So many people right now are robbing their marriage relationships right now by the decisions they are making before they get married. The majority of people are giving in and having sex before marriage. However I beleive that this is a bad choice to make. I beleive that waiting for marriage is a better choice and will lead to a more satisfying marriage.

Reasons why waiting is a good idea

• No comparisions- if your spouse is the only one you have ever had sex with there are no comparisions to others to get in the way of your relationship.
• No expectations- Most people who have had sex with others have preconceived notions about how sex should be and they will base a relationship off their sexual experience. However if you wait, you will get to discover sex together and the likelihood of unrealistic expectations won't be there
• Less temptation- If you have only experienced one person, and don't have others to compare it to you will be less tempted to go seek out someone else to sleep with. After a while sex can become boring for someone who has had multiple partners and it will make the desire to search out another partner more alluring.
• STDs- If you wait for marriage you chances of getting an STD are almost nonexistant, especally if both of you have waited.
• More satisfaction- When you can discover sexual intimacy together you will both be more satisfied and get less frustrated with each other. THere will be more patience in the relationship because after all,you are just as inexperienced as they are.
• More trust- You will feel more like you can let them see all of you. They will have nothing to compare you to making it more intimate that they are the only person who gets to see you naked in that way and you will feel less like they are comparing you to other images they have in their mind.

I hope for your sake taht you make the decision to wait for your spouse. I did and I have never regretted it :)