The Filipinos - the world's finest!
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This hub is offered in gratitude to the people of the Philippines
First, a disclaimer. Paraglider is not Filipino, is not employed or sponsored by a Filipino, nor married to, engaged to or dating a Filipina; in short, is not in any way connected to this fine people, save by a bond of admiration.
Politically Incorrect?
In these sanitised times, it is 'not done' to stereotype people by religion, ethnicity, or even hair colour, but that's a risk I'm prepared to take in the special case of the Filipinos, or at least the ex-pat Filipino communities living and working in the Middle East. And the risk is in fact a small one, since I single them out only to thank them.
How the Gulf States work
The Gulf States are the territories that surround the Persian (or Arabian) Gulf: Iran, Iraq, Kuwait, Saudi Arabia, Bahrain, United Arab Emirates (UAE), Qatar, Oman. I have never worked in Iran or Iraq, but I have lived and worked in all of the rest, and still do. These are oil-rich states, or, in some cases, protectorates of oil-rich states. However, they are still poor in education and in native skill-base, and, with a couple of honourable exceptions, are wholly dependent on immigrant labour and expertise to install, maintain and develop their fast-growing infrastructures.
As an example, the population of Qatar is about 20% Qatari Arab and 80% immigrant workforce. This 80% mainly comprises workers from the Subcontinent (India, Pakistan, Nepal, Sri Lanka) and 'professionals' from anywhere in the World. Ultimately, the Qataris own everything, but subcontract it all.
Christmas in Saudi
Saudi is not renowned for openness or tolerance and though it is politically friendly to the West (with respect to Iran, not to Israel) it remains a strict and difficult society for Westerners. Public expression of any religion except Islam is technically a criminal offence, and there are plenty religious police zealous to uphold the law.
Christmas day is just another working day here. And so it seemed, to Paraglider, and so it would have been, but for the Filipino canteen staff who threw caution to the winds, put on party hats (where in Saudi do you buy party hats?!?) and sang Merry Christmas to all comers. Who knows; there may even have been a few secret smiles behind the black veils.
STOP PRESS !
A few days ago, I lost my passport, getting into or out of a private taxi. I thought I'd never see it again, and was going through the Gulf nightmare of Police reports, Immigration, Visa control, etc. Then, a phone call from the Embassy. 'A Filipina' had found the passport in the street and handed it in to the Police station. Sadly, the police either did not record or (more likely) did not keep her contact details so I've been unable to render thanks. But I'm grateful it was a Filipina who found it. Someone who knew to do the right thing. Thank you, whoever you are!
So, the Filipinos...
Straight Talking
You go into a workplace in Abu Dhabi. Let's say, a print shop. You have a large order to place. Can it be done on time? The guy on the desk will tell you yes or no, if he's Filipino. If he is not Filipino, he will only ever tell you yes. The Filipinos will give you a straight answer and do their best to deliver. That is rare in the Gulf.
Confidence in Competence
Your air-conditioning breaks down (not funny in a Gulf summer) and you call your land agent who does nothing until the fourth attempt, though somehow you know that in his comfortable office he is wagging his head from side to side as he makes promises. This is the standard non-filipino response. Finally, he sends a technician to take a look. You relax - he's from Manilla. Half an hour later, you have a working system. These guys take pride in their work and finish the job.
The Hotel Bar
Yes, there are bars in the Middle East, though mostly inside the international hotels. We're not talking about pubs on the street corner. In fact there are two kinds of bars - bars staffed by Filipinos and bars where you can't get a drink. Paraglider favours the first kind! In quiet times, you learn a little bit about the lives of this community - why they are working abroad, their concerns about loved ones at home, the living conditions and restrictions imposed by their sponsors. In busy times, they simply move up a gear and almost run from customer to customer, too busy to chat, never too busy to smile.
The Bands
The Philippines seem to have an endless supply of musical talent. Filipino bands play nightly at live music venues throughout the Gulf. Cover bands, mostly, since that is what the hotels demand, but many of them take familiar standards to a new level of performance. And it's all about performance here. These bands give 100%, night after night, often playing three or four hour-long sets. It's fiercely competitive of course - a band that doesn't pull an audience is quickly replaced.
These quiet times?
That's when you learn that your favourite barmaid, who looks about 23, but is past 30, is here to support her family back home. Her family includes her 2 year old daughter. She's taken a 2-year contract and will not be allowed home until she's completed her first year. The 5-star hotel has put her in unsavoury dormitory accommodation out of town, with her co-workers. They are bused in to work and 'home' at the end of their shift. If any customer leaves without paying, the 5-star International Hotel Chain recovers its loss from her wages. This is comforting to hear. Oh, and she has a university degree in English, from Manilla.
Enough from me
But I hope, in a small way, this hub might have helped raise people's awareness of the principle export of the Philippines - their people, some of the best on the planet. The engineers, dentists, midwives, technicians, caterers, musicians, shopkeepers and others, who keep the Gulf states running. In the words of their unofficial anthem - Filipinos! Filipinos! Filipinos!
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Paraglider
I really enjoyed your tribute to the Filipino people, and also a little description of the "Gulf States." You have written a wonderful HUB, a true enjoyment to read. Thank you.
I know what you mean. I lived in the Philippines for 2 years. I was most impressed with the people and have always felt they didn’t get enough credit for their musical talents amongst others. They are also excellent tailors, and artists. You could take any suit of clothing to a tailor and they would reproduce it perfectly, or any photograph and they would render it a flawless likeness. If you travel in the Philippines, without any pretense the Filipino people will treat you with respect and kindness.
A nice trlibute, Paraglider to good people. I've learned a lot from your descriptions. Thank you.
I guess we're always harder on ourselves, so it's good to see things from a "visitor's" perspective. Filipinos do have some good qualities...
What you call Confidence in Competence, I call Resourcefulness. Because the Philippines is a third world country, we can't afford to throw away air-conditioners or computers or any other thing the first time it breaks down. We look for ways to fix it. And fix it again when it breaks down again. :-) We keep fixing it 'til it can't be fixed no more. It's been so ingrained in us that we carry it with us no matter where we go. ;-p (As an example, my brother lives in the US and he buys computers, stereos, cars, and other electronics from junk shops really cheap. Then he fixes them and either uses them, sells them, or sends them to us. He's sent me a lot of things he's fixed and they're still working 6 years later. :-D)
And our exports? Well, it's true that they're top-caliber. Any professional with confidence in his abilities would seek employment abroad where his skills would be better compensated. Unless he's very nationalistic - in which case, he'll work in the Philippines simply for the joy of helping the country, but that's a rare breed. :-)
Peter, Doghouse, Zev, William -
Thank you for commenting. I would like to visit the Philippines some day, but mostly I travel for work and the people there can do everything themselves, so there's probably no demand for my skills. The same is not true of the Gulf states!
Susan -
Specially pleased to have your response! I suppose the downside of exporting so many good people must be 'brain drain' effect at home. I've seen the same in Eastern European and ex-Soviet countries, especially Albania, where literally no-one stays home who can secure a position abroad. I know that the Gulf Filipinos regularly send money home, but the falling dollar hasn't helped. By the way, many of us consider the Gulf States to be third world countries that just happen to be rich!
You're right, brain drain is a problem that our government is trying to combat. But what can you do - people want to make a more-than-decent living and do what's best for their families or themselves. :-)
I don't know if it's the US dollar that's losing value or the Philippine peso that's gaining strength. But I do know that a lot of exporters and Filipinos working abroad are worried about it. Ironic, isn't it? One would think we'd be happy that our currency is gaining strength in the world market. :p
It's mostly a problem for people who are paid in dollars or in currencies pegged to the dollar (e.g. most of the Gulf currencies). As the dollar falls, your people abroad effectively have less money to send home. Maybe it will improve after the US elections . . .
I was really touched knowing that there was somebody out there valuing us more than we do to ourselves. A statue must be erected in your honor, dear paraglider,
Thank you Ray, and welcome :)
Dear Paraglider,
Thank you for exposing what the true Filipinos are : hardworking, talented, God-loving, peaceful people.
While we are in the third world, we have largely been a part of ( not just the professional / technical resource) the "human care giving" type of workers. I mean, to me, this is even priceless. I hope I am not bragging, but from what I've gathered, most foreigners ( the elderlies, to a large extent) would rather have a Filipino taking care of them in their old age. This is so because we Filipinos work, not only using our minds, but also our "hearts."
We are a people who loves people as well. We may not see it now, or in our lifetime, but I know God will richly reward our country.
Kudos to you for bravely and unselfishly writing about us. You have no idea what this means to our country. Mabuhay!
Cellebrate - Thank you very much for your comments. In writing this hub, I didn't want to downgrade the contribution (to the Gulf area) of any other nationalities, but my everyday experience is that your people are in a different league when it comes to service and humanity.
Great hub! I have heard the same comments when I meet peopl through the U.S. about filipino's their talents, and there ability to work hard. It's so great to hear others write about it. I feel like they are vrey under exposed for all they do.
Stylezinc - Thanks for the read. Maybe some day I'll have a chance to visit the Philippines for myself, but till then I'll always be happy to work with their people abroad.
Thank you so much for featuring my countrymen who are working in the MIddle East. I had tears in my eyes as I was reading it and also the comments. I wish that the situation may be reversed in the future so that there would be no more separated or broken families. There are social costs to this situation.
Thanks Brenda - it's the least I could do :)
I agree with your description of Philipinos. I have been there several times and stayed there for about six months. I have toured almost evry corner of the country. I found them very talented, sincere and devotional to the duties. Philipino girls are very hard working and more talented than the Philipino guys. Perhaps you have missed few points about them or may be out of reference here. They have got a great civic sense that is lacked in Indians (me too an Indian) and in most of the people living in South Asia and we have to learn few lessons from them. Most of the people are literate there. Though life is bit difficult there and the girls are compelled to move to other countries to feed their families back home. I appreciate their courage and sacrifice for going away from home in search of employment.
Hi Premsingh - In my line of work, I meet lots of Filipino Engineers & Technicians. In my away-from-work time I meet plenty of Filipina women also doing sterling work, in offices, hospitals, catering and entertainment. I was trying to avoid direct comparisons between Filipino and other nationalities. The aim of the hub is to give due praise without giving 'dispraise' elsewhere. But thank you for generously concurring with my 'singling out' of a special people who are neither yours nor mine. Yours was a very nice comment.
Filipinos are really hardworking especially those in the middle east. They take pride of what they do. But they are underpay. They just don't have any choice 'cause for them its best to work in overseas instead of staying in their homeland unemployed. The Philippine government should do something about this.
Linda - you're right, and the falling dollar hasn't helped, because the Gulf currencies are pegged to it. So for many, their send-home pay is worth less than before.
Fasinating read Paraglider!
A beautiul, knowledgable insight into the Philippines and it's culture.!
Thanks CS - they are good people :)
Thank you for the nice words, I am a Filipina and I am pleased that there are people who appreciates Filipinos working abroad. It's a great risk and sacrifice mainly to help their families here in the Philippines.
bonnieweelass - thankyou, but why such a scottish name if you are Filipina?
I'm not Philippino (Irish, in fact) but I wanted to thank you for such a great work and good words about them. The person I love the most is Filipina and I am really grateful] to know these people.
Andy - Thanks for commenting. It sounds like you have good taste. Enjoy yourselves!
Hello Paraglider.
Your words are inspiring and give me something to smile for and be thankful to you. I really appreciated this article that you have given the time to write and post so that anyone can read about us. Yes, I am a Filipino and also an overseas Filipino. I am living and working as an electronics engineer in a multinational semiconductor company here in Shanghai, China.
I am very proud to be a Filipino and we have so many things to offer to the world.
Thank you.
Jules - be proud - I've no doubt you're doing a great job, like all your 'ex-pat' colleagues. What goes around comes around and some day the world will recognise what your people have contributed. Thank you!
thank you for this article.....
My pleasure - thank you for your ex-pats!
thats right i agree
Wow! I came across this hub just by chance. This WAS very informative indeed. A friend of mine was married to a Filipina. Quite apart from that I have never had the good fortune of getting aquainted with anyone from the Phillipines.
I have high regard for the Thais, but now I am eager to pay a visit Manila as well.
Have a nice day!
Hi Quicksand - I have never been to Manila either. Most of the Filipinos I've met have been here in the Gulf states. Maybe some day, when I finish working... Thanks for the read!
Hi, I am about to start writing my book about how much I hate the Filipinos. I am a Filipino and I am trying to be a good citizen and a good example to others. However, as a Filipino I don't agree that all of us are great people. I am also a victim of unfair treatment.
The Filipinos are indeed hardworking especially when we are in other countries. One thing for sure is we want to prove to the world that we are of caliber and that we can do better than the others. We would also want to hold on to the job as muh as we can so we have to work much harder. By doing so, we can surely get a second or longer contracts. To many, Filipinos are the best workers in the world and I agree with you. Thank you for putting effort in bringing the Filipinos pride back.
But let's have a look at the country (Philippines) itself. Foreigners love the Philippines because of the affordable fun living and the luxury the Filipinos have to offer. We are very friendly to foreigners and we always make sure that they feel at home.
As a Filipino myself, I don't agree 100% with what others have been saying (The Filipino people are friendly and blah blah blah).
One thing for sure is that we are very kind to foreigners. We offer good quality service and we make sure that they are happy with what they get.
I'll give you an example, I went to the bank for a transaction. I was waiting in queue and it was terribly hot inside. I was waiting for 2 hours and a half. The tellers were just very slow. While I was waiting, I saw my French student coming into the bank and went straight to a desk and without a long wait, he was done. He saw me and was very surprised that I was in line. He went back to the desk and talked to the officer. I didn't know what he said but my student called me to come to the desk. In no time, my transaction was finished. My student told the officer that he should join the queue the next time he would come back because it isn't fair. The Filipino customers have to wait while the foreigners get special treatment.
Another recent incident, I was at the international airport. In my luggage I had two small bottles of coconut vinegar. This is one thing I've missed about the Philippines. I securely placed them in the bag that I would check in (not in my hand-carry one). I know that we are not allowed to bring any types of liquid even a bottle of mineral water. When I entered the gate and had my bag passed through the x-ray machine the inspectors saw the bottles and asked me to open my big luggage and confiscated my coconut vinegar. (What they did to them, I don't know). I tried to talk and beg but they just ignored me and were very impolite. Eventually, I left my vinegar with the officers. When I was at the check-in counter, I saw some foreigners taking out some items from their luggage because it exceeded the maximum weight allowed. To my surprise, I saw some bottles of water and mango juice. My heart sank and I was teary-eyed because I felt being unfairly treated. I know I could have talked to the managers or the high-ranking aiport officers but the time didn't allow. I left the country with pain in my heart and hatred to the Filipinos. In the first place, I can't enter and stay at the airport without paying travel tax and terminal fee. In other words, I was customer and should be treated fairly well, but I was a Filipino overseas worker, anyway, so I shouldn't expect receiving any special or hero's treatment.
In restaurants, shopping malls, beach resorts, government offices I have also observed the same treatment. I wish I were not a Filipino.
Filipinos are not friendly and accommodating to their people. That's one reason why we seek job abroad where we are more appreciated and recognized.
This is based on my whole experience. I didn't intend to hurt anyone but I hope you understand my feelings. Until now I feel hurt about it. Just Filipino vinegar. What's the big deal?
Probably that day was my bad moment. I was already feeling bad from the airport incident. To make matters worse, (on the plane (PAL), when the flight attendant, was ready for distributing breakfast, I was in the lavatory and when I opened the door to get out, her cart was in the way. I thought she would be apologetic but instead, she asked me to close the door and wait until she could finish her thing. I was too tired to argue so I closed the door and I had the moment to cry because of the whole incident. After a few minutes (not so long but imagine waiting to get out from the lavatory for 10 minutes!), I was out and got back to my seat and the same attendant came to our seat. First she asked the passenger next to me. She goes, "Good morning, Sir. What would you like to have, chicken or fish?" And of course she was smiling at the foreign passenger. Then it was my turn, she goes, "You? chicken or fish?" OMG! Now you can't blame me for hating the Filipinos, can you?
Adesl - thanks for commenting. I've not yet been to your country and have only met your people abroad, mostly in the Gulf States, so I can't comment, though of course I'm not questioning what you say. Maybe some others will add something?
You're just sweet. I like you. You are someone who can heal wounds. I don't know you but I'm sure you love Mandela. I have a feeling. You know what I mean? Cheers!
Ah, my old friend Nelson - we have tea together every Friday afternoon... ;)
Wow! Are you serious? Nelson? Mandela? as in Madiba? I wish I could join. I want to know more of his secrets of leadership. Here are the 8 and my favorites are 3 and 6.
1. Courage is not the absence of fear-it's inspiring others to move beyond.
2. Lead from the front-but don't leave your base behind.
3. Lead from the back-and let others believe they are in front.
4. Know your enemy-and learn about his favorite sport.
5. Keep your friends close-your rivals even closer.
6.Appearance matter-and remember to smile.
7. Nothing is black or white.
8. Quitting is leading too
Reference: TIME (Mandela at 90, By: Richard Stengel)
I usually travel in T-shirt, jeans and sneakers. Some Filipinos judge you by how you dress. So I think next time I should improve my appearance like a celeb look in leather jacket and boots and will probably be treated well. Wow! as if it is not hot in the Philippines.
By the way, coming to the Philippines is a great experience. I am sure you will love it and you will find out how much we love our friends from the other side of the world.
Sorry - not serious about knowing Mandela - just wishful thinking! I was pleased when London placed his statue in Trafalgar Square last year. A change from all the military and empire 'heroes'.
adesl - Worry not! Thou art not the only one!
Thanks quicksand. I know I have to get over it.
Hi Paraglider, I admire Mandela and I have high regard of him. I wish I would meet him and listen to his talks. I hope the Philippine's leaders and the aspiring ones will always remember and be inspired by Mandela.
Read you soon. Goodnight.
When I was growing up, I was exposed to the Filipino culture as my sister became involved with a Filipino doc, who broke her heart and who is the father of my older nephew; she made a few more friends from the Philippines, and we found that most of the Filipinos in the USA are professionals, as they value a good education, and yes, they are very good at what they do.
Thanks for the read & comment, VioletSun
Thanks for writing this interesting traveling essay about the Gulf States in general, and the resourcefulness, intelligence, thoughtfulness, and kindness of Filipinos in particular. The Filipino people I have known here in the US are always very hard working and intelligent people that appreciate their belongings as Susan pointed out. I had a roommate who was very messy and would throw here belongings around the apartment, but her Filipino boyfriend shared with me that he never liked her attitude. He had lived in a poor village and his family had always cleaned and treated their belongings with respect, so it was a shock when he saw how people in the US such as his girlfriend could be such a slob. Very good hub.
I've never met a Filipino that I haven't liked...truly...
Filipinos are known for being hospitable and hard working. Thank you for the wonderful hub!
SweetiePie - that's very understandable. When people have had to 'make do & mend' as a way of life, they will not be impressed with a don't care mentality. By the way, answering my own question, where in Saudi do you buy party hats? You don't of course. You make them, out of anything you can get.
Uninvited Writer - I can share that sentiment. I see them as the best of travellers. I can't speak for the Filipinos at home, as I've never been there. Some day, I hope.
And vmarge - thank you too!
I had not caught on to that part about the party hats, but very insightful of you to see that. I think that it would be fun to make a party hat, think of all the possibilities.
I'm not too good at making, drawing, painting. Writing & music are more in my line!
WOW!! Such a nice tribute to the Filipinos. I would to visit gulf and do good bargain shopping. I heard fly buy dubai season is awesome for that. You have very vast exposure and inclusive world view.
Thanks Countrywomen! The Dubai shopping festival certainly brings the crowds and the Global Village is something well worth seeing. It's a great multicultural event.
I once flew over dubai but didn't get off the airport. Btw kerala is a beautiful place known as God's Own Country. It has backwaters which are breathtaking. I am so happy to talk to someone who is so knowledgeble and inquisitive about other cultures/places. May their be more of your breed in the world.
Most of the taxi drivers in Doha come from Kerala and given the chance they love to talk about their homeland. It's mainly from them that I've got the idea that Kerala is a place I have to see.
The early expatriates went primarily to gulf. Kerala is a small state having 100% literacy with few jobs which forces them to seek jobs outside kerala. Hopefully you take more time out to visit many places in India besides kerala. It's a vast country with diverse languages, cultures and history. I have been to many places in India and still feel I haven't learnt enough about it. I really liked the B.Gita Shloka you kept in your profile. I have read your hubs/comments and they show that you are man of diverse interests and inclinations.
well, I am really very hapy to see someone very observant and objective enough to write down work ethics of Filipinos. I am a Filipino and working in CHina as a foreign English teacher. I am so surprised that you have stepped an extra mile just to right down and spend time to say something good about the Filipinos. This is a rare instance. I am veyr proud of your honesty and courage to show how good Filipinos are. more power to you! Cheers!
r_sphynx - thanks for telling me. In the Gulf States there are all nationalities, but I see very clearly who's doing the best job. And with good humour too.
Interesting site, was intrigue by the experiences of different people that contributed to your site regarding Filipinos.
Was very sad about Adesl encounters, but seems like he has personal pain that need to be dealt with. I had bad and good experiences from dealing with Filipinos but will not outweigh the positive ones. Besides we will experience bad and good treatment everywhere we go, that will just make us better person. I use to travel overseas more often and met many nationalities, most have positive and negative strengths.
Jpflight - thanks for commenting. Maybe I've been lucky, but if so it's been a long run of good luck!
if philippinos are hard working and fun loving people. why do they get maltreated by their employers? especially here in the Gulf....
Hi Ken - It shouldn't happen, but it does, and not just to filipinos. The Gulf States have a tradition of late or withheld payment. There's no worker representation here. In some cases, it can approach slave labour. Some of the private employers, e.g. of domestic servants, can become genuinely abusive. It's a known problem and certainly not approved by the governments, but not enough is being done to stamp it out.
Paraglider - What has been your experience with Indians? Iam asking this question since you have been to Bombay and also must of interacted with Indians in Gulf.
Hi Countrywomen - you put me on the spot! But I'll answer honestly. I've worked with some very good Indian Engineers at a professional level. On a lower 'operative' level I've found a huge mixture of competences and also of industriousness. At the risk of generalising, I'd have to say that Filipinos seem to have rather more drive. Sometimes I've wished that some of your people would be more willing to admit not knowing things, instead of always giving the answer they think I want to hear. But generally, no problems. And the Gulf States would collapse if either the Indians or the Filipinos packed up and went home.
Paraglider- That's a very honest answer. Yes, even I feel most of the Indians once they have a certain comfort zone then they don't want to go out of it. I myself was offered more salary earlier this year along with a promotion but somehow I felt uncomfortable to take the plunge since everything was going smoothly at my end.
Coming to the second point in India mostly their is a lot of parental authority and this tends to carry on even at work. When I was doing my undergrad and did an internship in an Indian company i once spoke in the meeting about my opinion (and was told later by manager that it was a meeting for the lower level staff just to listen and not "air our opinions"). There is always an unknown written rule that boss is right and never to disagree/displease the boss. Another thing is when your boss asks something to be done than you just agree to that and later seek the help of colleagues or pressurize your subordinates to fulfill that task.
Fortunately US work culture is pretty open and even my director prefers me calling him by his first name. My promotion is based on my contribution and not on how close I am to the boss.
Hi Paraglider,
What can I say but a heartfelt "Thank You" for your affirmation of my fellow Filipinos' positive traits. Your words will help boost the morale of Filipinos reading your hubs. We have lots of problems in our country and to hear something good said about Filipinos is a whiff of fresh air. Thanks.
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Hi Paraglider, I am so glad to read your hub before I sleep tonight. It is a delight to know that as a race we are able to contribute, do things, share our heart and be recognized for it. Thank you so much for an uplifting hub. Of course, I too acknowledge that there are also not so nice things that have been done by our fellowmen. After all, each person is responsible for his/her own actions, no matter what race we belong to.
This hub beautifully inspires all Filipinos (including me) to keep on! Thank you so much. :-)
Most (not all, but almost all) Filipinos are shallow, conceited and place top emphasis on external looks and beauty.
My experience trying to find work after college in the Philippines is not pleasant. HR managers seems more interested in judging whether an applicant is cute or good looking, rather than what they can contribute to the company. For more than a year, I couldn't find a job even with my excellent credentials and college work experience. Meanwhile, my classmates who have spotty grades but good looking have no problem jumping from one job to another.
I guess my problem is I'm not "cute" or good looking as per the Filipino standard... not good enough to be hired by the Human Resources department.
I finally got a very good job after more than a year of job search... only because the person who runs the company is an American expat living in the Philippines. He doesn't care if you're cute or handsome... only if you are well qualified to do the job. I am treated well, and I begin to see the dramatic difference between the American mentality and the Filipino mentality. I guess I came to realize that I think more American than Filipino.
So I moved to the USA, and within months I've found a very good job. All my employer wants to know is if you've got the smarts, drive and ambition. No racial discrimination from my American bosses. They are very fair and will treat you right and compensate you well.
Filipino bosses and fellow Filipino employees back there on the Philippine Islands, on the other hand, are world champions of racial discrimantion in the world, and they judge people solely because of looks, skin color, age, etc... cute, not cute, fair skinned or dark sineed? "chinese" chinky eyes, or big eyes...
As for my "not cute/ugly face" judged accordingly by my fellow Filipinos ... Well, I am now married to a beautiful blonde American, and we have a very beautiful daughter. We've been together for 12+ years now. Eat your heart out! LOL!
Right now, I have my own electronics manufacturing company. I don't think this is something I could have done if I'm still living back in the 3rd-world country that is the Philippines.
Truly in America, you can be whatever you want to be. It's what in your head that counts... not what you look like.
It's embarrasing when all the other countries around the Philippines are growing by leaps and bounds while the Phillippines is still stuck in the past like it's the 60s. They said Marcos was bad. You know what, and so was every president and government body that came afterwards. It's still the same politics and graft and corruption. They're all interested in lining up their pockets with kickbacks.
Oh wait... The Philippines does have the largest and biggest concentration of shopping malls in the world.
I think I will grow old and the Philippines will still be where it is standing today (which is the same as where it was 40+ years ago)... a backward poor nation, more concerned with looks and appearances.
Good riddance to you Phillipines!
SorryToBeAFilipino - Thanks for contributing your story here. I stress again, I have not yet been to your country and my impressions are based on Filipinos I meet in and around the GCC countries where their positive contribution is beyond question. Now it may be that it is a skewed sample I'm seeing, comprising precisely those who have the courage, drive and ambition to seek improvement abroad. But I can only speak of what I've seen. I'm glad you're enjoying your life in the US :)
thanks for this, i'm happy to know that many people like us.
Blessile - never doubt it!
I agree with almost all said here. I was in the Philippines for a month last year and found Filipinos to be the most friendly and kind people I have EVER encountered. I will be marrying a lovely girl from Laguna later this year, and we are to have a baby in August. I could not be happier...she is a truly wonderful woman. Our intention is to stay in Scotland (where I am from) for about five years, then move over to Laguna to hopefully open a bar/venue in San Pablo. I can hardly wait. Her family have taken me to their hearts and I have done the same. I love the attitude of 'share your blessings' and that is what we intend to do. There are not too many Filipinos in Scotland, but I know they are appreciated. Just check out a story about Filipino fishermen in Fraserburgh. They are helping transform a once-depressed town into a vibrant place again. I love the Philippines people. You all take care, wherever you are.
Philip - my blessings on your marriage. Thanks for commenting. Eventually I will leave the Gulf region, but I know I will miss my many Filipino friends.
to Paraglider: I am thankful for you to have created a hub like this one. At least I know how my husband is being treated by foreigners like you abroad. Since I know his characteristics and attitudes almost fits your descriptions here about meeting filipinos working abroad. Hayy!!! You simply made me feel at peace now.
to SorryToBeAFilipino: Whatever happened to your past here in the Philippines, you are still born to be fellow, man. You don't have to blame the Filipinos just because you had a hard time finding a job. Yet, you should be thankful still because if you haven't been treated indiscriminately, you would never think of going to US, would you? Perhaps, your bosses there in US finds you nicely because you are a Filipino born citizen. You'll never know. So, don't be too relaxed under estimating Filipino future. Be proud, instead of being SORRY... Peace brother!
Chaixhee - thanks, and welcome. I'm pleased to have struck a chord :)
all FILIPINOS are born thieves! all they do is steal and take advantage of other peoples kindness
Wow, this is so heart-warming to us Filipinos. I have once encountered an online news article published in the Kingdom of Saudi Arabia that says that if Filipinos boycott the global workforce, it would be paralyzed.
Hope you could visit the Philippines in the future. Great hub. Will share this to my friends. Thanks a lot.
Melody - Thank you. And that is certainly true of Saudi. Your people keep a lot of the infrastructure going.
Hi Paraglider! I agree. My experiences with Filipinos are they are hard working, down to earth people, that value family. I met quite a few of them while in Korea....similar contracts there too. I've dated a few Filipina too and have friends that are married to Filipina. They rock!
Thanks Kea - spread the word!
Wonderful hub. I think need has caused many of us to rise above the rest by working hard and dedicating our lives to our families and loved ones. :)
Thank you, Paraglider.
Very interesting hub, paraglider! It's interesting to see how Filipinos are viewed by non-Filipinos ouside the Philippines. As a half-Filipino living in the US I've had several opportunities to visit the islands and would actally have to agree with those who have posted here saying how Filipinos treat their own differently than they treat foreigners.....for example, I was treated like a princess when out in public with my blue-eyed tall white dad, but like crap when out with my 5 foot tall dark skinned mom. I hated being there because the entire time I received nothing but comments about how I looked. Shallow bastards....they really ARE centered on physical looks. Even my family complains that since I'm half I should be better looking. Thankfully I live in the US where it doesn't seem to matter.
Oh, I also have a lot of family here in the US who just moved hee for work. They like to sit around and pick on how fat, ugly and dumb Americans are. Of couse they're nice to your face and will kiss your a$$ because you're employing them, but at night they get together and bash anyone who's fat or black or unattractive.
Wiggles - I suspect that what's happened in the Philippines is the same as happens in many countries that export talent - the 'best' take their chances abroad, which inevitably degrades the population at home. Albania is exactly the same - maybe worse - as the only people left in the country are old folks, women and children. The young men finish National Service then seek work and advancement in Western Europe.
......yeahhhh filipino they are hard working.....
the philippines is a poor country in terms of material possessions. but, we believe that the best riches in life are the ones that cannot be taken away from you - knowledge, skills, talent, dignity, and integrity. we take them everywhere we go :) mabuhay to all filipinos around the globe!!!
"I/We Love Philippines Too" Blog Post:
Welcome, amae, and thanks for the backlink :)
Hello Paraglider,
Just call me phylissedel. I just came across your hub by accident. Actually im desperately seeking Philippines' contributions and accomplishments to the world because my boyfriend sometimes bugs me of how great their country is and their contributions to the world. Certainly due to pride, im in desperate pursuit of ways to get even with him, until i read ur remarks/ opinion about Filipinos. Certainly it boosts my confidence because i cannot compare my bf's countrys accomplishment to my homeland. But having read about your opinion about us Filipinos makes me feel proud! Though i know other countries are rich and progressive, and we are not that competitive globally, still, Philippines stood out amounst the rest because not only of the vast natural resources that we have but because due primarily of the BIG HEART owed to the Filipinos everywhere. Now, im enlighted why most foreigners especially americans who had been to Philippines decided to settle in our country, not only because of the monetary value, but because they feel that Philippines is their HOME not just a country that caters to foreigners. Certainly Philippines and Filipinos are one of a kind. Due to your hub, i will make sure to print it out to show it to my bf so that he would be enlighted and delighted to know, that other nationality like you certainly know what the riches that Philippines have to offer. Thanks alot for the boost empowerment. Mabuhay Taung mga Filipino. Im Proud to be A FILIPINO!
phylissedel - you're most welcome. Thanks for the visit, and stay proud!
The the Filipinos who hates Filipinos (adesl) Your not part of Filipinos now. Think and ask your self where did you grow and loved?
Well to this guy who made this blog, Thank you soo much. I really inspired by your story.
Zeal - you're welcome. The longer I stay in the Middle East, the more I am convinced i am right in my assessment of your people.
A masterpiece that speak well of Philippines and her people, you have a very captivating, heartwarming and sincere article about us. Two thumbs up to you Sir, I am really enjoyed and moved with this Hub. Kudos for highlighting us Filipinos in the world stage. More Power to You and God Bless.
Thanks General (should I salute the rank?). The Filipinos (and the Scots) punch above their weight in the wider world :)
Thanks for your informative hub and promoting us filipinos as well...its very nicely presented...
Cheers :-)
Thanks paraglider for your wonderful words about my countrymen working in the Middle East. I've read some of the responses and it's saddening to see that my co-Filipinos are the first ones to put us down. Can't really blame them if they had those bad experiences but I personally think it is wrong to generalize any race, especially your own. I think in every race and country there are good and there are bad people. They just didn't give their own country and co-Filipinos the chance to show our good side.
Thanks again Paraglider. I am now your solid, loyal fan =).
Wow! I'm speechless. Thank you for your kind words Paraglider. Philippines and its people, just like any other country is not perfect and yes often times misinterpreted. We are a poor country, I really am not sure if we still can rise up from the mad we are into right now but I still believe in the goodness of its people despite the hardships we can still smile. You and the other people who love and still believe in the Filipinos that brings smiles in our faces. Thank you so much! =)
informatve hub.
Prettysmartjean - you are most welcome. Thanks for visiting :)
Emievil - Yes, it's a shame that the only negative comments here have been from a few disenchanted Filipinos. But not too many, I'm pleased to say :)
Charia - I don't want to get into politics here, except to say that your people deserve better leaders. Your time will come, though the world may have to grow up a little first :)
Nasheed - welcome :)
i hate being a filipino, i'm suppose to be a naval architech but my parents can't afford me that. now, i'm stuck here livin' in crisis.
I think Filipinos were good one,they are hardworking and talented. All people have their good and bad attitudes, no body's perfect right?...
Paraglider Kamsahamnida(^.^)
Thank you so much for this remarkably uplifting piece! It goes to show that there are still kind and humble souls who, despite being different in racial origins with us Filipinos, still do appreciate us sincerely for the many good things that we are.
Being away myself from my beloved country has exposed me to the harsh realities of racism, but people like you make my kind a little more inspired to continue with our battle to leave our own little indelible marks outside the Philippine shores...
There isn't any wonder for your continued success here in this community and beyond.
You got a fan in me!!
Thanks, Green light - that's a typically generous Filipino comment :)
thanks paraglider for this...nice article again,not that I am a Filipino (currently residing in the US)---but this is so true.....I guess I will write my unfinished article---The Filipino - Caring for the world...(saga of filipino nurses abroad)
Prettydarkhorse - please do finish your article. These people do great things and get little appreciation, especially here in the Gulf States.
wonderful Sir.
Well said and sincere appreciation of us Filipinos.
Thanks a lot. God Bless.
bibhhdcn - most welcome, thank you :)
A very nice tribute to a very nice group of people, the Filipino people. Paraglider I used to work with a Filipino guy in Brampton, Ontario called Caesar Hajula, a real nice guy. Before moving to Brampton he worked somewhere in the Gulf States as a cement truck driver. We have 3 or 4 Filipino priests in our diocese, Father Joseph always seemed to have a smile on his face and something good to say when he was at our parish. With the recent tsunami and floods our diocese didn't have much trouble reaching our proposed amount to send to Manila for aide.
Hi Mike - lots of people have a similar story to tell about the Filipinos they've known. It's not just coincidence!
An outstanding Hub. Very well observed and with sympathetic analysis. However one must question the need for a nation to use it's people (who endure considerable exploitation) as an export revenue(a most significant one), as the Balikbayans and OFW's (overseas foreign workers) must also pay taxes back to the Philippines government whenever they return.
You've done a superb job here - I applaud it!
Bard - of course it would be better if there were opportunities enough in the homeland, but if there are not, the people are right to seek employment overseas. We Scots have been doing it for a long time too,
They are not "right" to do so - they are forced to. The Philippines has immense natural resources. Sadly rampant exploitation and uncontrolled greed sees there environment destroyed bit by bit. I'll give you an example: For many years I have protected what little agriculture I have in a small corner of the Philippines. Financial constraints prevent me from expanding that care. Meanwhile, wealthy individuals are allowed to buy up swathes of acres, cut down trees and turn them into...cock farms. A most lucrative business. Consequently, flooding is now occurring in areas which never suffered from that problem before. The damage has already been done and it will take many years, if ever to restore. Cock fighting does not provide long term income for the population. It destroys the land and permanent resources. So whilst this is allowed to continue with impunity, the Philippines government turns a blind eye safe in the knowledge that a growing population will require feeding - so far better to encourage them to seek work overseas and provide for their families, take taxes and ease their duties to their people. The reasoning is educate and export! Those that aren't educated - export anyway, because there will always be menial jobs for them, provided the market exists, and mercenary agencies encourage them to do so at great expense.
Your comment about being Scottish is purely churlish, and although said with tongue in cheek, fails to address the fundemental problems.
Bard - I was talking about individuals who are making the right choice in providing for their families as best they can. I'm well aware of the political/societal problems that force that 'choice', but thanks for giving that example.
(By the way, while modern Scots are not forced to travel abroad, this was not always so. After the clearances, when the land they had worked for centuries was seized from under them, emigration was the only avenue open for large numbers. And later, serving abroad in the British imperial army became the only option. So while the comment was tongue in cheek, it is rooted in history. No offence intended)
No offence taken. Besides you have fuelled a worthy debate. But there are many people who have been dispossessed for one reason or another - the Irish for example, and lets not forget the Chagos Islanders whose livelihoods were removed purely as a UK/US political and military stitch up, in what still remains as a gross act of injustice. You cannot equate the Philippines in the same breath with these examples. My point is that the Philippines does not have to export it's people. It is a democratic Christian Republic, founded over hundreds of years influenced by both Spain and the USA. It is a mindset which exists, where wealthy families generate influence and power, where the church is celibate and the government impotent. In an oxymoron marriage between church and state they manage to produce too many children which they are unable or unwilling to care for. In Britain they would have been reported to the Social Services long ago.
Good metaphor. I'm not going to venture into deeper waters here, because while I know many Filipinos, I've never been to the country. I said somewhere in the comments section that the Filipino people deserve better governance. But that has to come from within. Until it does, individuals will continue to seek their livelihoods abroad.
I notice you spend your time between London and San Pablo. Out of interest, what's your background?
I'm only prepared to say that I have been associated with the country for thirty years. I have covered it top to bottom. From Mindanao in the south to North Luzon, and the Visayas and Palawan in-between. My first visit was during the Marcos years, when I was in my early 20's and when an Englishman in San Pablo was as rare as a coconut palm in Glasgow.
I was there when Aquino was assassinated on his return home and when his wife took over when the people power revolution took place, there under Ramos, Estrada, and now Gloria Arroyo. I have seen four presidents and one dictator. Next year will see someone else. There is a drive to implement a parliamentary system of government, which is favourable to the current incumbent, because it will permit her to become at best a Prime Minister or worst an MP. Some folk don't like to let go. It was 1979 when I first stepped foot on those shores - I was 23. Military rule was prominent, and bodies were left in the street whilst Ferdinand and Imelda built their palaces and courted western approval.
For all that I embraced the country and it's people. They are very special to me. Over the years I have contributed to it in my own way, and will continue to do so. Soon I will settle there for good. We all make choices, this is mine. I often view opinions about the country by some people with a degree of whimsy, but for someone who has never been, yet able to applaud the character and substance of it's people as you have done, I respect and admire you for it.
OK, well thanks for telling me that much. I won't push further. I've been in the Middle East for 7 years and am not exaggerating when saying that if the Filipino community all went home, these Gulf States would come to a halt. I wish you well when you finally move there to settle. Thanks for the conversation - enjoyed it!
Me too! All the best!
splendid.there is no other article that is as comprehensive as this.
itcoll - thanks for that!
great hub..I thank you for dedicating this hub to us (Filipinos)..I hope you get to know more about Filipinos if you can often visit our Country too...
Yvonne - so little time, but I'll certainly visit before I finally stop travelling (if ever!)
Peter M. Lopez says:
2 years ago
This is a great hub, you should be proud. Very informative.