Eye Contact And Body Language Attract Women
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Eye Contact And Body Language Attract Women
First of all, your story would make NO sense at all to most guys. They would say, "Yeah, whatever. She was probably abused as a child and wants you to be her daddy." or "Well, if I worked at a gym, I could do that too."
Of course, you realize that this had nothing to do with it... this was a result of you learning about how women are, then preparing, and then taking action.
I couldn't be more impressed.
Now, let's talk about some of the things that were happening that most people would MISS when reading the story...
You mentioned your exercise of keeping eye contact until women look away. This is very powerful. I am guilty of not addressing this issue more often and I'm glad you mentioned it here.
If you can learn this skill, it will communicate powerfully for you. Great job.
You said, "I guess all that mental practice paid off. With out even thinking or pausing the words just came out."
This is the result of preparation and mental rehearsal. This wasn't "luck". Even though the words were unique to the situation, the MESSAGE was delivered clearly. By learning how to better communicate in the language that women understand, you created magic.
And, as for the words themselves...
You just gotta love saying: "Hey that's great. I am happy for you." (Pause - and in a lower tone) "I know this is probably a major accomplishment for you, but to the rest of the world, this is kinda normal. So, you might not want to go telling every stranger you see." to a hot woman at the gym!
You INSTANTLY took a situation that would normally strip a man of all his composure and personal power, and then REFRAMED her words in a way that caused HER to look like the socially inept one.
Then you did something equally powerful:
YOU WALKED AWAY.
In effect, you busted on her, then PROVED BEYOND THE SHADOW OF A DOUBT THAT YOU COULD TAKE HER OR LEAVE HER. Actions really do speak louder than words... most guys would have messed up that situation by standing around waiting for her to say something. You did the right thing by walking away.
When you combine all of these factors together, you get a totally illogical outcome:
ATTRACTION.
She realized that you weren't just some other loser who hoped to maybe get a date by kissing up to her... You turned out to be one of the EXCEPTIONAL men in the world who have more personal power than her, and one of the even MORE exceptional men who also know how to create ATTRACTION.
This combination made her feel a feeling that you can't create by DECIDING that you want it. It can only be created by TRIGGERING IT.
Finally, I'd like to comment on the fact that SHE asked YOU for YOUR number. You realize that it's not typical for a woman to approach a man, apologize, and then ask for his number.
Women will often ask a man for his number just to get rid of him. But not in a situation like this one. This was different. She apologized, then told you that she's tired of being picked up by losers... then asked for your number. This was, in effect, her telling you that she sees you DIFFERENTLY.
All because of your eye contact, followed by a perfect execution of the Cocky and Funny attitude, followed by an excellent physical demonstration of indifference.
Again, to most men this would make no sense at all. If you consulted most relationship books, they would argue that this type of approach would NEVER work. I mean, men are supposed to "court" women, compliment them... pursue them with gifts and favors, right?
Yeah, right.
The problem is that the mainstream relationship books forgot to TITLE the chapter that suggest this kind of behavior. And, can you do what it takes to get yourself from where you are, to where you actually need to be, in order to attract the kinds of women that love you.
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Gennifer says:
5 months ago
great job and nice hub!