Educated Guesses

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By Brenda's Choice


INFINITY!!!

If there is one thing I know, is that INFINITY does exist- you just have to look around and see it ! Like knowledge, love, places to see, hands to hold, babies to kiss, smiles to be exchanged, spirit's to be UNbroken or not broken at all and choices you make and so on...

Life can pass you by so quickly-if you let it. Leave the house a few minutes early and sit on the bench with your coffee and watch how many different things and people you see in just 10 minutes! You'll amaze yourself at the fashion, pets, bridges, hairstyles and some who may need one, the smell of the air-good or otherwise. Like I said-it's out there, ENJOY IT ! Guess what. These things apply to you and me and everyone out there. You can learn to love and live life again.

All you have to do is JUST DO IT ! GET UP AND JUST DO IT !

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Brenda's Choice  says:
14 months ago

Don't be shy-no matter what it is you would like to add or say-Just do it! This is for fun and that's why I referred to it as Educated Guesses-just another way of saying-stick to your instincts if you have any commom sense at all. You usually can't go wrong-whether it be about people, gambling, that piece of sidewalk that really does look like you'll be eating concrete-just jump right in and enjoy life and the people you love. The rest is just dancing, dancing, dancing!!!

Brenda's Choice  says:
10 months ago

Ya know-everyone out there, it's been a long time since I've hubbed! Now it's Christmas time and LIFE is so CRAZY right now-no one has time for the important things in life! Let's start w/family-which I hold in high regard. Let's say you don't have much if any, family. Make one! I don't mean join a gang or anything to that extreme, but friends, neighbors, wrong numbers can even be an eventful conversation! Don't let what society deems as normal ??? or what complete stranger's think-usually negative because they are fairly insecure and have nothing better to do w/their time. How about joining a book club, PTA @ school-meet pretty decent people there, START going to church-sometimes especially this time of year, it can give you some assemblance of a solid base in life, which is what most people are missing in their lives nowadays.

Get back to BASICS! Life is much simpler. Why do people get w/gangs? Why do they get all junked up on drugs? Why are their petefiles allowed to live in neighborhoods w/innocent little kids running around? (DON'T GET ME STARTED ON THAT SUBJECT)! These people usually don't feel good about themselves, are lonely, somewhat anti-social, even just plain shy! YOU MAKE YOUR OWN DESTINATION-your CHOICE'S IN LIFE WILL AFFECT YOU & EVERYBODY AND ANYBODY AROUND YOU FOR A VERY LONG TIME. If you have children-REMEMBER 1 THING! CHILDREN are a product of their ENVIROMENT. Believe me-I know. My Husband and I are extremely blessed or lucky-depends on how you look at things-but we have 2 wonderful, truthful, morally true to themselves and we as the parents' have worked very hard to show-yes-SHOW them you can stick it out even through the toughest of times. We have never been an abusive couple-verbally yes-mostly to each other. Then we woke up one day & realized the effect it was having on our kids! Can you say DUMBASSES??? We can!!!

Take a good look in the mirror every morning and see if the person looking back at you is happy with him/herself! If you are and have but just a few regrets, CONGRATULATIONS! If you don't recognize or truthfully-if you don't like the person staring back at you, WAKE UP PEOPLE! DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT! OUR KIDS ARE OUR FUTURE-MAKE SURE THEIR FUTURE IS EITHER BRIGHTER THAN OURS WAS OR AT LEAST AS GOOD AS IT CAN BE. Did you all know, that a child would rather sit down and play a game with their parents than to be a COUCH-SPUD? Children usually love their parents, but do OUR KIDS LIKE US AS HUMAN BEINGS? THAT'S A TOUGHIE! Give it a shot-check yourself and or your significant other-make sure your children are OK. And I mean really OK!

If you don't watch over them and be their parent and most of all-BE SMARTER than them-well, I wish you only good luck w/that. WE are the parents. Our children should be allowed to be just that-kids! As innocently and happy-not stupid-be age-friendly truthful and realistic w/them when they ask you a question. Don't mamzy-pamzy them and don't be a drill seargent-both of those options will only end in disaster! It may take a few years, but you'll see if you don't do something about it NOW!!!

OK-I promise I'll Hub much more often-if you don't mind. Hope you are all well and fairly happy. No matter your financial status, (We are totally broke!) so I can say this-financially, don't let Christmas or any other occasion get to you. And QUIT going into so much debt that you'll be paying for it until next Christmas. Kids are very basic and remember-whatever gifts you but them, make sure their safe and make sure you'll make the time to jump in and play it with them so CHOOSE WISELY.

HOPE THIS HELPS GET YOU THROUGH THE TOUGH TIMES AND THE GOOD TIMES! HAVE A WONDERFUL CHRISTMAS AND IF YOU ARE ONE OF THE FEW IN MICHIGAN THAT ARE DOING WELL MONEY-WISE, TEACH YOUR CHILDREN HOW TO BE THANKFUL AND HOW TO SHARE. THEIR ARE ALOT OF FAMILIES AROUND THE WORLD THAT WOULD WELCOME A BIT OF HELP THIS YEAR!!! Stay Safe and HUG YOUR KIDS. Take Care of each other. And Happy Hanukah, as we are a diversified country. Forgive me for not being literate on all customs.

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