learned well if you neglect to do well. Publilus Syrus
The fault dear Brutus, is not in our stars, But in ourselves that we are underlings. William Shakespeare.
As the twig is bent, the tree inclines. Virgil
They can conquer who believe they can. Virgil
Fear is sharp sighted, and can see things underground, and much more in the skies. Miguel de Carvantes
A journey of a thousand miles must begin with a single step. Lao-tzu
Time is the most valuable thing a man can spend. Theophrastus
As he thinketh in his heart, so is he. Proverbs 23:7
Whatever the mind of man can conceive and believe it can achieve. Napoleon Hill
A man, as a general rule, owes very little to what he is born with - A man is what he makes of himself.
And my very favorite quote which is so true and contains so much wisdom is actually from the comic strip Pogo - We have met the enemy and it is us. - Walt Kelly.
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It is truly amazing how these quotes stay with us over the years. I think we probalby do not realize the depth of wisdom in such quotations until much later in life. But as we recall and ponder the quotations later in life, they can be such a guide and inspiration.
By any chance, do you know the source of that quote? Lots of wisdom there.
Hi John,
Thank you so much for answering the question. The amazing thing is that I have heard (from my own parents) and even spoken many of these quotes(to my son) without realising it.
I didn't know that many of these quotes were from the Bible and Aesops Fables either. This is a truly informative and inspiring hub John. Thank you.
I have a friend on hubpages who is on the same sort of wavelength. coachrj speaks to me of his experience of working with young people - the two of you are an inspiration to the rest of us.
Great hub - Happy Easter from England (don't you just love how the Internet makes this possible) - I hope to hear more from you soon!
Great quotes John but wasn't it Mao Tse Tung who said about the journey starting with a single step or did he take it and just use it?
Caryl,
This is one of the most mis-attributed quotes I have ever come across. The quote is indeed from Lao-tzu. What we say and use is in fact a modern adaption of his original thought. Lao-tzu is believed to have been born in 604 B.C. and he did not actually write things himself. They were written by his followers some two or three generations after his death.
But the original source of this idea is taken from letter 64 of his collection The Way of Life. The literal translation of the words are, "... Or here at your feet a thousand mile journey have birth,..."
This is a great collection, John! My grandmother used many of these frequently. I never knew where they were from - now I do :)
John, when we worked with young people who were upset and often depressed, we would tell them "fake it til you make it" and define it so they didn't think only pretending was the way to go
As a tool used properly "pretending" can get you thru tuff moments to the other side of depression so you can look back, analyze, and move forward.
They were often stuck and couldn't get out of the reality of the horror they were experiencing. So, we showed them how to pretend and it pushed them out of their spot. Used wisely it works! I use it frequently HA i have many quotes that my mother used to help her thru her blindness. I'll do a HUB in fact each quote she came up with would be a HUB in itself and has great stories with them....i'll get to work on that ! Stay tuned
great hub, I love language!!!
As you can probably tell, I am a lover of quotations. In fact I did a booklet of quotations - Words to Live and Work By. And I believe it would be possible to write a HUB about each quotation in there.
I look forward to your HUBs on your mother's quotes.












Girija Deshpande says:
2 years ago
Excellent quotes! Even my mom used to do that, and even now I recall what she used to say. Her favourite used ot be "Gooseberries and the words of elders always are bitter in the beginning; later, they turn sweet"