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Eye Contact And Body Language Attract Women

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By onunddy



Eye Contact And Body Language Attract Women

   First of all, your story would make NO sense at  all to most guys. They would say, "Yeah, whatever.  She was probably abused as a child and wants you  to be her daddy." or "Well, if I worked at a gym,  I could do that too."

   Of course, you realize that this had nothing to  do with it... this was a result of you learning  about how women are, then preparing, and then  taking action.

   I couldn't be more impressed.

   Now, let's talk about some of the things that  were happening that most people would MISS when  reading the story...

   You mentioned your exercise of keeping eye  contact until women look away. This is very  powerful. I am guilty of not addressing this issue  more often and I'm glad you mentioned it here.

   If you can learn this skill, it will  communicate powerfully for you. Great job.

   You said, "I guess all that mental practice  paid off. With out even thinking or pausing the  words just came out."

   This is the result of preparation and mental  rehearsal. This wasn't "luck". Even though the  words were unique to the situation, the MESSAGE  was delivered clearly. By learning how to better  communicate in the language that women understand,  you created magic.

   And, as for the words themselves...

   You just gotta love saying: "Hey that's great.  I am happy for you." (Pause - and in a lower tone)  "I know this is probably a major accomplishment  for you, but to the rest of the world, this is  kinda normal. So, you might not want to go telling  every stranger you see." to a hot woman at the  gym!

   You INSTANTLY took a situation that would  normally strip a man of all his composure and  personal power, and then REFRAMED her words in a  way that caused HER to look like the socially  inept one.

   Then you did something equally powerful:

   YOU WALKED AWAY.

   In effect, you busted on her, then PROVED  BEYOND THE SHADOW OF A DOUBT THAT YOU COULD TAKE  HER OR LEAVE HER. Actions really do speak louder  than words... most guys would have messed up that  situation by standing around waiting for her to  say something. You did the right thing by walking  away.

   When you combine all of these factors together,  you get a totally illogical outcome:

   ATTRACTION.

   She realized that you weren't just some other  loser who hoped to maybe get a date by kissing up  to her... You turned out to be one of the  EXCEPTIONAL men in the world who have more  personal power than her, and one of the even MORE  exceptional men who also know how to create  ATTRACTION.

   This combination made her feel a feeling that  you can't create by DECIDING that you want it. It  can only be created by TRIGGERING IT.

   Finally, I'd like to comment on the fact that  SHE asked YOU for YOUR number. You realize that  it's not typical for a woman to approach a man,  apologize, and then ask for his number.

   Women will often ask a man for his number just  to get rid of him. But not in a situation like  this one. This was different. She apologized, then  told you that she's tired of being picked up by  losers... then asked for your number. This was, in  effect, her telling you that she sees you  DIFFERENTLY.

   All because of your eye contact, followed by a  perfect execution of the Cocky and Funny attitude,  followed by an excellent physical demonstration of  indifference.

   Again, to most men this would make no sense at  all. If you consulted most relationship books,  they would argue that this type of approach would  NEVER work. I mean, men are supposed to "court"  women, compliment them... pursue them with gifts  and favors, right?

   Yeah, right.

   The problem is that the mainstream relationship books forgot to TITLE the chapter that suggest this kind of behavior. And, can you do what it takes to get yourself from where you are, to where you actually need to be, in order to attract the kinds of women that love you. 

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Gennifer  says:
5 months ago

great job and nice hub!

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Gin Delloway  says:
5 months ago

Thanks for interesting hub

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