Call it the Effect of Celebrity, but everyone these days is insecure about their looks. If you aren’t perfection, clearly you’re ugly. Don’t buy into this. It’s a world full of socialites who would rather chew off a finger before going out in public without fake tanning or consulting their stylist. What this has done though, is make it easier to spot the shallow from the genuine, and this is good news for you men.

Shallow hot girls are great if your favorite activity is staring. Other than that, they’re of no value. You’re missing nothing. But you don’t have to be George Clooney to get attractive girls! The secret to being a normal guy that gets beautiful girls? Know how to spot the ones that aren’t shallow.

Any girl who’s looking for more than just “must have 6-pack” in a man could end up with a normal guy like you. She’s looking for someone she can relate to, someone who’s smart, funny, thoughtful, loving, etc. Luckily, all these are traits that you can improve at (unlike changing the shape of your face or your height). If you have qualities like these to offer, women of quality will notice immediately.

Quality women are the ones that you’re going to end up with long term. The shallow ones may be fun, but all they want is a pretty face to tote around. And quality women aren’t going to dump you if you have back hair!

If you do get rejected from a hot girl, know that she’s probably one of the shallows. Keep trying until you get a good one. And if you still think you’re not hot enough, get your most stylish friend to take you shopping or get a new haircut. There’s always room for improvement, especially if it helps to increase your self-esteem.

The women you want to date aren’t as shallow as you think. And the shallow ones are usually too busy stalking Abercrombie models to give you the time of day. You shouldn’t be so down about your looks. If you need some minor adjustments, she’ll look past them. Nobody is perfect, and you’ll soon see that she feels insecure about certain things too. You might find you have more in common with her than you think.