In my experiences with relationships , we, to often just settle for what ever we can get, in a man and I sure some men do the same thing. This  is a wrong philosophy on our part. If we're good and honest women, we deserve the same in a man; so why should we settle for anything less, when we can have the best of it all. We shouldn't be so needy that we except anything wearing a pair of pants, and call it a man.

when we ponder the idea of getting a man, you want a man that's worthy of us and our love. We all derserve the best, that God has to offer us, men too. Never be so needy that you forget, what you really want in man ;and just except the first thing that comes along. we all want good and honest men with integirty. I don't want you to put your priorities so high, that you want be able to find that man of your dream. we have to be logical about the man, that we're chosing to spend the rest of our lives with.

Let's face it, we all have our flaws and imperfections, but there is good in all of us, we just have to find the person that completes us. Honesty is a very good quality that we should look for in a man. We should weigh all of our options and pray about it, and ask God to send us the man of your dreams. Okay, we know what kind of person that we are; and we know what kind of man that we need to make up sit down and be happy.

What we should do is make a list of good qualities, that we're looking for in a good man and stick by our list. Women, please make sure you're being honest and for real by not asking for the sky. Make a reasonable list of qualifications for the man of your dreams, and don't settle for anything less; until you get exactly what you're looking forin a man.

Here's just a few pointers to help you out with your search:

1. A man that's honest and has integrity.

2.A man that's warm hearted, loving and caring.

3.A man loves and respects his mother and sister or sister( So you"ll know he will do the same for you).

4.A man that tells the truth, no matter what

5.A man that's unselfish, that will always put your needs first, (except for the needs of God).

6.A man That's always there, when you need him.

7.A man that makes you feel likes his queen, no matter how big or small you are.

8. A man that will genuinely love you for the person that you are.

Now ladies, I want you to understand something about this man, that's going to make all your dreams come true; you also have to be willing to give back everything that your man is giving you, or it's not going to be a good relationship. We must all remember, that being in a good relationship is a two way deal, one person can't make it work alone; so if you want all the trimmings; you have to give your man the same admirations. If you're a selfish person; that's only in it for you; and what you want; than a good relationship for you is impossible and improbable.

Make up your my today, that you will love and cherish the man of your dreams; and try to do everything in your power to keep him happy and content. With this attitude, there shouldn't be any problem crop up that you and he can't handle together.

Benny Faye Douglass